John Chrysostom
He continually names them, stating: "Saul and Jonathan, cherished and lovely, were united in life, and in death they remained together." Unable to physically embrace their absent forms, he clings to their names, using this as a means to ease his sorrow and lighten the burden of his misfortune. While many viewed the simultaneous loss of both as an unbearable calamity, he transformed this harsh reality into a source of comfort.
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This is evident in his declaration: "They were inseparable in their lives, and in their deaths they were not separated." He suggests that it cannot be said the son lamented his father’s absence or that the father grieved the loss of his son; rather, he emphasizes that each did not experience what the other faced: both perished on that day, neither outlasting the other. Otherwise, each would have found it impossible to endure life without the other. Are you feeling troubled, weeping in anguish, with tears ready to fall? Remember now, while your heart aches with grief, your foe and insulter; hold him dear in life, and mourn for him in death—not for appearances, but genuinely and from a sincere heart.