THEOSISJohn Chrysostom
Do you recognize the multitude of connections that the Lord has established? Within this framework reside the inherent bonds of harmony. Indeed, the oneness of essence fosters this feeling, for as it is noted, "every animal loves the like of itself" (Sir. 13:19)—the wife originates from her husband, and children from both of them. Consequently, a variety of affections exists: there is love for a father, another for a grandfather, love for a mother, and for a caregiver; there is love for a son, grandson, or great-grandson, as well as for a daughter or granddaughter; love is felt for a brother and for a nephew, a sister and a niece. However, why enumerate all forms of kinship?
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The Almighty introduces an additional impetus for love: by prohibiting unions between blood relatives, He has drawn our hearts toward those outside our immediate circle, thus creating closeness among those who were once strangers. Lacking a natural bond, He forges connections through marriage, bringing entire households together through a single bride and uniting families with other families. He instructs, “Do not take as your wife, your sister, nor your father’s sister, nor any other maiden related to you in a manner that precludes marriage,” specifying the types of kinship that disallow such unions. Your affection for them suffices given that you share the same womb or a different familial tie. Why, then, should the scope of love be limited? Why not instead enhance your capacity for love by marrying someone from outside your family, thus introducing you to an entire network of new relatives—mother, father, brothers, and their neighbors? Consider how many means the Lord has employed to unite us.