John Chrysostom
The concept of virginity is well understood, and it cannot be claimed that wealth and material blessings lead to looseness and disarray of spirit. Thus, I render my judgment and postpone it, directing our praises to God. To you who are subjected to ridicule and indulgence, and who find joy in earthly delights, you will be raised to glory. Conversely, one who remains entrenched in a misguided life surrenders himself to a miserable existence, having once been like a goat-headed man, running about, mocking and persecuting others, ultimately falling into a chaotic and wretched state.
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Would you like to learn about purity? “A covenant,” he declares, “I have made with my eyes, that I should not gaze upon a maiden” (Matthew 5:28). In this, he followed the command of Christ and lived out its truth.
Observe the extent of his commitment to all aspects of godliness. He trains his gaze to abide by the principles of holiness and cultivates all his faculties in the pursuit of truth, and behold, though born into a wayward lineage, he exhibited the highest devotion.
The esteemed Job was not only vigilant in maintaining self-control but also established strict rules for his eyes, forbidding them to gaze upon a maiden’s beauty, fearing that such allure might captivate his thoughts. It is astonishing to witness this man, who courageously battled the devil and repudiated all the schemes of the adversary, turn away from the gaze of a young woman. When confronted by the devil, he did not retreat, standing firm as a lion, yet at the sight of a maiden, he did not linger to admire her beauty, but departed without hesitation. He recognized that strength is required to confront demons, while victory in the realm of purity is achieved not through contact with maidens, but through a deliberate separation from them. If you wish to hear more of his virtues of chastity, listen to his own words: “I have made a covenant with my eyes, that I should not think of a maiden.” This is the reason his wife could not sway his steadfastness; he loved her as a husband should, with affection appropriate to their relationship but not in excess.