John Chrysostom
"The head of the woman is the man, and the head of Christ is God." Heretics point these words out to us, deriving from them the idea of the Son's abasement before the Father. But they refute themselves.
If the head of the woman is the man, and the head is consubstantial with the body, and if God is the head of Christ, then the Son is consubstantial with the Father. But, they say, we wish to prove from this not a difference in essence, but the Son's subordination to the Father.
What shall we say to this? When something humble is said of Him in His union with the flesh, it does not diminish the Godhead, but refers to His divine economy.
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Yet tell me, how do you prove your idea from this? As the woman, you say, is subject to the man, so Christ is subject to the Father. Therefore, just as Christ is the head of the man, in exactly the same way the Father is the head of the Son? "The head of every man is Christ," says the Apostle. But who could ever admit this?
If we admit that the Father's superiority over the Son is the same as the Son's superiority over us, then consider to what degree you abase Him. Therefore we must not take in the same sense everything said about us and about God, even when it is said in the same words.
We must ascribe to God a certain special superiority, such as is proper to God. Otherwise many absurdities will result.
Look: God is the head of Christ, Christ is the head of the man, and the man is the head of the woman. If throughout this whole discourse we take the word "head" in one and the same sense, the Son will be lower than the Father as much as we are lower than Him. The woman will be lower than us as much as we are lower than God the Word. Thus, as the Son stands in relation to the Father, so we stand in relation to the Son, and the woman to the man.
But who could admit this? You take the word "head" in one sense with regard to the woman, and in another with regard to the man. Why, then, do you not take it in another sense with regard to Christ? It must be taken in another sense also with regard to the Son and the Father.
How, then, you say, should it be understood otherwise? In the sense of source. If Paul had wished to express the authority of one and the subordination of the other, as you say, he would more likely have taken a slave and master as his example, not a woman. For although the woman is subject to us, she is subject as free and equal in honor.
So also the Son, although He obeys the Father, obeys as Son of God, as God. As the Son's obedience to the Father is greater than the obedience of children to parents among men, so also His lack of servile subjection is greater.
If the Son's relations to the Father are greater and more perfect than similar relations among men, then the Father's relations to the Son are no less. If we marvel at the Son because He was "obedient unto death, even death on a cross" (Phil 2:8), and reckon this to Him as a great merit, then we must also marvel at the Father. He begot such a Son, Who is not subject to Him as a slave, but obeys as free and as counselor.
A counselor is not a slave. Again, when you hear the word "counselor," do not take it as though the Father were in need of anything. Take it to mean that the Son is equal in honor to the Father.
Likewise, do not apply the example of husband and wife in every respect. Among them the woman is rightly subject to the man, because equality of honor could have produced enmity. It is also because deception came from the woman in the beginning.
She was not subject immediately after creation. When God brought her to the man, she heard nothing of the kind from God. The man said nothing similar to her. He said that she was bone of his bones and flesh of his flesh, but he said nothing to her about authority and subjection.
But when she misused her authority, becoming a deceiver instead of a helper and ruining everything, then she rightly heard the words: "Your desire shall be for your husband" (Gen 3:16).
This sin could have stirred up enmity in our race. After such an event, the fact that the woman came from the man would not have served peace. On the contrary, the very fact that, having come from him, she did not spare her own member would have provoked the man still more.
God, seeing the malice of the devil, enclosed them by this word as by a wall. By this decree He destroyed the enmity that was to arise after the deception. He set up, as it were, a barrier against the natural passion, the resentment that came from sin.
But in God, this incorruptible Being, nothing of the kind can be supposed. Therefore apply the examples to Him not in every respect. Otherwise in other places also you will fall into many serious errors.
So also at the beginning of the epistle the Apostle said, "All things are yours; and you are Christ's, and Christ is God's" (1 Cor 3:22-23). What then? Are all things ours, and are we Christ's, and is Christ God's, in one and the same sense? No. On the contrary, the difference is obvious even to the most foolish, though one and the same expression is used concerning God, Christ, and us.
In another place, after calling the husband the head of the wife, he adds that Christ also is the head, Savior, and protector of the Church, and that the husband should be such toward his wife (Eph 5:23-27). Can we take all these expressions in one sense, both here and in what is said later in Ephesians on this subject? No. This is impossible.
The same expressions are used of God and man, but some must be understood in one way and others in another. Yet not everything is different. Otherwise they would have been used without reason and in vain, if we made no application from them.
Just as not everything must be understood in one sense, so not everything must be considered inapplicable. For clearer understanding, I shall try to explain this by an example.
Christ is called the head of the Church. If I make no application from this expression, which is borrowed from man, then why was it said to me? On the other hand, if I apply its entire literal meaning, absurdity results, because the head shares the body's passions and is subject to the same weaknesses.
What, then, must be rejected, and what accepted? We must reject what I have said, and accept the perfect union of Christ with the Church, and the fact that He is her Cause and supreme Ruler. Moreover, this must be understood not simply, but in the highest degree and in a manner worthy of God. His union is most firm, and His rule most perfect.
Again, Christ is called Son. Here also do not accept everything, but do not reject everything either. Accept what befits God, that He is consubstantial with the Father and is begotten from Him. Do not apply what is unbefitting and belongs to human weakness.
Likewise God is called light. Can everything proper to visible light be applied to Him? No. Visible light is limited by darkness and place, is moved by another power, and is obscured. Nothing of the kind can even be imagined in the divine essence.
Therefore let us not reject everything, but draw some benefit from the likeness. Let us understand the illumination given to us by God and deliverance from darkness.
This is against the heretics. Now we must speak about the whole passage under explanation. Perhaps someone will be perplexed and ask himself: what fault would there be if women uncovered themselves and men covered themselves?
You can see what the fault is from the following. Many different signs have been given to man and woman, to one of authority and to the other of subjection. Among them is this, that the woman be covered and the man have his head uncovered.
If these are signs, then both sin when they violate good order and the commandment of God. They transgress their own limits, the man falling down to the woman's abasement, and the woman rising by her outward appearance above the man.
If they are not permitted to change their clothing, that is, for the woman to dress in male clothing, and the man to put on a woman's garment and veil, then much more is it not permitted to exchange these garments. For Scripture says, "A woman shall not wear anything that pertains to a man, nor shall a man put on a woman's garment" (Deut 22:5).
The former custom was established by men, though afterward confirmed by God. But the latter comes from nature itself, that the one be covered and the other not covered. By "nature" I mean God, because He is the Creator of nature.
Therefore, if you transgress these boundaries, see how much harm will result. Do not tell me that this transgression is insignificant. It is great in itself, because it is disobedience. Even if it were insignificant in itself, it would be great because it concerns the sign of great matters.
That this sign is great is clear from the fact that it produces good order in the human race, presenting the ruler and the subject in their proper form. The one who acts against this brings everything into confusion, deprives himself of the gifts of God, and dishonors the honor given to him from above. This applies not only to the man, but also to the woman.
For it is a great honor for her also to keep her own place. On the contrary, it is shameful to go beyond the limits. Therefore the Apostle says concerning both: "Every man praying or prophesying with his head covered dishonors his head. And every woman praying or prophesying with her head uncovered dishonors her head" (1 Cor 11:4-5).