“He says, ‘giving no offense in anything, that our ministry may be blameless.’
“He draws persuasion not only from the time, as he did above, but also from the example of those who struggled as they ought.
“And see how modestly he does this. He did not say, ‘Look at us, for we are such and such.’
“Rather, as though defending himself against an accusation, he enumerates his struggles and virtues.
“He lays down two distinguishing marks of a blameless life. The first is ‘giving no offense in anything.’
“He did not say ‘accusation,’ but something much slighter, ‘offense.’ That is, giving no one even an occasion for slander and reproaches against us.
“‘That our ministry may be blameless,’ lest anyone begin to reproach this ministry.
“Again he did not say, ‘lest anyone begin to reproach or accuse it.’ He said that it should not give even a chance occasion for anyone to reproach it in anything.
“The second mark is, ‘but in all things commending ourselves as servants of God’ (v. 4), which is much higher than the preceding.
“For it is not the same thing to be free from accusation and to order oneself so that it is evident in everything that we are servants of God.
“Likewise, it is one thing to avoid reproach, and another to be praised.
“He did not say ‘showing ourselves’ (φαινομενοι, appearing outwardly), but ‘commending ourselves’ (συνιςωντες).
“That is, in deed and from the heart, presenting ourselves as such, or being such.
“Then he speaks also of how they became such. How then?
“‘In much patience, in afflictions, in necessities, in distresses.’ He placed patience as the foundation of the good things.
“For this reason he did not simply say, ‘in patience,’ but ‘in much patience,’ to show its measure and extent.
“For to endure one misfortune or two is not yet a great thing. Therefore he enumerates a multitude of afflictions and temptations, saying, ‘in afflictions, in necessities.’”
“In afflictions” means not occasions which weigh down only outwardly, but those which strike and wound the heart and are truly painful sorrows.
“In necessities,” αναγκαις, means in needs and extremities, by which what is sorrowful is felt still more sorrowfully.
“Extremity intensifies sorrow, presenting the evil that oppresses a man as inescapable” (Theophylact).
“For sorrow is usually increased when one cannot turn away from misfortunes, and when some inescapable necessity seems to demand suffering” (Chrysostom).
“In distresses.” Distress is the last degree of extremity. Evil has seized and presses down, like a beast that has caught its prey.
He means “distress from hunger and necessary wants, or simply the distress of temptations in general” (Chrysostom).
It is “a sorrowful condition from which no easy way out presented itself” (Oecumenius).