Blessed Jerome writes: “Since our Lord and Savior, who says in the Gospel, ‘Come to Me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest’ (cf. Mt 11:28), excludes no condition, age, or sex from blessedness, the Apostle also prescribes commandments for slaves.
“He does this because they are members of the body of Christ and parts of His Church. As above he showed what Titus must teach older men and older women, young women and young men, so now he shows what commandments are suitable for slaves.”
First, he says, teach slaves “to be obedient to their own masters.” This is the chief thing, because if this exists, it is difficult for anything else inconsistent with the right manner of action for slaves to break through. Perhaps only some wrongness may enter into the spirit of obedience.
Therefore Chrysostom says at this word: “Rightly the Apostle teaches elsewhere: ‘serving as to the Lord, and not as to men’ (cf. Eph 6:7). For although you serve a master, perhaps the basis of this service is human fear, which deprives your service of value. But whoever serves with the fear of God will receive a great reward.”
Blessed Jerome refers “in everything” to “to be obedient.” “First teach,” says the Apostle, “that slaves be obedient to their masters in everything. Yet in everything that is not contrary to God. That is, if the master commands what is not contrary to Holy Scripture, let the slave obey the master.
“But if he commands something contrary to it, let the slave obey the Lord of the spirit rather than the master of the body. Notice how the Apostle gives commandments appropriate to persons.”
Blessed Theodoret does not indicate to what this word should be referred, but defines only its relative meaning: “It is said, ‘in everything,’ that is, in what pertains to rendering bodily services to masters. For if the master commands impiety, this does not oblige the slave to obey.”
But usually “in everything” is referred to the following expression: “to be well-pleasing,” euarestous einai. This means not fawning, but being such that masters find it good and pleasant to have them. Possessing such servants should give them satisfaction because of their obedience, reasonable diligence, and constant faithfulness. Because of these, one can rely on them in everything and be completely at ease concerning them.
Blessed Jerome, however, finds it possible to see in the phrase “to be well-pleasing” the thought that servants should find it pleasing to be servants, and should be content with their condition.
He writes: “Though not fully, yet partly, we may interpret this word as meaning that they should be content. That is, it should not seem to them that God is unjust in assigning them such a condition.
“But as the poor man can be saved according to his measure, as a woman is not excluded from the Kingdom of God by the weakness of her sex, and as every condition may receive blessedness according to its order, so let slaves be content that they are slaves.
“Let them not think that they cannot serve God because they are subject to men. Let them believe that, by remaining obedient to their masters in everything and being content with their condition, they are well-pleasing to the will of God and are thereby saved.”
“Not contradicting,” that is, not talking back, not from a better understanding of the matter, but from mere quarrelsomeness and murmuring, when people often both do the thing and grumble.
“The greatest vice in slaves,” writes blessed Jerome, “is to contradict masters and mutter to themselves when masters command something. The Apostle orders Titus by sound doctrine to turn Christian slaves away from this disorder.
“For if a slave cannot avoid doing what the master commands, then why should he not do it with good will? By his contradiction he offends the master, yet he still cannot avoid doing what was commanded.”