Adversaries do this to stir up our wrath: they curse us, hoping we'll respond in kind; they accuse us, seeking to draw out accusations in return; they insult us in hopes of driving us to humiliation and causing us to retaliate. Peter beautifully articulated of the Lord Jesus in his epistle, "When He was reviled, He did not revile in return; when He suffered, He did not threaten" (1 Pet. 2:23). A righteous individual, aligning his life with the example of the Lord, remains silent when accused, forgives when offended, and remains calm in humiliation, emulating Him who, like a lamb led to slaughter, "did not open His mouth" (Isa. 53:7; Jer. 11:19). He preferred silence over speech, though He had a response. Our Lord Jesus, when faced with accusation, remained quiet, and though struck, He did not retaliate. After receiving blows, He asked, "If I have spoken evil, bear witness of the evil; but if well, why do you strike Me?" (John 18:23). Observe how He appeared powerless and bewildered, as if unable to defend Himself. In the same manner, even if you could expose your accuser, it is wiser to remain silent and avoid revealing your irritation; it is better to conceal your offense than to seek revenge through denunciation. A silent individual is truly blessed; they will not utter evil, and no accusations will escape their lips. Such silence is a blessing; even while quiet, they may reflect, "The Lord has given me the tongue of the learned" (Isaiah 50:4), knowing when to speak a word of wisdom. Similar thoughts were expressed by Zechariah during his silence. Indeed, words would have served him no good, and he chose silence rather than to speak; yet, when he did articulate, Christ heard him (Luke 1:18-20, 64, 67). Zechariah noted that Christ listened to him, and he was granted a prophetic voice from Christ, receiving a grace to prophesy about Him whom he had formerly doubted. Why boast of the Lord of all virtues when Susanna (Dan. 13:42-43), though aware of her peril, proclaimed her innocence with unwavering courage? She was wrongfully accused and chose silence, facing death while maintaining her purity. In her heart, she sought the Lord, who was more attentive to her in her stillness, for should she have sought to justify herself aloud, He may not have listened.
And you, wishing to seek forgiveness from the Lord your God, cleanse yourself from within, directing your heart solely to Him who can purify your transgressions. He aids you even when an accusation arises. When someone spoke ill of David, Abishai sought vengeance on his behalf, but David replied, "Leave him alone, let him curse; for so the Lord has commanded him to show me my shame, and the Lord will repay me good for his cursing today" (2 Samuel 16:11-12). Notice that help can also come through the rebukes of your enemies, so that the Lord may aid you and absolve your sin. If you find yourself accusing yourself, cataloging your misdeeds, and accepting blame, why seek to evade reproach? True repentance requires patience and softens grave wrongs. Why allow anger against others when your conscience pricks you? Why allow irritation when you ought to be in tears? He who holds himself accountable must heal his own wounds rather than inflict pain on others. No one finds healing by harming others. "Physician, heal thyself" (Luke 4:23). This is directed toward the healer, yet even more so should the accused tend to their own healing! You confess your sin while being your own judge: even if your claims are truthful, they are out of place. To the sinner, God proclaims, "Why do you declare My statutes?" (Psalm 49:16). You have consistently opposed the Law; why claim the authority to judge? Why pause for tears? Why engage in foolish talk during disputes, when it is written, "You shall not follow a crowd to do evil" (Ex. 23:1), and from the Gospel, you read that you will be held accountable for every idle word (Matt. 12:36)? Even if someone speaks, you should remain silent; even if they scold, you should cover your ears.