The Church Fathers on this verse

1 Timothy 5:3Meaning & Commentary from the Church Fathers

Honour widows that are widows indeed.

Douay-Rheims

χηρας τιμα τας οντως χηρας

Greek (Byzantine text)

The Church Fathers on this verse

12 Church Fathers comment on this verse

John Chrysostom

4th centuryChurch Father

Why does he say nothing about virginity? Why does he not say, "Honor virgins"? It seems to me because at that time there were none, or because there were some who had fallen.

"For some," he says, "have already turned aside after Satan" (1 Tim 5:15). "Honor widows," he says, "who are truly widows."

Therefore one may have no husband and still not be a widow. Just as a virgin does not become a virgin merely because she has not been joined in marriage, but much else is required, namely purity and diligence.

So too, it is not only the death of a husband that makes a widow, but patience with chastity and complete solitude.

He commands such widows to be honored, and rightly so. They are worthy of great respect, living alone and having no husbands to defend them.

This condition seems shameful to many and deserving of reproach. Therefore he wishes her to enjoy great honor from the priest, not only for this reason, but also because she is worthy of honor.

Theophylact of Bulgaria

11th centuryChurch Father

Why does he say nothing about virgins? Perhaps because there were none there at that time. He commands that widows be honored because they have no husbands to defend them, and their very condition seemed shameful and worthy of reproach. Therefore they should receive great respect from the priest, above all because they are worthy of it as true widows. What sort of widows are these? You will see further on. Therefore one may be without a husband and still not yet be a widow. The expression “honor” means: be merciful to them and provide what they need.

Jerome of Stridon

4th centuryChurch Father

Since Paul was ordering the young Church of Christ and caring for its whole order, especially for the poor, whose care had been entrusted to him with Barnabas (cf. Gal 2:9-10), he wants those who cannot work with their hands to receive assistance from Church property. These are true widows, recommended by both age and life.

Ambrose of Milan

4th centuryChurch Father

Thus a widow is defined not only by bodily continence, but is marked by virtue. It is not I who give commandments about this, but the Apostle.

I am not the only one who insists that honor be given them. Before me, the teacher of the nations bestowed it upon them, saying: "Honor widows who are truly widows."

"But if any widow has children or grandchildren, let them first learn to manage their own household and to render what is due to their parents" (1 Tim 5:3-4).

From this it is clear that a widow must have a twofold love for piety. She must love her sons and honor her parents.

Thus, when she renders what is due to her parents, she teaches her sons. She herself is rewarded for her service, when she benefits herself by what she gives.

Theodoret of Cyrus

5th centuryChurch Father

Widows who have no source anywhere for meeting their needs ought, the Apostle says, to receive assistance from the Church. Since they are freed from cares, they have one task: always to remain in divine prayers.

Those who have children or grandchildren ought to care for them. They should repay them with the same solicitude they themselves received from their parents, so that the recompense due to parents may be passed on to children and received back from them in their service.

Euthymios Zigabenos

11th centuryChurch Father

“Honor widows.”

Why did he not say the same about virgins, since they are more honorable than widows? Probably because the Church of Ephesus did not yet have an order of virgins recognized by ecclesiastical law.

“Who are truly widows.”

That is, honor widows who are chaste and who observe the rules that concern them. Such women are true widows, recognized by the law.

Ivanov A.V.

19th centuryChurch Father

“Honor widows who are truly widows.” This addition shows that persons must be judged not by their outward condition, but by their actual qualities. The expression “honor” recalls the same expression in the fifth commandment of the Decalogue. It also teaches that this honor must not be limited to outward forms, but must be accompanied by full love, attention, and care to meet the needs of these persons.

Michail Cheraskov

19th centuryChurch Father

Which widows should be received into the Church’s care?

“Honor widows who are truly widows” (1 Tim 5:3). That is, take into care those widows who truly deserve care and compassion (Theophylact). The Apostle uses the word “honor” here in the sense of “help.” He has already spoken above of honor in the proper sense. Likewise, the Savior, in the opposite sense, declares dishonor toward parents to consist in depriving father or mother of the support owed to them (Mt 15:3-5).

Nikanor (Kamenski)

19th centuryChurch Father

The Apostle speaks at length about widows, because they and their poor children were then under the special care of all the Churches.

Moreover, the more honored women were, as it were, numbered among the clergy as deaconesses. They helped distribute assistance and performed other Christian services, especially in relation to the female sex (Acts ch. 6).

Young widows caused no small concern for the Church because of temptations that could give Jews and pagans occasion to slander the good conduct of all believers.

By commanding honor for true widows in verse 3, defining their qualities in verse 5, and especially indicating the age of their selection in verse 9, the Apostle clearly has certain honored widows in view.

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They were to be the object of special care by the Church and were eligible to be chosen to assist the ministers of the Church as deaconesses.

The Apostle speaks separately about widows with families, who have children and grandchildren, and about unreliable homeless women. He commands that the first be respected as wholly given to God and constantly attending divine services.

He counsels the second to labor in their own household, rendering what is due to parents, and raising and teaching children. This work is pleasing to God.

Concerning the third kind of widows, the Apostle speaks severely. Because they do not care for their own blood relatives, they are worse than unbelievers. Because they give themselves to sensual pleasure, they are as if dead while living.

They are dead to the work of salvation, both their own personal salvation and the common salvation. Young widows are discussed separately. The Apostle counsels them to marry, so that they may not fall under the power of Satan.

This happened to some of them through apostasy from the faith because of sensual desire.

Saint John Chrysostom says: "If one who is a widow has not turned to worldly life, she is a true widow. She who hopes in God and is devoted to prayers is a genuine widow."

"Her advantage lies precisely in being deprived even of the happiness that children bring, because instead of all things she has God."

Concerning those who live luxuriously, he says: "Such women have neither soul nor spirit, but live only by the flesh. Scripture calls them soulless, saying, 'My Spirit shall not abide in these men, for they are flesh' (Gen 6:3)."

"They had a soul, but it was dead. Therefore they were called flesh. The Apostle says: I command that they not be overindulged, because this is a manifest sin."

"For one who leads a luxurious life cannot, and it is wholly inappropriate for such a one to, be a participant in the mysteries. Therefore we also, obeying Paul, will command that widows devoted to sensual pleasure be excluded from the number of widows."

Concerning those who do not care for relatives, he says: "God established family bonds so that we might have more occasions to do good to one another. Therefore, if you do not do what an unbeliever does, have you not denied the faith and become worse than an unbeliever?"

"Where, then, should the one who wrongs his own household be placed, and what place will he occupy?"

Philaret of Moscow (Drosdow)

19th centuryChurch Father

"Honor widows who are truly widows" (1 Tim 5:3), writes the Apostle Paul to Timothy, bishop of Ephesus. It is fitting here and now to recall this apostolic commandment.

To understand the Apostle's saying correctly, one must know that in the first times of Christianity, besides the known and never-changing order of hierarchy and sacred ministry, a special rank of female servants was established in the Church. They were called "widows" because they were in fact chosen from widows. Otherwise they were called "deaconesses," that is, "servants," because their duty was to serve the Church in certain tasks assigned by her.

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Among other things, care for the poor was entrusted to them, as was tending the sick. Especially in times of persecution against the Church, they visited confessors of the faith in prisons. The Apostle commanded that respect be shown to these "widows," and for these useful ministries, when he wrote to Timothy: "Honor widows."

The times of persecution passed. Christian love for mankind could act more freely than before. It seemed that special "servants" of Christian love for mankind had become less necessary. Meanwhile scandals multiplied even among Christians themselves. Withdrawal from mixed society among Christians, for the most part weak and false, seemed to have become more necessary. The apostolic institution of "widows" withdrew into secluded monasteries and deserts.

Now see how the spirit of true Christianity passes through changes of times and through the diversity of peoples, yet always remains the same and like itself. See how even now it renews its first beneficent actions in a form and strength like the former ones.

A monarchess, the mother of the blessed among monarchs, and therefore blessed among mothers, descends from this height of earthly prosperity deep toward suffering humanity. She appears as mother of orphans, widows, the abandoned, the helpless, and the sick.

Being not only humane, but inventive in love for mankind, she fashions new instruments of merciful care from those who have themselves been sheltered by mercy. Thus, among the widows she has sheltered, she seeks out "true widows," capable and disposed faithfully to carry out the ministry of love for mankind.

According to the feelings of her own heart she names them "compassionate." Solemnly dedicating them to the service of the sick, she "honors" them, because of the usefulness, difficulty, and holiness of this ministry. She honors them with a special honor confirmed by the sovereign consent of the most pious monarch.

Such is the lot now received by you, God-loving and humane sisters in the Lord. I already call you God-loving and humane, because I am assured that you have already been tested and found worthy of solemn service to Christian love for mankind.

Yet by the duty of the ministry entrusted to me, I remind you that the Gospel assigns "honor" only to "true widows." Therefore I charge you and entreat you. As you now prepare to pronounce before the all-seeing God the vow of compassion, and to receive the honor of compassionate widows, receive and renew a sincere and pure desire to be truly compassionate widows, God-loving and humane.

Look at the image of a true Christian widow written in the Gospel: "She who is truly a widow, and left alone, trusts in God and continues in supplications and prayers night and day" (1 Tim 5:5). If this is reduced to one feature, it means that she must be pious, or God-loving.

Further, the apostolic institution, in choosing a widow, requires inquiry concerning her: "if she has washed the feet of the saints, if she has received strangers, if she has relieved the afflicted" (1 Tim 5:10). This means that she must be active in love for mankind. Here is the image of your ministry.

As you draw near to this pattern, you will draw near to perfection in your work. You must often look upon this image with the eye of the mind, and always with renewed attention strive to imprint it upon the heart.

The more sincerely you are humane and God-loving in heart, the less difficulty you will find in the works of your ministry. The more success you will have, and the more blessedness.

Through preliminary experience you have surely already learned some difficulties of the ministry you are receiving. How love can lighten them may be seen from ordinary events of life. Why, for example, does a mother often keep watch unforced over her infant deep into the night, while a nurse cannot overcome sleep? Is not the difficulty of long vigil overcome by the power of maternal love?

If natural human love lightens difficult tasks in this way, will grace-filled love for mankind, animated by the power of divine love, be less strong? If you think that all human beings by nature are one in the first man, and that, having divided like streams from one source, they again flow together into one by grace in Jesus Christ, then your heart must feel accordingly.

It must feel that among those entrusted to your care there is truly not one stranger. Then care for neighbors will not differ from care for yourselves. One's own burden is not heavy, as experience says.

If you think that we live, and have no other hope of living, except by the love and mercy of the heavenly Father, then you will always feel how small and insignificant is what we do for our neighbors. Every minute He performs for us more acts of mercy, preservation, and help than we can perform for others in our whole life.

For this reason you will desire to have, and the love of God will give you, "wings of fire" (Song 8:6), so that you may fly easily and swiftly to every work of service to your neighbor.

At the same time as true love for God and neighbor lightens the labor of service to suffering humanity, it also brings forth abundant fruits from that labor. The one who "does not love," just as he himself "abides in death" (1 Jn 3:14), has every work dead and fruitless, even if it bears the outward form of virtue. His word is lifeless, "like a cymbal" (1 Cor 13:2).

But when true Christian love pierces and opens the heart, then in it, and in all its outpourings, appear "the springs of life" (Prov 4:23). A word of consolation from a heart filled with Christian love pours like a stream of life into the heart of the sufferer. Even a glance with such a heart penetrates, like a ray of light, a soul darkened by sorrow.

If this love truly governs your service to suffering humanity, then even the bodily works of this service, by the hidden blessing of God, the supreme lover of mankind, will be saving for the bodies of the sick. Your dispositions of soul will bring them spiritual relief, desirable in itself and naturally beneficial again for bodily health.

What is still more important, your true Christian love for mankind will be an unceasing Christian instruction for them. Your hope in God can strengthen them against despondency and fear of death. The prayer of your faith can be more healing than any medicine, both for their body and for their spirit.

For this reason, after the Apostle gave the command that "the sick man should call for the presbyters of the Church, and let them pray over him" (Jas 5:14), he at once added a general instruction. He did this so no one would think that the prayer of others was thereby excluded: "Pray for one another, that you may be healed" (Jas 5:16).

Finally, the same Christian piety and love for mankind, which alone can make your service beneficent in the highest degree for your neighbors, can also perfectly reward you for your struggles and make you blessed. Earthly honor and recompense do not console for long even those who are attached to earthly things. Still less do they console those who judge things without passion.

Blessed is the one who does not arrange his life and works only to "receive his reward" on earth and from men (Mt 6:2). Blessed is the one who does not stop at earthly things, but "presses toward the prize of the upward calling of God in Christ Jesus" (Phil 3:14).

For this reason earthly honor is also shown to you by the sign of the cross, so that it too may remind you "of the prize of the upward calling of God in Christ Jesus." Do you wish to acquire this honor in undoubted hope and secure it for yourselves forever? Let the love of Christ order the works of your ministry.

First, it will perform this wonder for you: it will turn your service to suffering neighbors into service to Jesus Christ Himself. He gave it this authority when He said: "Inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me" (Mt 25:40).

What can be higher than this honor, though still hidden? What can be more than this blessedness, though concealed? What can be sweeter than one thought: to serve Jesus Christ Himself?

As a result of this service, compassionate love, if you follow it to the end, will raise you also to that royal honor and that highest calling. Then the King of kings will solemnly call you, with all the saints: "Come, you blessed of My Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world" (Mt 25:34). For He will say particularly to you: "I was sick, and you visited Me" (Mt 25:36).

Enter joyfully, then, into this blessed struggle, and carry it out without slackening, with the cooperation of the grace of Christ. To strengthen yourselves in it, each time you place upon yourselves the cross given to you as a sign of compassion, remember the compassion of our Lord Jesus Christ. Out of love for suffering humanity, He healed every infirmity and every disease. He Himself willingly suffered and died on the cross, so that He might heal us all from the deadly sickness of sin.

Remember the compassion of the Most Pure Theotokos, who stood before the cross and burial of her Son with a pierced heart, giving us an example of compassion. By these remembrances graft onto yourselves the pure and saving wound of humane compassion. Let your heart ache with it. This holy wound, for the sick and for the healthy, will be a source of healing. Amen.

Rosanow N.P.

19th centuryChurch Father

After exhortations of a general character, the Apostle gives Timothy directions about dealing with the various persons who belong to the Church.

Touching first on the relations in which Timothy should stand toward ordinary believers of different ages and sexes, the Apostle turns his attention to the question of widows.

Only those widows have a right to church assistance who have no close relatives, children or grandchildren, obligated to care for their nourishment.

Moreover, a widow living under the Church's care must conduct herself as befits a woman not bound by kinship ties to the world. She must devote herself to constant prayer and not indulge in a luxurious life at another's expense.

Theophan the Recluse

19th centuryChurch Father

"Honor" means: do not despise them or neglect them, but have care for them. "Honor stands in place of: show mercy to them and provide what they need" (blessed Theophylact).

But he says to honor those who are true widows. Who, then, are true widows? Certainly those who live well (verses 5-7), but who at the same time have nothing to live on (verse 16).

Blessed Theodoret writes: "Widows who have no source from anywhere to meet their needs should, the Apostle says, receive church assistance."

Saint Justin, in his Apology, says that believers offered to the Church whatever each could. Then the heads of the Churches, the pastors, distributed what had been gathered to the poor, widows, and orphans.

Widows who could support themselves, or whom their own families could support, were not to burden the Church (verse 16). "Such women are not true widows" (Oecumenius). Concerning them, Saint Paul gives the following command.

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Passages read together with this verse.

The original text

Greek text, 5 words with lemma, transliteration and Strong’s number. Tap to expand.

  1. Χήρας
    chēras
    a widow
    G5503 · χήρα
  2. τίμα
    tima
    I value at a price
    G5091 · τιμάω
  3. τὰς
    tas
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  4. ὄντως
    ontōs
    really
    G3689 · ὄντως
  5. χήρας
    chēras
    a widow
    G5503 · χήρα