THEOSISJohn Chrysostom
Consider how many bonds of affection the Lord has woven together. Within this framework lies the inherent promise of harmony, for indeed, the unity of our nature fosters connection, as “every animal loves the like of itself” (Sir. 13:19)—the relationship between husband and wife, and the subsequent lineage that flows from them. Consequently, we experience various forms of love: we cherish some as a father, others as a grandfather; some as a mother, and others as a caregiver; we love sons, grandsons, and great-grandsons, as well as daughters and granddaughters; brothers, nephews, sisters, and nieces, each in distinct ways. But why must we enumerate each type of kinship?
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God has introduced another principle for love by prohibiting marriages among close relatives, redirecting our affections toward those outside our bloodlines and binding them closely to us. Since these individuals are not connected to us by blood, He has forged connections through marriage, joining entire households through one bride, and intertwining families as well. He declared, "Do not take as your wife your sister, nor your father's sister, nor any other maiden who is related to you in a way that prevents marriage,” explicitly detailing these relationships. Your kinship with them suffices for love, whether by birth or other ties. Thus, why should we confine the scope of our love? Why not instead enrich our capacity to love by welcoming a wife from outside our kin, gaining not only her love but also her family—parents, siblings, and their acquaintances? Reflect on the myriad ways God has intertwined our lives.