Augustine of Hippo
"And by this we know Him," John says, "if we keep His commandments." Which commandments? "Whoever says that he has known Him, but does not keep His commandments, is a liar, and the truth is not in him."
But you still ask, "Which commandments?" "But whoever keeps His word, in him truly the love of God has been perfected." Let us see whether love is here called the commandment. We asked what these commandments are, and he said: "Whoever keeps His word, in him truly the love of God has been perfected."
Consult the Gospel, and see whether this is not His commandment: "A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another" (Jn 13:34). By this we know that we are in Him, if we are perfected in Him. Here he speaks of perfection in love.
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What is the perfection of love? To love even enemies, and to love them so that they may become brothers. For our love must not be according to the flesh. To wish temporal well-being for someone is good. But if that is absent, let the soul remain whole and preserved.
Do you wish life for your friend? You do well. Do you rejoice at the death of your enemy? You do badly. Yet perhaps the life you wish for your friend is unprofitable for him, and the death you wish for your enemy was profitable for him.
Whether this life is profitable or unprofitable for anyone is unknown. But the life that is with God is undoubtedly profitable. Love your enemies so that you desire to make them brothers. Love your enemies so that they may heed the call to be in communion with you.
For so loved He who, hanging on the Cross, said: "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do" (Lk 23:34). He did not say, "Father, let them live long. Though they kill Me, let them live."
What did He say? "Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do." By His all-merciful prayer and surpassing authority, He drove eternal death away from them. Many of them believed, and the blood of Christ which they had shed was forgiven them.
First, in frenzy, they shed it. Now, with faith, they drink it. Therefore we know that we are in Him, if we are perfected in Him. Giving instruction about this perfection of love for enemies, the Lord said: "Therefore be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect" (Mt 5:48).