If you choose to send away a lazy beggar after enlightening him about the harmful effects of idleness, you have not sent him away empty-handed—you have provided him with something, albeit not the specific item he requested. In this manner, Augustine perceives that Jesus Himself shed light on this directive. For instance, when someone asked Jesus, "Teacher, tell my brother to divide the inheritance with me," Jesus declined this seemingly simple request, replying, "Who made Me a judge or divider over you?" Yet, He also counseled those present, stating, "Beware of covetousness, for a man's life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions" (Luke 12:13-15). Thus, the call to give reflects the necessity of offering what is genuinely beneficial to the recipient; there are requests for gifts that are harmful and beneficial when declined. Consequently, denying such requests can signify the most significant form of giving.
This interpretation by Augustine should not be overextended. If we habitually deliberate whether a beggar should receive what he requests, we may become paralyzed by the impossibility of reaching a conclusion in many scenarios. Consequently, in our hesitance to potentially harm the beggar by meeting his request, we may neglect Christ's exhortation to give to all who ask of us, thereby veering towards an extreme of refusal.
Frequently, a person seeking a coin for bread is turned away solely based on their appearance, which suggests they are capable of work. People lament, "He should labor, not beg; it's a sin to support such idleness!" But is it not sinful to make such judgments without first determining whether the beggar truly prefers to beg over working? Do all those who desire employment reliably find it? Hard-working individuals can also face misfortunes that strip them of their livelihoods. Should every capable worker be denied assistance as a result? If you deny them alms, then at least provide them with employment, ensuring the beggar leaves not empty-handed! If someone is destitute and struggling due to circumstances beyond their control, will denying assistance not push them toward desperate measures, compelling them to resort to trickery or violence? Such refusals may lead one to commit serious offenses. Numerous incidents involving theft and robbery reported in courts often stem from the lack of timely aid, highlighting a failure to address underlying poverty.
Let us not judge beggars harshly; if we cannot offer them work, and lack the resources to thoroughly investigate their misfortunes and how to help them regain stability, it is preferable to provide what we can. If, under such circumstances, we give to ten individuals but only one is genuinely in need—while the others are indeed deceitful and lazy—this act of kindness could mean saving that one individual from true misfortune. Even if offering assistance to the unworthy carries a burden of guilt, rescuing one neighbor from ruin would surely outweigh those nine misdeeds in the eyes of God. Is it not a serious sin against the soul of those who turn away the one truly in need? Will Christ not say to such individuals at the final judgment: "I was hungry and you gave Me no food; I was thirsty and you gave Me no drink; I was a stranger and you did not welcome Me; I was naked and you did not clothe Me; I was sick and in prison and you did not visit Me?" (Matthew 25:42-43).
In some cases, alms are withheld from those unable to work, like the elderly, merely because they lack clothing. Those who refuse to assist justify their stance by arguing, "Why should he receive? He can do without it." Yet, those who think this way ought to question themselves: Do they always petition God solely for daily bread, or do they also seek additional blessings? If they do not limit their own prayers to daily sustenance, how can they expect to receive from God if they deny a neighbor in need who requests something beyond mere bread?
At times, even those who are visibly hungry are denied assistance because their appearance suggests a penchant for alcohol. People worry that the funds provided will only fuel his drinking habits, deeming it sinful to enable such behavior. But is it not also sinful to instruct a starving man about the perils of drunkenness? Would it not be better to first feed and warm him, then discuss the dangers of excessive drinking? Righteous admonishments from those who are well-fed may only provoke resentment in the hungry, further alienating them from those who possess resources yet fail to alleviate their suffering.
All of Christ's commandments find their explanation in His core directive to love your neighbor as yourself. Consequently, if we ever question whether to provide a beggar with what he requests, it is not cold logic that yields the definitive answer, but rather a heart ignited with love for our fellow beings. To avoid the pitfalls of hypocrisy in charitable acts, we must strive to empathize with the plight of the neighbor who is in need, to empathize with his sufferings, and to understand his desires; and if those desires align with Christ's teachings, we ought to fulfill them, if we can do so.
"Give to him who asks of you, and do not turn away from him who wants to borrow from you" (Matthew 5:42). This is how the Evangelist Matthew conveyed the words of Jesus, and the Evangelist Luke recorded the same teaching as: "Give to everyone who asks of you, and from him who takes what is yours do not ask for it back" (Luke 6:30).