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Matthew 5:42Meaning & Commentary from the Church Fathers

Give to him that asketh of thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not away.

Douay-Rheims

τω αιτουντι σε διδου και τον θελοντα απο σου δανεισασθαι μη αποστραφης

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13 Church Fathers comment on this verse · 35 commentaries

John Chrysostom

4th centuryChurch Father

The word here used signifies to drag unjustly, without cause, and with insult.

For it were an unworthy thing that a believer should stand in his cause before an unbelieving judge. Or if one who is a believer, though (as he must be) a worldly man, though he should have reverenced you for the worthiness of the faith, sues you because the cause is a necessary one, you will lose the worthiness of Christ for the business of the world. Further, every lawsuit irritates the heart and excites bad thoughts; for when you see dishonesty or bribery employed against you, you hasten to support your own cause by like means, though originally you might have intended nothing of the sort.

For without this command, the commands of the Law could not stand. For if according to the Law we begin all of us to render evil for evil, we shall all become evil, since they that do hurt abound. But if according to Christ we resist not evil, though they that are evil be not amended, yet they that are good remain good.

Or has your return blow at all restrained him from striking you again? It has rather roused him to another blow. For anger is not checked by meeting anger, but is only more irritated.

Because wealth is not ours but God’s; God would have us stewards of His wealth, and not lords.

Christ bids us lend but not on usury; for he who gives on such terms does not bestow his own, but takes of another; he looses from one chain to bind with many, and gives not for God’s righteousness sake, but for his own gain. For money taken on usury is like the bite of an asp; as the asp’s poison secretly consumes the limbs, so usury turns all our possessions into debt.

Theophylact of Bulgaria

11th centuryChurch Father

When an adversary, whether a friend or a non-believer, requests financial assistance or support, it is essential to remember that such loans should not be viewed as a means for personal gain but rather as a service to your neighbor. Even during the era of the law, one could provide loans without charging interest.

Augustine of Hippo

5th centuryChurch Father

The other kind of injuries are those in which full restitution can be made, of which there are two kinds; one relates to money, the other to work; of the first of these it is He speaks when He continues, Whoso will sue thee for thy coat, let him have thy cloak likewise. As by the cheek are denoted such injuries of the wicked as admit of no restitution but revenge, so by this similitude of the garments is denoted such injury as admits restitution. And this, as the former, is rightly taken of preparation of the heart, not of the show of the outward action. And what is commanded respecting our garments, is to be observed in all things that by any right we call our own in worldly property.

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For if the command be expressed in these necessary articles of life, how much more does it hold in the case of superfluities and luxuries? And when He says, He who will sue thee, He clearly intends to include every thing for which it is possible that we should be sued. It may be made a question whether it is to be understood of slaves, for a Christian ought not to possess his slave on the same footing as his horse; though it might be that the horse was worth the more money. And if your slave have a milder master in you than he would have in him who seeks to take him from you, I do not know that he ought to be given up as lightly as your coat.

The third kind of wrongs, which is in the matter of labour, consists of both such as admit restitution, and such as do not—or with or without revenge—for he who forcibly presses a man’s service, and makes him give him aid against his will, can either be punished for his crime, or return the labour. In this kind of wrongs then, the Lord teaches that the Christian mind is most patient, and prepared to endure yet more than is offered; If a man constrain thee to go with him a mile, go with him yet other two. This likewise is meant not so much of actual service with your feet, as of readiness of mind.

This law, Eye for eye, tooth for tooth, was enacted to repress the flames of mutual hate, and to be a check on their undisciplined spirits. For who when he would take revenge, was ever content to return just so much harm as he had received? Do we not see men who have suffered some trifling hurt, straightway plot murder, thirst for blood, and hardly find evil enough that they can do to their enemies for the satisfying their rage? To this immeasured and cruel fury the Law puts bounds when it enacts a lex talionis; that is, that whatever wrong or hurt any man has done to another, he should suffer just the same in return. This is not to encourage but to check rage; for it does not rekindle what was extinguished, but hinders the flames already kindled from further spread.

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It enacts a just retaliation, properly due to him who has suffered the wrong. But that mercy forgives any debt, does not make it unjust that payment had been sought. Since then he sins who seeks an unmeasured vengeance, but he does not sin who desires only a just one; he is therefore further from sin who seeks no retribution at all. I might state it yet thus; It was said to them of old time, Thou shalt not take unequal retaliation; But I say unto you. Ye shall not retaliate; this is a completion of the Law, if in these words something is added to the Law which was wanting to it; yea, rather that which the Law sought to do, namely, to put an end to unequal revenge, is more safely secured when there is no revenge at all.

For the righteousness of the Pharisees is a less righteousness, not to transgress the measure of equal retribution; and this is the beginning of peace; but perfect peace is to refuse all such retribution. Between that first manner then, which was not according to the Law, to wit, that a greater evil should be returned for a less, and this which the Lord enjoins to make His disciples perfect, to wit, that no evil should be returned for evil, a middle place is held by this, that an equal evil should be returned, which was thus the passage from extremest discord to extremest peace.

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Whoso then first does evil to another departs furthest from righteousness; and who does not first do any wrong, but when wronged repays with a heavier wrong, has departed somewhat from extreme injustice; he who repays only what he has received, gives up yet something more, for it were but strict right that he who is the first aggressor should receive a greater hurt than he inflicted. This righteousness thus partly begun, He perfects, who is come to fulfil the Law. The two steps that intervene He leaves to be understood; for there is who does not repay so much, but less; and there is yet above him, he who repays not at all; yet this seems too little to the Lord, if you be not also ready to suffer wrong. Therefore He says not, Render not evil for evil, but, Resist not against evil, not only repay not what is offered to you, but do not resist that it should not be done to you. For thus accordingly He explains that saying, If any man smite thee on thy right cheek, offer to him the left also. Which as being a high part of mercy, is known to those who serve such as they love much; from whom, being morose, or insane, they endure many things, and if it be for their health they offer themselves to endure more. The Lord then, the Physician of souls, teaches His disciples to endure with patience the sicknesses of those for whose spiritual health they should provide. For all wickedness comes of a sickness of the mind; nothing is more innocent than he who is sound and of perfect health in virtue.

For the Lord was ready not only to be smitten on the other cheek for the salvation of men, but to be crucified with His whole body. It may be asked, What does the right cheek expressly signify? As the face is that whereby any man is known, to be smitten on the face is according to the Apostle to be contemned and despised. But as we cannot say ‘right face,’ and ‘left face,’ and yet we have a name twofold, one before God, and one before the world, it is distributed as it were into the right cheek, and left cheek, that whoever of Christ’s disciples is despised for that he is a Christian, may be ready to be yet more despised for any of this world’s honours that he may have.

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All things wherein we suffer any wrong are divided into two kinds, of which one is what cannot he restored, the other what may be restored. In that kind which cannot be restored, we are wont to seek the solace of revenge. For what does it boot if when smitten you smite again, is the hurt done to your body thereby repaid to you? But the mind swollen with rage seeks such assuagements.

Whence the Lord judges that others’ weakness should rather be borne with compassion, than that our own should be soothed by others’ pain. For that retribution which tends to correction is not here forbidden, for such is indeed a part of mercy; nor does such intention hinder that he, who seeks to correct another, is not at the same time ready himself to take more at his hands. But it is required that he should inflict the punishment to whom the power is given by the course of things, and with such a mind as the father has to a child in correcting him whom it is impossible he should hate.

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And holy men have punished some sins with death, in order that a wholesome fear might be struck into the living, and so that not his death, but the likelihood of increase of his sin had he lived, was the hurt of the criminal. Thus Elias punished many with death, and when the disciples would take example from him they were rebuked by the Lord, who did not censure this example of the Prophet, but their ignorant use of it, seeing them to desire the punishment not for correction’s sake, but from angry hate. But after He had inculcated love of their neighbour, and had given them the Holy Spirit, there wanted not instances of such vengeance; as Ananias and his wife who fell down dead at the words of Peter, and the Apostle Paul delivered some to Satan for the destruction of the flesh. Yet do some, with a kind of blind opposition, rage against the temporal punishments of the Old Testament, not knowing with what mind they were inflicted.

But who that is of sober mind would say to kings, It is nothing of your concern who will live religiously, or who profanely? It cannot even be said to them, that it is not their concern who will live chastely, or who unchastely. It is indeed better that men should be led to serve God by right teaching than by penalties; yet has it benefitted many, as experience has approved to us, to be first coerced by pain and fear, that they might be taught after, or to be made to conform in deed to what they had learned in words. The better men indeed are led of love, but the more part of men are wrought on by fear. Let them learn in the case of the Apostle Paul, how Christ first constrained, and after taught him.

Therefore, He says not, ‘Give all things to him that asks;’ but, Give to every one that asketh; that you should only give what you can give honestly and rightly. For what if one ask for money to employ in oppressing the innocent man? What if he ask your consent to unclean sin? We must give then only what will hurt neither ourselves or others, as far as man can judge; and when you have refused an inadmissible request, that you may not send away empty him that asked, shew the righteousness of your refusal; and such correction of the unlawful petitioner will often be a better gift than the granting his suit.

For with more benefit is food taken from the hungry, if certainty of provision causes him to neglect righteousness, than that food should be supplied to him that he may consent to a deed of violence and wrong.

That He commands, And from him that would borrow of thee, turn not away, must be referred to the mind; for God loveth a cheerful giver. (2 Cor. 9:7.) And every one that receives, indeed borrows, though it is not he that shall pay, but God, who restores to the merciful many fold. Or, if you like to understand by borrowing, only taking with promise to repay, we must understand the Lord’s command as embracing both these kinds of affording aid; whether we give outright, or lend to receive again. And of this last kind of shewing mercy it is well said, Turn not away, that is, do not be therefore backward to lend, as though, because man shall repay you, therefore God shall not; for what you do by God’s command cannot be without fruit.

Some object that this command of Christ is altogether inconsistent with civil life in Commonwealths; Who, say they, would suffer, when he could hinder it, the pillage of his estate by an enemy; or would not repay the evil suffered by a plundered province of Rome on the plunderers according to the rights of war? But these precepts of patience are to be observed in readiness of the heart, and that mercy, not to return evil for evil, must be always fulfilled by the will. Yet must we often use a merciful sharpness in dealing with the headstrong. And in this way, if the earthly commonwealth will keep the Christian commandments, even war will not be waged without good charities, to the establishing among the vanquished peaceful harmony of godliness and righteousness.

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For that victory is beneficial to him from whom it snatches licence to sin; since nothing is more unfortunate for sinners, than the good fortune of their sins, which nourishes an impunity that brings punishment after it, and an evil will is strengthened, as it were some internal enemy.

The Lord here forbids his disciples to have lawsuits with others for worldly property. Yet as the Apostle allows such kind of causes to be decided between brethren, and before arbiters who are brethren, but utterly disallows them without the Church, it is manifest what is conceded to infirmity as pardonable.

The things which are done by the Saints in the New Testament profit for examples of understanding those Scriptures which are modelled into the form of precepts. Thus we read in Luke; Whoso smiteth thee on the one cheek, turn to him the other also.

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Jerome of Stridon

5th centuryChurch Father

Thus our Lord by doing away all retaliation, cuts off the beginnings of sin. So the Law corrects faults, the Gospel removes their occasions.

Mystically interpreted; When we are smitten on the right cheek, He said not, offer to him thy left, but the other; for the righteous has not a left. That is, if a heretic has smitten us in disputation, and would wound us in a right hand doctrine, let him be met with another testimony from Scripture.

If we understand this only of alms, it cannot stand with the estate of the most part of men who are poor; even the rich if they have been always giving, will not be able to continue always to give.

But it maybe understood of the wealth of doctrine: wealth which never fails but the more of it is given away, the more it abounds.

Euthymios Zigabenos

11th centuryCommentator

Provide to all who seek assistance from you. During His teachings on a level area, He emphasized, "Give to everyone who asks you," as noted in the Gospel of Luke (Luke 6:30). Furthermore, He instructs us to avoid making distinctions between those who are deserving and those who are not. Regardless of a person's character, their request indicates a genuine need. In His abundant grace, God has ensured that all people, whether righteous or wicked, faithful or unfaithful, have access to everything essential for life. Do not refuse anyone who wishes to borrow from you. He has instructed us to lend without expecting interest, and as noted earlier during His teachings on flat ground, He urged against demanding the return of what has been lent. He stated, "If you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is that to you?" (Luke 6:34). The teachings in this context are related to the insufficient, while those in Luke address the more complete.

Hermas of Rome

2nd centuryChurch Father

Practice goodness, and from the fruits of your labor, which God provides, share generously with all those in need, with no hesitance regarding who receives your assistance. Extend your generosity to everyone, for God desires each person to benefit from His gifts. Those who receive will answer to God for their actions and the reasons behind their need. While those who receive out of genuine necessity will face no condemnation, those who take insincerely will be judged. However, the one who gives will not face reproach, as they have fulfilled the divine service assigned to them, without partiality regarding who is worthy or unworthy of their assistance, having acted with gratitude before God. Thus, adhere to this command, as I have instructed you, so that both your repentance and that of your household may be sincere, and your heart remains pure and blameless before God.

Gregory the Great

6th centuryChurch Father

There are, who are so far to be endured, as they rob us of our worldly goods; but there are whom we ought to hinder, and that without breaking the law of charity, not only that we may not be robbed of what is ours, but lest they by robbing others destroy themselves. We ought to fear much more for the men who rob us, than to be eager to save the inanimate things they take from us. When peace with our neighbour is banished the heart on the matter of worldly possessions, it is plain that our estate is more loved than our neighbour.

Isaac the Syrian

6th centuryChurch Father

There is nothing more capable of drawing the heart closer to God than acts of charity, nor is there anything that fosters profound silence in the soul like self-imposed poverty. It is preferable for many to label you as naive due to your simplicity than for you to be esteemed as wise and learned for the pursuit of worldly glory. If someone on horseback reaches out their hand to request alms, do not turn them away; in this moment, they may very well be as destitute as any beggar. When you offer assistance, do so with openheartedness, wear warmth upon your countenance, and provide more than was requested. For it is said, “Send your grain across the shores, for after many days you will receive a return” (Ecclesiastes 11:1). Let there be no distinction between the wealthy and the poor, nor should you attempt to judge who is deserving or undeserving; regard all individuals equally when performing acts of kindness.

Philaret (Amphiteatrov)

19th centuryChurch Father

A heart that is truly generous will seek to provide for the well-being of others without hesitation, in alignment with Christ's teachings. Such an individual will undoubtedly offer assistance in times of need, whether through unconditional charity or mutual support.

Anonymous Commentary (Opus Imperfectum)

4th centuryCommentator

Moreover, these commandments are particularly relevant for those in need: would a wealthy and powerful individual strike someone weaker? Surely, they would not wish to harm another in the same manner! Who would dare to seize a wealthy man's garment by force? Certainly, he would not resort to taking from others against their will! Who would compel a prosperous individual to labor in the fields? Clearly, he would not force another to do so! Thus, the wealthy man lays barren. How can he embody the essence of law and grace to become an exemplary servant of God? How indeed? If someone approaches him for a loan, he should willingly provide it. The law teaches us that one must not unjustly take from another, just as we are meant to share our own resources freely.

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Conversely, grace encourages us to neither seize what belongs to others nor withhold our own. Therefore, the one who lends abides by both the law and grace. A person who generously shares their own wealth will refrain from claiming the possessions of others. The rich individual is not evaluated by their patience, for few are inclined to provoke them; rather, they are revealed through their willingness to give.

Abbot Panteleimon about the Trinity

19th centuryCommentator

The Lord instructs us to give, regardless of whether the requester is an adversary, a companion, or an individual without belief, and He urges us not to turn away anyone in need of borrowing from us. Some may seek nourishment or garments, others may need financial support, while some look for wise counsel or a supportive word of genuine brotherhood. We are encouraged to share generously, even offering our last resources in the name of Christ. Love serves as our guide, indicating when to provide for someone’s needs and when it might be detrimental. It would not be wise to furnish a weapon to someone out of control or poison to one in despair.

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Occasionally, a person may request alcohol for indulgence, and in such instances, offering a word of brotherly correction may be far more beneficial than providing money. Consider how the Saviour responded to those who called upon Him; when one person in the crowd pleaded, “Teacher, instruct my brother to divide the inheritance with me,” the Lord instead warned all present about the dangers of greed (Luke 12:15). His command to lend goes beyond merely providing financial support; it encompasses the broader act of lending freely. Additionally, He teaches that we should also donate to those from whom we do not anticipate receiving anything in return.

Gladkow B.I.

19th centuryCommentator

"Give to him who asks of you" (Matthew 5:42) is a statement made by Jesus. However, Blessed Augustine raises an important question: does this imply that every request must be granted? Was Joseph required to comply with the demands of Pentephrius' wife, or was Susanna expected to succumb to the allure of the Jewish elders? Should I lend money to someone who intends to misuse it for oppressing the innocent or indulging in immoral desires? Should I extend my resources to anyone who asks? Augustine argues that this guidance must be contextualized and cannot be applied indiscriminately. Within the very words of the Saviour, Augustine discerns a limit: the term "beggar" may refer to any individual, and the act of giving should not imply fulfilling every request made.

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If you choose to send away a lazy beggar after enlightening him about the harmful effects of idleness, you have not sent him away empty-handed—you have provided him with something, albeit not the specific item he requested. In this manner, Augustine perceives that Jesus Himself shed light on this directive. For instance, when someone asked Jesus, "Teacher, tell my brother to divide the inheritance with me," Jesus declined this seemingly simple request, replying, "Who made Me a judge or divider over you?" Yet, He also counseled those present, stating, "Beware of covetousness, for a man's life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions" (Luke 12:13-15). Thus, the call to give reflects the necessity of offering what is genuinely beneficial to the recipient; there are requests for gifts that are harmful and beneficial when declined. Consequently, denying such requests can signify the most significant form of giving.

This interpretation by Augustine should not be overextended. If we habitually deliberate whether a beggar should receive what he requests, we may become paralyzed by the impossibility of reaching a conclusion in many scenarios. Consequently, in our hesitance to potentially harm the beggar by meeting his request, we may neglect Christ's exhortation to give to all who ask of us, thereby veering towards an extreme of refusal.

Frequently, a person seeking a coin for bread is turned away solely based on their appearance, which suggests they are capable of work. People lament, "He should labor, not beg; it's a sin to support such idleness!" But is it not sinful to make such judgments without first determining whether the beggar truly prefers to beg over working? Do all those who desire employment reliably find it? Hard-working individuals can also face misfortunes that strip them of their livelihoods. Should every capable worker be denied assistance as a result? If you deny them alms, then at least provide them with employment, ensuring the beggar leaves not empty-handed! If someone is destitute and struggling due to circumstances beyond their control, will denying assistance not push them toward desperate measures, compelling them to resort to trickery or violence? Such refusals may lead one to commit serious offenses. Numerous incidents involving theft and robbery reported in courts often stem from the lack of timely aid, highlighting a failure to address underlying poverty.

Let us not judge beggars harshly; if we cannot offer them work, and lack the resources to thoroughly investigate their misfortunes and how to help them regain stability, it is preferable to provide what we can. If, under such circumstances, we give to ten individuals but only one is genuinely in need—while the others are indeed deceitful and lazy—this act of kindness could mean saving that one individual from true misfortune. Even if offering assistance to the unworthy carries a burden of guilt, rescuing one neighbor from ruin would surely outweigh those nine misdeeds in the eyes of God. Is it not a serious sin against the soul of those who turn away the one truly in need? Will Christ not say to such individuals at the final judgment: "I was hungry and you gave Me no food; I was thirsty and you gave Me no drink; I was a stranger and you did not welcome Me; I was naked and you did not clothe Me; I was sick and in prison and you did not visit Me?" (Matthew 25:42-43).

In some cases, alms are withheld from those unable to work, like the elderly, merely because they lack clothing. Those who refuse to assist justify their stance by arguing, "Why should he receive? He can do without it." Yet, those who think this way ought to question themselves: Do they always petition God solely for daily bread, or do they also seek additional blessings? If they do not limit their own prayers to daily sustenance, how can they expect to receive from God if they deny a neighbor in need who requests something beyond mere bread?

At times, even those who are visibly hungry are denied assistance because their appearance suggests a penchant for alcohol. People worry that the funds provided will only fuel his drinking habits, deeming it sinful to enable such behavior. But is it not also sinful to instruct a starving man about the perils of drunkenness? Would it not be better to first feed and warm him, then discuss the dangers of excessive drinking? Righteous admonishments from those who are well-fed may only provoke resentment in the hungry, further alienating them from those who possess resources yet fail to alleviate their suffering.

All of Christ's commandments find their explanation in His core directive to love your neighbor as yourself. Consequently, if we ever question whether to provide a beggar with what he requests, it is not cold logic that yields the definitive answer, but rather a heart ignited with love for our fellow beings. To avoid the pitfalls of hypocrisy in charitable acts, we must strive to empathize with the plight of the neighbor who is in need, to empathize with his sufferings, and to understand his desires; and if those desires align with Christ's teachings, we ought to fulfill them, if we can do so.

"Give to him who asks of you, and do not turn away from him who wants to borrow from you" (Matthew 5:42). This is how the Evangelist Matthew conveyed the words of Jesus, and the Evangelist Luke recorded the same teaching as: "Give to everyone who asks of you, and from him who takes what is yours do not ask for it back" (Luke 6:30).

Michail (Lusin)

19th centuryCommentator

To him who asks, provide. It is understood that the needs of our neighbor, regardless of who they are, whether spiritual or material, should be addressed. It is also acknowledged that acts of mercy and charity come with certain conditions and situations in which offering help may not only be unhelpful but could also cause harm. The essence of the command is to strive with sincere love and willingness to meet the genuine and rightful needs of the one requesting assistance. However, this same love dictates that we cannot, for instance, hand a knife to a murderer who seeks it or provide poison to someone wishing to end their own life. To him who wishes to borrow, do not turn away.

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The overarching message remains consistent: "Do not lend with the expectation of repayment but rather as a simple gesture for the benefit of your neighbor" (Theophylact). Furthermore, the Savior calls us to a higher standard by instructing us to give even to those from whom we do not expect to receive anything in return (Chrysostom).

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Greek text, 12 words with lemma, transliteration and Strong’s number. Tap to expand.

  1. τῷ
    tō
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  2. αἰτοῦντί
    aitounti
    I ask
    G154 · αἰτέω
  3. σε
    se
    you
    G4771 · σύ
  4. δός
    dos
    I offer
    G1325 · δίδωμι
  5. καὶ
    kai
    and
    G2532 · καί
  6. τὸν
    ton
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  7. θέλοντα
    thelonta
    I will
    G2309 · θέλω
  8. ἀπὸ
    apo
    from
    G575 · ἀπό
  9. σοῦ
    sou
    you
    G4771 · σύ
  10. δανίσασθαι
    danisasthai
    I lend
    G1155 · δανείζω
  11. μὴ
    mē
    not
    G3361 · μή
  12. ἀποστραφῇς
    apostraphēs
    I turn away
    G654 · ἀποστρέφω