In contrast, one who refuses to pardon others for their wrongs, who harbors resentment and wishes ill upon them—can they truly presume to seek God's forgiveness for their own misdeeds? The answer to this is found in the enlightening words of our Savior: "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; but if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." Thus, prior to petitioning God for the forgiveness of our sins, we must first grant forgiveness to all who have wronged us; furthermore, we ought to be reconciled with those who harbor grievances against us or feel offended by our actions. Only then are we positioned to seek forgiveness for our sins. Contemplate the significance of this prayer: "forgive us our sins as we forgive those who have sinned against us." If you withhold forgiveness from those who have hurt you, consider the gravity of such a statement that you recite daily. In essence, you are requesting God not to forgive you! You are asking Him to forgive you in the same manner that you extend forgiveness; and if you cling to a grudge against those who have wronged you, your request to God becomes one for Him not to forgive you. Reflect on this and refrain from asking God for the absolution of your sins if you cannot extend forgiveness to those who have harmed you. Act quickly to forgive everyone, lest you find it too late. You cannot know when your time in this world will conclude, and beyond this life, there exists no opportunity for repentance or forgiveness! As Blessed Augustine observed, "God has graciously entered into a covenant with us; He says to you, 'Forgive me, and I will forgive you.'” The essential need to forgive all wrongs before receiving forgiveness for one's own sins was illustrated by Christ in the parable of the unforgiving servant (Matthew 18:21-35), concluding with these words: "Then his lord, after he had called him, said to him, 'You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you begged me; should you not also have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had pity on you?' And his lord was angry and delivered him to the torturers until he should pay all that was due to him. So My heavenly Father also will do to you if each of you, from his heart, does not forgive his brother his trespasses" (Matthew 18:32-35).