John Chrysostom
There is nothing better than a virtuous life, both here and there, both among the enlightened and among the catechumens.
Tell me, what difficult thing has been prescribed to us? The commandment says, have a wife and be continent. Tell me, is this difficult?
How could it be difficult, when many are continent even without a wife, not only Christians but also pagans? What a pagan does from vainglory, will you not do from the fear of God?
"Give alms from your possessions," Scripture says (Tob 4:7). Is this difficult? Yet here too the pagans will condemn us, for they squandered all their possessions from vainglory alone.
Do not speak foul words. Is this difficult? Even if it had not been commanded, should we not have done this ourselves, so as not to appear dishonorable?
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On the contrary, foul speech is difficult. This is clear because a man is ashamed in his soul and blushes when he happens to say something of this sort.
He will not even dare to say it unless he is drunk. Why do you not do this while sitting in the marketplace, even if you do it at home?
Is it not because of those present? Why do you not do it at once even before your wife? Is it not so as not to offend her?
So, to avoid offending your wife, you do not do this. Yet when you offend God, are you not ashamed? And He is everywhere present and hears everything.
"And do not be drunk with wine," it is said (Eph 5:18), and it is well said. For is not drunkenness itself a punishment?
He did not say, wear out the body. What then did He say? "Do not be drunk." That is, do not give it freedom so that it casts off the rule of the soul.
What then? Should one not care for the body? No, that is not what I say. Rather, do not indulge its desires.
So also Paul commands when he says, "Make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts" (Rom 13:14).
Do not seize what belongs to another, it is said. Do not be covetous. Do not swear. What labors and contests does this require?
Do not revile, it is said. Do not slander. Is this difficult? The opposite is truly difficult.
When you say something evil about someone, you immediately fall into danger and anxiety: perhaps the one of whom you spoke has heard.
Whether he is important or unimportant, there is danger. If he is important, you will immediately experience real danger. If he is unimportant, he will repay you in kind, and even much more.
He will say still worse things about you. No, nothing difficult and nothing burdensome has been commanded us, if only we are willing.
But if we are unwilling, even the easiest thing will seem difficult to us. What is easier than eating? Yet many, from extreme softness, are burdened even by this.
I hear many saying that even eating is labor. There is no labor in all that has been said above, if only you are willing. After the highest grace, everything lies in the will.
Let us therefore desire the good, that we may be counted worthy of eternal good things, by the grace and love for mankind of our Lord Jesus Christ, with Whom to the Father, together with the Holy Spirit, be glory, dominion, and honor, now and ever, and unto the ages of ages. Amen.