John Chrysostom
Is he speaking here of the rank of presbyter? I do not think so, but of every elderly man. Why not act otherwise if he needs correction?
"Do not rebuke," he says. Speak with him as you would treat a father who sins. By the very nature of the matter, hearing corrections is burdensome, especially when it happens to an elderly man.
If the corrections are made by a young man, this becomes triply unreasonable. Therefore the rebuke must be softened by meekness and friendliness.
One can rebuke without cruelty, if one wishes to practice this. It requires great prudence, yet it is possible.
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"Younger men," he says, "as brothers." Why does he command this here also? Again, in order to call to mind the boldness proper to this age. Therefore in this case too, rebuke must be softened by a spirit of meekness.