It is as if he teaches: whatever you gather in Scripture, like a wise bee, carry it into the souls of the flock. “To what, precisely, does the Apostle adjure him? What is this? ‘Preach the word.’ Do not hide, or bury in the ground, the gift that is in you. O let us who are lazy in preaching fear this!” (Blessed Theophylact).
“Be urgent in season and out of season.” “Be urgent” means: always stand on this, that you preach. “Preach constantly, speak tirelessly. Do not speak once and let that be enough, but always speak and teach” (Blessed Theophylact).
“What does ‘in season and out of season’ mean? Do not appoint a fixed time. Let every time be the time for you to do this, and not only in time of peace, calm, or when staying in church. Even if you are in danger, even in prison, even in bonds, even if you are preparing to go to death, reprove at that time too and do not cease to instruct. Reproof is in season when it can have success, or when a convenient occasion presents itself” (Saint Chrysostom).
“The holy Apostle commands Timothy not simply to preach in any manner whatever, but to count every time suitable for this. He himself did this, teaching in prison, on a ship, and at a set table. What happened in Philippi, in Troas, and at sea bears witness to this” (Blessed Theodoret).
“‘In season and out of season’ was said by the Apostle in the same sense as in ordinary speech. Some think so, and they consider a peaceful and calm time as in season for preaching, while a time of distress is out of season, when there is no time for preaching. Others again consider preaching in church in season, and outside church out of season.
“Or still otherwise: do not wait for the time of falling, but teach before someone falls” (Blessed Theophylact). Do not wait for a time. As soon as you see that preaching is needed and can bring benefit, preach, whatever circumstances you are in.
“Reprove.” “When you see that this must be done, that is, when you find someone sinning or intending to sin, do not let the occasion pass in vain.” Reproof applies both to the one who is turning into other-mindedness and to the one who violates the commandments. Reproof aims to reveal wrong-mindedness to one and wrong conduct to the other. It aims to bring both to awareness of guilt and awaken in them the desire for correction. It requires a firm heart, so as not to be ashamed before anyone’s face.
“Rebuke.” “After you reprove and prove to the erring person his error, rebuke him” (Blessed Theophylact). Επιτιμησον means: compel him to correct himself also by the severity of pastoral authority. It also means: place a penance on him, use the Church’s corrective punishments, applying them like plasters to wounds. By this one is required to bring him to the decision to correct himself and place him on the path of correction.
“Exhort,” παρακαλεσον, means both entreat and persuade, and comfort. Both are needed by the one being corrected, so that he may willingly and gladly take up the work of self-correction. Here encouragement with success is fitting, and with the ease of attaining it, and still more with the brightness of the state of one who lives rightly.
“Rebuke and punishment are like cutting, and consolation is like a pleasant plaster. Therefore apply the plaster of consolation, so that the cutting alone, producing extreme pain, may not cast one into despair” (Blessed Theophylact). “Like physicians, after pointing out the abscess and making the incision, he now applies the plaster” (Saint Chrysostom). “When a disease is hidden, physicians first make an incision and use harsh medicines, and afterward apply softening powders” (Blessed Theodoret).
To what has been said, “reprove, rebuke, exhort,” Saint Chrysostom adds this application: “If anything from all this is omitted, the rest becomes useless. If you rebuke without reproof, you will appear brazen, and no one will listen. But if you first reprove, then the hearer will accept the rebuke. Without this he will remain shameless.
“On the other hand, if you reprove and rebuke, even with power, but do not offer consolation, you will again spoil the whole matter. For reproof by itself is unbearable if it is not mixed with consolation. When a wound is cut, even if the cutting is saving, the sufferer cannot bear the pains of cutting and incision unless many means are used to soften the pain. So it is here.”
“With all long-suffering and teaching.” Since the matter concerns the correction of infirmities, and they do not at once yield to remedies, the healing pastor needs patience above all, and not a little, but long patience. Since the whole healing occurs through the free change of thoughts, feelings, and dispositions, and this can be attained chiefly through a change in convictions, the pastor must chiefly direct his care and effort toward this.
Therefore let him join teaching to long-suffering, or let him teach patiently, without becoming annoyed at lack of success, but with meekness and love. Saint Chrysostom says: “The one who instructs must have long-suffering while teaching, so that the hearer may believe not without reason.
“What does the word added to long-suffering mean, ‘and teaching’? Reprove not with anger, not with hatred, not with malice, not with enmity, as if against an enemy. All this must be left aside. But how? With love, with compassion, grieving more than the one reproved, and inwardly pitying his condition.”