John Chrysostom
We must eat what is needed for nourishment, and in the measure needed for satisfaction. We must put on what is able to protect us from bad weather and cover nakedness. There must be nothing excessive. Simple clothing can accomplish this.
A wife can help her husband not by her adornments, luxury, requests to her husband for money, pomp, or extravagance. She helps when she rises above all present things and imprints in herself the apostolic life.
Then she shows great meekness, great modesty, great contempt for money, and patience. Then she will be able to support him when she says, "Having food and clothing, let us be content with these." She will confirm such philosophy by deeds.
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She will laugh at bodily death, count the present life as nothing, and regard all the glory of this life, according to the Prophet, as the flower of the field (Ps 103:15).
See how proportionate their commandments are, and how foreign to vainglory. The Apostle says, "Having food and clothing, let us be content with these." It is not as with that Diogenes of Sinope, who without any necessity dressed in rags and lived in a barrel.
He amazed many, but benefited no one. Paul did nothing of the kind, because he was not led by ambition. He dressed with complete propriety, always lived in a house, and was perfect in other virtues. The Cynic despised those virtues, lived a disorderly life, behaved shamelessly before all, and was carried away by the mad passion of vainglory.