The Church Fathers on this verse

Luke 14:12Meaning & Commentary from the Church Fathers

And he said to him also that had invited him: When thou makest a dinner or a supper, call not thy friends nor thy brethren nor thy kinsmen nor thy neighbours who are rich; lest perhaps they also invite thee again, and a recompense be made to thee.

Douay-Rheims

ελεγεν δε και τω κεκληκοτι αυτον οταν ποιης αριστον η δειπνον μη φωνει τους φιλους σου μηδε τους αδελφους σου μηδε τους συγγενεις σου μηδε γειτονας πλουσιους μηποτε και αυτοι σε αντικαλεσωσιν και γενηται σοι ανταποδομα

Greek (Byzantine text)

The Church Fathers on this verse

11 Church Fathers comment on this verse

John Chrysostom

4th centuryChurch Father

Indeed, not indiscriminately, but rather to those who are hungry, thirsty, in need of clothing, strangers, or the poor seeking wealth. Christ proclaimed, "Ye have fed me," emphasizing that in feeding the needy, you have truly fed Him, as He states, "I was hungry, and you gave me food" (Matt. 25:35). This presents a dual directive: if one is to be fed who is in need, how much greater the obligation towards the suffering believer. However, if a person is holy but has no want, do not give to him, for it serves no purpose; this is not the command of Christ. Contentment without need does not denote holiness. Notice that this is not expressed for any selfish advantage, but for your own good.

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Feed the hungry man, lest you find yourself igniting the fires of Gehenna; the needy will take a portion of your resources while also sanctifying the remainder. Reflect on how the widow provided sustenance for Elijah. She did not merely feed, but in providing, she also received. The reward for such generosity is not limited to flour or oil, but what? A hundredfold—eternal life. The grace of God will abound, and you shall gain spiritual nourishment, pure leaven. She was a widow in dire circumstances, yet this did not deter her; despite having children, she pressed on. She is akin to one who offers two mites. She did not ponder, "What will I gain from him? If he truly had power, he would not suffer hunger. He would have ceased the drought and avoided such misfortune. Perhaps he too has sinned against God?" Such thoughts did not cross her mind. Do you see how virtuous it is to give with a simple heart, without hesitation regarding the recipient? Had she allowed herself to be overly discerning, she would have succumbed to confusion and disbelief. Likewise, Abraham would not have welcomed the angels if he had been overly inquisitive, for it is seldom that someone who is too choosy accepts a righteous person; more often, they fall prey to impostors. To elucidate this, the devout seek not to appear righteous and shun any façade, even at the risk of exposure, while the deceiver, whose art is deception, appears excessively pious, making it challenging to discern his true nature. Consequently, one who does good to those seemingly wicked may inadvertently embrace the actually righteous, while someone who seeks the commendation of the virtuous often falls for the deceitful.

Theophylact of Bulgaria

11th centuryChurch Father

At the supper gathering, there existed two types of individuals - those who received the invitation and those who initiated the call. The Lord initially encouraged the invited guests, imparting the essence of saving humility and providing them with simple nourishment. Subsequently, He acknowledged those who summoned Him, advising them against seeking their reward through human approval and urging them to anticipate immediate recompense. The timid, when they host friends or family, often do so with the expectation of quick appreciation; if such gratitude is lacking, they become troubled.

Cyrill of Alexandria

5th centuryChurch Father

The marvel of the human intellect is truly astonishing, revealing itself in an array of forms and evident in various ways. Just as an artist cannot achieve perfect beauty in a painting with a single hue, but rather requires a blend of diverse colors, so too does the Creator, who is the Source and Master of spiritual beauty, enrich our souls with a rich tapestry of virtues reflecting the entirety of holy attributes. This divine craftsmanship aims to cultivate His image within us. In His intelligent beings, the truest and most sublime beauty lies in the reflection of God, which is instilled in us through a clear vision of the Divine and through virtues developed by our active participation.

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Let us contemplate how our Lord Jesus Christ beautifies our souls by imparting every form of spiritual grace. He gently instructed the Pharisees and the scribes to adopt a posture of humility and to foster a mindset free from self-importance, urging them not to seek out the premier seats. By dining among them, He intended to bring them benefits, even if reluctantly received. He then addressed the host of the gathering, saying: “When you give a dinner or a supper, do not invite your friends, or your brothers, or your relatives, or your rich neighbors, but rather invite the poor, the maimed, the blind, and the lame.”

Can He truly foster disheartenment within us? Does He desire us to become unwelcoming and unloving, disregarding even our closest friends and kin who deserve our affection? Is He instructing us to overlook those nearest in our hearts? Does He negate the principles of hospitality? How bewildering and foolish it would be to think that He could contradict His own teachings.

What lesson is He imparting? Perhaps it is this: Those who possess great wealth often indulge in lavish displays meant for their own gratification, boasting about their generosity. They frequently host grand feasts designed to showcase their riches, presenting extravagant meals that veer toward wastefulness. Such ostentation invites admiration and accolades from their guests, rewarding them with empty flattery, which they relish as though they have acquired something of true worth. Indeed, flatterers tend to celebrate what deserves censure. What value lies in such excessive indulgence, save for what is necessary? As Christ Himself said, “few things are necessary, or only one thing,” to satisfy physical needs. Therefore, to safeguard against losing the merit of our generosity, and to invest our resources in ways that yield true fruitfulness, He instructs us to invite the poor, the crippled, the blind, and those afflicted by various ailments, that through our kindness we may attain the hope that ascends from God above.

Ambrose of Milan

4th centuryChurch Father

Next, the lesson of humility is presented, illustrated by the wedding banquet in the parable, as referenced in Luke 14:7-11. Here, the pursuit of a place of honor is discouraged, yet this is done gently, as gentle encouragement avoids harsh compulsion; the mind understands persuasion, while teaching redirects one’s thoughts. The teaching of the Lord closely connects with kindness extended to the less fortunate and those in need, for offering hospitality to someone who can reciprocate merely reveals a greedy spirit.

Euthymios Zigabenos

11th centuryCommentator

Observe the profound benefit He gained from the gathering, specifically through His counsel regarding what is appropriate for those invited, encouraging the invited. He didn’t say, "when you hold a wedding," but rather "when you host a meal," emphasizing the need to include friends, family, and affluent neighbors in the celebration of marriage. Some interpret the terms for meals as also encompassing marriage. In this manner, His speech embodies a characteristic intended for edification, which entails not only discouraging the harmful but also promoting the beneficial. It is akin to the message: Do not engage in this, instead, focus on that.

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His advice was not to diminish the importance of friendships, familial bonds, or brotherhood, but to elevate the understanding of higher matters, encouraging the preference for these over mere exchanges of hospitality with those unneeding of return favors. It is essential to prioritize service to God above service to humans and to seek rewards from God rather than from people. Furthermore, it is fitting for the host of a spiritual banquet to include the less fortunate due to their limited knowledge, the mentally impaired due to their lack of focus, the actively challenged, and those who struggle with contemplation. For these individuals do not possess those same needs. Thus, if those with small hearts invite acquaintances, family, and wealthy neighbors solely for immediate gratitude, the truly generous undertake far nobler and more glorious actions, as demonstrated by the Lord through those who assist the weak, the impoverished, and the physically challenged, from whom no recompense can be expected; to them, God has promised a reward in the coming age.

Theophan the Recluse

19th centuryChurch Father

When inviting others to dinner or supper, consider this principle: do not engage in acts of kindness with the expectation of receiving anything in return in this life. However, this does not imply that your efforts will go unrewarded. In due course, every effort will be repaid. During the Sermon on the Mount, regarding all righteous actions—prayer, fasting, and charitable giving—the Lord instructed us to carry them out discreetly. The reason for this is that the Heavenly Father will reward those who conduct these acts in secret. Thus, a Christian should devote all the endeavors of their life towards preparing for eternal joy, constructing an everlasting dwelling, and providing for eternity.

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This manner of living is not motivated by self-interest since such interests are confined to our earthly existence, which ultimately undermines them. Moreover, it is impossible to live in such a manner without faith, trust, and love for the Lord. Acting in accordance with the commandments while anticipating a reward is also an impersonal motive. Nevertheless, it resonates more deeply than a purely idealistic notion, like performing good deeds solely for the sake of goodness, which is absent in Scripture. The highest motivation is to do everything for the glory of the Lord and to be untroubled by the prospect of loss.

Alexander Gorsky

19th centuryCommentator

The assembly exhibited a clear sense of Pharisaic arrogance and self-importance. None of the attendees were willing to afford a place to someone they perceived as beneath them. Their pride led them to believe they merited the foremost position in the kingdom of the Messiah. Conversely, these gatherings were merely occasions to indulge in one another's company; the Pharisees exchanged lavish hospitality, neglecting the reality that such resources could have been far better allocated to support the needy. This absence of humility and genuine devotion, evident in their everyday conduct, hindered their proximity to the kingdom of God. The Lord chose this moment to impart valuable lessons in the presence of the Pharisees.

Bogolepow D.P.

19th centuryCommentator

This guidance does not suggest that we should avoid fellowship with family, neighbors, or friends. Rather, it emphasizes that if we aim to host a meal as an act of righteousness, we should extend our invitations to those who cannot repay us. In doing so, we will receive a reward for our virtue from God, aligning with the teaching found in Matthew 5:46-47.

Gladkow B.I.

19th centuryCommentator

Observing that the guests invited to the banquet comprised mainly relatives, friends, and affluent neighbors of the host, Jesus addressed him, saying, ‘When you prepare a meal, do not extend your invitations to those who can likewise host you in return, but rather include the poor, the disabled, the lame, the blind, and those in need who are unable to repay your kindness. For these individuals, God will reward you in the age to come.’ By stating, ‘Do not invite your friends,’ Christ is not prohibiting friendships or the hospitality extended towards those of similar social standing. Instead, He cautions that rewards for generous acts towards those who remain indebted to us are solely received in this life, and thus one should not look for future rewards for such actions.

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Those who engage in this practice accumulate treasures for themselves but do not become wealthy in the eyes of God (Luke 12:21). Acts of kindness towards those from whom no reciprocity is expected are considered loans to God (Proverbs 19:17), who certainly does not leave anyone indebted.

Lopuchin A.P.

19th centuryCommentator

Christ did not ignore the shortcomings of the host. His arrangement of the supper was not motivated by noble intentions, but rather by a superficial desire to display his wealth and presumed benevolence, which likely stemmed from the expectation of receiving similar favors in return. This type of hospitality lacks true moral value. A far greater reward is promised for kindness shown to the needy than for lavish gatherings with friends and the affluent. While welcoming friends and family, it is vital not to overlook those who are vulnerable and in distress. Self-serving charity merely masquerades as compassion. The wealthy Pharisee would have received a far more lasting and steadfast blessing had he invited a poor man afflicted by dropsy to join him, ensuring that the needy who witnessed his banquet were also included among his guests.

Michail (Lusin)

19th centuryCommentator

Alongside the call to humility and the rejection of Pharisaical arrogance, the Lord imparted another teaching aimed not only at the man who invited Him but also relevant for everyone—the imperative of fellowship with the less fortunate. At the banquet, there were two groups present: those who were invited and those who were not. Initially, the Lord offered guidance to the invited guests, instructing them in the virtue of true humility and providing them with profound nourishment; afterward, He addressed His host, encouraging him so that he would not extend the invitation solely for human approval, anticipating immediate rewards in return.

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Jesus spoke to the one who had invited Him, likely a leading Pharisee surrounded by individuals of similar social standing. From this scenario, the Lord derived His instructive lesson. When He said, “Call not your friends,” He was not forbidding the enjoyment of meals with friends and family. Rather, He aimed to emphasize the importance of not dismissing the poor as the Pharisees did. Instead, He encouraged sharing meals with them, infusing the act with moral significance, thereby performing a good deed worthy of divine reward, unlike acts that lack moral intent.

In this context, fellowship should not just be with those who can reciprocate such gestures but particularly with those unable to do so, such as the impoverished, beggars, and others in need. Sharing with those who can return the favor reduces the virtue of the act, whereas engaging with those who cannot repay invites a reward from God, as the needy are incapable of offering compensation. This teaching aligns with the principles outlined in the sermon on the mount: “If ye love them that love you, what reward have ye?”

Cross references

Passages read together with this verse.

The original text

Greek text, 36 words with lemma, transliteration and Strong’s number. Tap to expand.

  1. Ἔλεγεν
    elegen
    I say
    G3004 · λέγω
  2. δὲ
    de
    but
    G1161 · δέ
  3. καὶ
    kai
    and
    G2532 · καί
  4. τῷ
    tō
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  5. κεκληκότι
    keklēkoti
    I call
    G2564 · καλέω
  6. αὐτόν
    auton
    he
    G846 · αὐτός
  7. Ὅταν
    hotan
    when
    G3752 · ὅταν
  8. ποιῇς
    poiēs
    I do
    G4160 · ποιέω
  9. ἄριστον
    ariston
    breakfast or a mid-day meal
    G712 · ἄριστον
  10. ἢ
    ē
    or
    G2228 · ἤ
  11. δεῖπνον
    deipnon
    a dinner
    G1173 · δεῖπνον
  12. μὴ
    mē
    not
    G3361 · μή
  13. φώνει
    phōnei
    I crow
    G5455 · φωνέω
  14. τοὺς
    tous
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  15. φίλους
    philous
    friendly
    G5384 · φίλος
  16. σου
    sou
    you
    G4771 · σύ
  17. μηδὲ
    mēde
    and not
    G3366 · μηδέ
  18. τοὺς
    tous
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  19. ἀδελφούς
    adelphous
    a brother
    G80 · ἀδελφός
  20. σου
    sou
    you
    G4771 · σύ
  21. μηδὲ
    mēde
    and not
    G3366 · μηδέ
  22. τοὺς
    tous
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  23. συγγενεῖς
    syngeneis
    akin
    G4773 · συγγενής
  24. σου
    sou
    you
    G4771 · σύ
  25. μηδὲ
    mēde
    and not
    G3366 · μηδέ
  26. γείτονας
    geitonas
    a neighbor
    G1069 · γείτων
  27. πλουσίους
    plousious
    rich
    G4145 · πλούσιος
  28. μήποτε
    mēpote
    lest at any time
    G3379 · μήποτε
  29. καὶ
    kai
    and
    G2532 · καί
  30. αὐτοὶ
    autoi
    he
    G846 · αὐτός
  31. ἀντικαλέσωσίν
    antikalesōsin
    I invite in return
    G479 · ἀντικαλέω
  32. σε
    se
    you
    G4771 · σύ
  33. καὶ
    kai
    and
    G2532 · καί
  34. γένηται
    genētai
    I come into being
    G1096 · γίνομαι
  35. ἀνταπόδομά
    antapodoma
    a gift in return
    G468 · ἀνταπόδομα
  36. σοι
    soi
    you
    G4771 · σύ