It is disgraceful to neglect gratitude towards the one who cares for you; just as the love you receive can spark affection for someone you previously did not love, you must cultivate a love for virtue in those who are difficult to love, allowing that love for virtue to help you open your heart to them. The rewards of love may be fleeting and infrequent, but the rewards of virtue endure forever.
The apostle’s declaration that love is kind, does not harbor envy, and does not boast (1 Cor. 13:4) finds its culmination in these teachings. If love is patient, it must exhibit forbearance toward those who cause harm; if it is compassionate, it should not retaliate against insults; if it does not seek its own interests (1 Cor. 13:5), it must not resist a thief; and if it is devoid of envy, it cannot harbor hate for an adversary. The commandments of divine love surpass those of the apostles, for it is nobler to give than to submit, and to love one's enemies is a higher calling than merely to refrain from envy. The Lord exemplified all of this: when insulted, He did not return the insult; when assaulted, He did not retaliate (1 Pet. 2:23); when stripped of His garments, He did not fight back; and as He was crucified, He interceded for those who persecuted Him, saying, Father, forgive their sin, for they know not what they do (Lk. 23:34). He absolved His accusers of their guilt.