The Apostle Paul felt deep concern seeing how gradually his message was received by the wayward Galatians, prompting him to exclaim, “My children, for whom I am again in the throes of childbirth, until Christ is formed in you” (Galatians 4:19). The Lord recognizes in the Gospel the intense suffering associated with childbirth: "A woman, when she gives birth, has sorrow because her hour has come; but when she has delivered the child, she no longer remembers the anguish for joy that a human being has been born into the world" (John 16:21).
It requires great effort to truly embrace Christ for ourselves, or else we risk drifting like a rudderless ship on the ocean of this world. When Christ informed the apostles of His return to the Father, they were filled with sadness, fearing they would be left without a leader. Christ embodies joy; He is the child that humanity brings forth, carrying within our minds the Spirit of salvation. Those who have already nurtured Him rejoice, while those still in the process may feel doubt and anxiety. It is essential to give birth to Him and provide for His growth. Avoid improper practices: “You shall not boil a young goat in its mother’s milk” (Exodus 23:19), lest you hear the foreboding words, “Woe to those who are pregnant and nursing” (Matthew 24:19)!
Christ was born of Mary so that we might recognize Him, as the ox recognizes its master (Isaiah 1:3), understanding that He is our Creator and the Lord of those who came before us. Nourish Him not as an infant, but honor Him as the true and perfect God, who comes from the true and perfect God. The Magi revered Him in this manner, recognizing Him not merely in the humble setting of a mother’s milk, but as the eternal God Himself. They looked to the heavens for guidance, rather than searching earthly places, for they followed the star that shone above. Mary did not suffer the pains of childbirth, for she understood the magnitude of bringing forth her Lord and Savior, as seen in her proclamation: “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior” (Luke 1:46–47). Thus, the anguish relates to the journey of bringing Him into your life, as well as nurturing Him. From the very beginning, it is crucial to acknowledge His perfection.