The Church Fathers on this verse

James 4:3Meaning & Commentary from the Church Fathers

You ask and receive not: because you ask amiss, that you may consume it on your concupiscences.

Douay-Rheims

αιτειτε και ου λαμβανετε διοτι κακως αιτεισθε ινα εν ταις ηδοναις υμων δαπανησητε

Greek (Byzantine text)

The Church Fathers on this verse

12 Church Fathers comment on this verse · 13 commentaries

Theophylact of Bulgaria

11th centuryChurch Father

So it was with the Pharisee mentioned in the Gospel, Lk 18:10-14. The more he listed his virtues, the more he closed the divine hearing. His lofty speech was idle in his mouth and turned into foam, like a raging wave.

But someone will say: if the promise of the Lord Jesus, that unerring Teacher, is true, "Everyone who asks receives" (Mt 7:8), how does the present Apostle now say this?

We answer: for the one who approaches prayer by the proper path, that promise is true. He will not be deceived in anything he asks.

But if someone departs from the aim of prayer handed down to us, he may seem to ask, yet he does not ask as he ought. In truth, then, he does not ask, and therefore he will not receive.

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Imagine, for example, that a teacher of grammar promises to teach grammatical knowledge to everyone who comes to him. But one who wishes to learn comes in the wrong manner and does not exert himself to grasp what is taught.

If the result does not match the promise, would anyone rightly charge the teacher himself with falsehood? Such a person would act unreasonably. The one wishing to learn did not come as the teacher required.

How, then, and for what should one ask? Listen to Him who gave the promise mentioned above: "Seek first the Kingdom of God and His righteousness" (Mt 6:33).

Clearly, whoever asks in this way, and asks chiefly for this, will not be deceived in the other things whose reception will not tear him away from salvation.

But to one who asks for what is harmful and destructive, He from whom every good gift comes (Jas 1:17) will not grant it.

Even one who asks for knowledge of divine things, or for some other spiritual gift, will not receive if he asks for his desires. He asks wrongly and to his own destruction, and God does not give what is evil.

Above, the Apostle only lightly reproved certain false wise men. They distorted divine Scripture and used it perversely according to their own will, so as to have an occasion for their sensual life. This is not some other evil, but a form of pride.

Now he comes against them more severely. As though acting contrary to his own meekness, he uses reproachful words, calling such people adulterers and adulteresses. He offers almost this rebuke:

"Tell me, frivolous man, do you wish to present yourself as a wise man? But whence come conflicts and constant enmity in your life? Why this continual attachment to present things? Why this unceasing pursuit of the pleasures of the present life?

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"This belongs not to wise men, but to simple people inclined toward friendship with the world. This shows that you are adulterers. You prefer common, shameful, and filthy beauty to the divine and chaste beauty hidden within.

"By your pursuit of present things, you raise up enmity against God. Do you not know that friendship with the world is enmity against God? It removes us from the love of God and shows us to be His enemies."

By the world he here means the whole material life as the mother of corruption. Whoever partakes of it immediately becomes an enemy of God. In his zeal for what is useless, he treats divine things with negligence and contempt.

We behave in this way toward people whom we hate and regard as hostile.

There are two objects with which men are occupied: God and the world. Toward each of these two objects men turn with love or hatred. Therefore, as soon as we become strongly attached to one, we are clearly negligent of the other.

Attention produces love, and negligence produces hatred. Thus whoever cleaves to divine things is, and is called, a friend of God. Whoever neglects God and loves the world is among the enemies of God.

Since all this comes from the arrogance and pride of the false wise men, the Apostle uses yet another rebuke. He wishes to sober such people from drunkenness and awaken them from sleep.

He says: "Or do you think that Scripture speaks in vain: The spirit that dwells in us yearns to envy?"

Augustine of Hippo

5th centuryChurch Father

Thus he intends to misuse what he wishes to receive, and he does not receive it precisely because God is compassionate.

Maximus the Confessor

7th centuryChurch Father

The reward for labors in virtue consists in dispassion and knowledge. These lead into the Kingdom of Heaven, just as passions and ignorance lead into eternal torment. Therefore, to the one who seeks dispassion and knowledge for human glory rather than for their inward goodness, Scripture says, “You ask and do not receive, because you ask not for good.”

Dionysius the Areopagite

1st centuryChurch Father

Therefore the hierarch of God asks for what has been promised by God and loved by God, and this will certainly be granted. He shows his well-ordered state to the God who loves the good, and he makes clear to those present the gifts that await the venerable.

Andrew the Monk

6th centuryChurch Father

Some who think they ask do not receive. He anticipates the objections of those who contradict and ask badly for vain pleasures. But someone will say that certain people who ask for divine knowledge and the apprehension of the virtues do not receive them. It must be said to them that they were deemed worthy to receive the good things. Yet because they boast of them, and rejoicing in praises belongs to lovers of pleasure, these things are not given to them.

Beda Venerabilis

7th centuryChurch Father

Those also ask wrongly who remain in sin, do not renounce it in the least, and shamelessly beg the Lord to forgive it.

Jewgenij A. Popow

19th centuryChurch Father

Sin: prayer for what is vain, or directly contrary to God.

Some even bring a prayer directly opposed to God: "You do not receive, because you ask wrongly."

For example, one man, instead of forgetting an offense, prays to God that his offender be punished. Another has committed theft and does not set before God a firm intention to abandon this vice. He prays only that he be hidden from men and from judgment.

Others ask for something permissible, but with an impure intention. They may ask for wealth for a luxurious and merry life.

No. This is an undoubted defect in our worship of God: always to pray for earthly and vain things alone. It is still more sinful to ask God for what is impure in itself, or for something intended for an impure purpose.

Michail (Lusin)

19th centuryChurch Father

"You ask and do not receive," and so on. That is, even if you turn to God in prayer, your prayer remains vain. You do not receive what you ask in prayer, because you do not ask for good.

The object of your prayer does not concern what could bring you good, such as the destruction of the causes of your enmity and conflicts. Rather, it concerns the satisfaction of your desires (Jas 4:1), which produce these enmities and conflicts.

Since this object is impure and unworthy both of God, to whom such prayers are raised, and of the Christian who prays, such prayers remain fruitless. They cannot be heard and fulfilled by God: "You ask and do not receive."

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Thus every Christian prayer for impure objects, relating to the satisfaction of passions, remains vain. Its fulfillment would be harmful to the one praying, even though he may not understand this while he prays.

"Even one who asks for knowledge of divine things, or for some other spiritual gift, will not receive if he asks for his desires. He asks wrongly and to his own destruction" (Theophylact).

Nikanor (Kamenski)

19th centuryChurch Father

After speaking of the need to preserve peace, the Apostle James now examines the causes that disturb the peace of the Christians to whom he writes.

Earlier James had already spoken of evil desires as arising from personal temptations (see Jas 1:14). Here he explains that sins against neighbors also arise from the same source: envy, enmity, quarrels, fights, and murder.

From malice also comes the fruitlessness of prayers. Such prayers consist chiefly in requests for earthly goods, not for the higher spiritual goods with which a Christian should be especially and wholly filled. Therefore he should pray above all for them.

Nikolaj Alexandrow

19th centuryChurch Father

In chapter 4 the Apostle shows the fruits of preaching demonic wisdom in public life.

The preachers of this wisdom flatter men's low desires. They implant love for earthly goods and instill the proud thought that man, by his own efforts and without God's help, can attain happiness and prosperity.

Yet bitter reality most often destroys this self-confident and frivolous theory of arranging earthly prosperity without mercy. As a result, enmity and conflict arise in people's mutual relations.

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"You desire," says the Apostle, "and do not have. You murder and envy, and cannot obtain. You quarrel and fight, and do not have, because you do not ask God. And if you sometimes turn to prayer, you do not receive, because you ask not for good, but to spend it on your desires" (vv. 2-3).

Philaret of Moscow (Drosdow)

19th centuryChurch Father

Whoever does not strive to cleanse his path to God from moral stumbling blocks diminishes for himself the hope of attaining what he desires.

Habitual thoughts of passions and vices follow after his prayer. They disturb it, weaken it, and hinder it.

An unpacified conscience deprives prayer of freedom and boldness before God. An uncleansed heart asks goods from the heavenly Father not in order to use them according to His will, but to satisfy its passionate and biased desires more freely.

The apostolic word portrays such worshipers and the fate of their prayer in severe strokes: "You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, that you may spend it on your pleasures."

Didymus the Blind

4th centuryTeacher of the Church

When the Savior says, “Ask, and it will be given to you” (Mt 7:7), and also makes His words trustworthy by saying, “Everyone who asks receives” (Mt 7:8), one wants to examine how some who ask are not heard when they ask to receive what they wished to have. To this one must say that whoever approaches what he asks for in the proper way, including the means connected with attaining what he desires, receives everything he asked to be given. But if someone is found to demand beyond the content of the request presented, he is not believed to ask only what is fitting. Therefore he does not receive what he asks.

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Greek text, 13 words with lemma, transliteration and Strong’s number. Tap to expand.

  1. αἰτεῖτε
    aiteite
    I ask
    G154 · αἰτέω
  2. καὶ
    kai
    and
    G2532 · καί
  3. οὐ
    ou
    no
    G3756 · οὐ
  4. λαμβάνετε
    lambanete
    I receive
    G2983 · λαμβάνω
  5. διότι
    dioti
    on this account
    G1360 · διότι
  6. κακῶς
    kakōs
    badly
    G2560 · κακῶς
  7. αἰτεῖσθε
    aiteisthe
    I ask
    G154 · αἰτέω
  8. ἵνα
    hina
    in order that
    G2443 · ἵνα
  9. ἐν
    en
    in
    G1722 · ἐν
  10. ταῖς
    tais
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  11. ἡδοναῖς
    hēdonais
    pleasure
    G2237 · ἡδονή
  12. ὑμῶν
    hymōn
    you
    G4771 · σύ
  13. δαπανήσητε
    dapanēsēte
    I spend
    G1159 · δαπανάω