2 Kingdoms (2 Samuel) 3:20Meaning & Commentary from the Church Fathers

David willingly united the people to himself in the execution of his responsibilities. During a period of conflict among the populace, he chose to live as an exile in Hebron rather than take the throne in Jerusalem (See 2 Samuel 2:11). He demonstrated his respect for bravery, even in his adversaries, believing that fairness ought to extend to those who fought against him as well as to his allies. He recognized Avenir, the most courageous warrior from the opposing faction, while he was leading and engaging in battle. When Avenir sought peace, David did not turn him away; instead, he honored him with a feast. Following a deceitful act that led to Avenir's death, David mourned deeply for him.