John Chrysostom
Laban crafted a reasonable justification. Aware of Jacob's affection for the young woman, he remarked, ‘Do not take offense; I have acted this way because it is our custom to marry off the eldest daughter first.’
Laban answered: It is not the custom in this place, to give the younger in marriage first.
וַיֹּ֣אמֶר לָבָ֔ן לֹא־יֵעָשֶׂ֥ה כֵ֖ן בִּמְקוֹמֵ֑נוּ לָתֵ֥ת הַצְּעִירָ֖ה לִפְנֵ֥י הַבְּכִירָֽה׃
2 Church Fathers comment on this verse
Laban crafted a reasonable justification. Aware of Jacob's affection for the young woman, he remarked, ‘Do not take offense; I have acted this way because it is our custom to marry off the eldest daughter first.’
Had Laban desired to uphold proper protocols and conventions, he ought to have communicated his intentions to Jacob prior to the agreement involving seven years of work. However, the trickery he employed reveals that his primary aim was not to honor his firstborn daughter, but to secure a cost-effective laborer in Jacob for an additional seven years.