2 Kingdoms (2 Samuel) 13:14Meaning & Commentary from the Church Fathers

It is indeed the case that the individual who engages in sin finds themselves in a state of humility, as nothing brings one down like sin itself. Consequently, we describe those who have been tainted and have forfeited the purity of virginity as humble. For instance, it is recounted that Amnon rose against Tamar and ‘humbled her.’ Thus, those who have surrendered the nobility and elevation of their spirits, who have been dragged down by sin and appear as if fixed to the ground, bending like a serpent, and are unable to fully rise to an upright posture, can be considered humble, but not in a commendable way, as their humility lacks true merit. St. Basil notably addresses the subject of sexual violence, stating that ‘the act of abuse that constitutes violence should not face condemnation. Consequently, if a servant is violated by her master, she bears no fault (Rule 49).’

The entirety of the adversary's influence over humanity is rooted in our desires. Would you like to grasp the validity of this assertion? Reflect on the illustrations provided. And to prevent any individual from depending on their own strength in their familial relationships, let us recall the case of Ammon, who harbored unlawful desires for his sister Tamar.

One should not place trust in past purity, as even David, revered for his righteousness, and Solomon, esteemed for his wisdom, found their hearts led astray by women. To guard against the assumption that one's purity is secure in the company of a female relative, one ought to recall how Tamar was violated by Amnon, who feigned illness. Therefore, both monks and nuns are called to lead such a life of holiness that they may bear witness not only to God but also to humanity, serving as examples of virtue for their communities.