The latter were called foolish or unreasonable because, while preserving bodily virginity, they did not care to preserve purity of soul. They defiled mind and heart with unclean thoughts and desires.
Or they were troubled by thoughts of anger and remembrance of wrongs, or envy and hatred. Or they were blinded by love of money, and through stinginess were without compassion for their neighbors.
Even if some of them seemed to restrain themselves from these passions, yet, overcome by self-conceit and pride, by judging and despising their neighbors, they thereby lost purity of soul. As it is said: "Everyone proud in heart is unclean before God" (Prov 16:5).
What is said about the passions in relation to virgins also applies to widows and to the married. The Lord Himself said to the Apostles: "What I say to you, I say to all" (Mk 13:37).
What is the chief means for leading a holy life? The Lord Himself, through the same Apostle Peter, points to this means, saying: "If you call upon Me as Father, who without partiality judges each according to his work, conduct the time of your life in fear" (1 Pet 1:17).
These words show that the chief means for living piously and holily consists in the fear of God, and in fear of the future judgment and eternal torments.
Only with the aid of this fear, and with God's help, does the keeping of the commandments take place. As it is said in the Psalms: "Blessed is the man who fears the Lord. He will greatly delight in His commandments."
Without fear, even if a man lived in heaven, according to St. Peter of Damascus, he would gain no benefit if he had pride. By it Satan, Adam, and many others fell.
If the word of God commands even all the saints to have the fear of God, saying, "Fear the Lord, all His saints, for there is no want to those who fear Him" (Ps 33:10), how much more must we, sinful and unreformed, have the fear of God.
We must also have the fear of death, of the dread Judgment of God, and of eternal torments in Hades. Yet we must temper this fear with hope of inheriting the Kingdom of Heaven, if we compel ourselves as much as possible to repentance and amendment.
The fear of God and remembrance of the four last things restrain us from falls into sin. As it is said: "Remember your last things, and you will never sin" (Sir 7:39).
May we all obtain this through the ineffable mercy and almighty help of Him who was born of the Holy Virgin, our Lord Jesus Christ. Let us earnestly pray to Him for this. Amen.
The holy Apostle Peter writes: "As obedient children, do not be conformed to the former lusts which were in your ignorance. But according to the Holy One who called you, you also be holy in all your conduct. For it is written: Be holy, because I am holy" (1 Pet 1:14-16).
This commandment means that a person must preserve chastity and bodily and spiritual purity, not only with respect to the passion of fornication, but also with respect to other passions. Envy, hatred, and remembrance of wrongs also constitute impurity of soul.