2 Kingdoms (2 Samuel) 3:33Meaning & Commentary from the Church Fathers

The poignant expressions through which David openly lamented for Avenir vividly illustrate the anguish of his spirit: ‘And the king raised his voice,’ as recorded in Scripture, ‘and wept over the tomb of Avenir, and said, ‘Is Avenir dead by the death of Nabal? Your hands are unrestrained; your feet are not shackled; you did not meet your end as Nabal did; before the son of iniquity you have fallen.’

He appreciated bravery, even in those who opposed him, and believed it was important to exhibit fairness not just to his own people but also to the adversaries who took up arms against him. He held Avenir, the courageous commander of his foes, in high regard for his warfare. When Avenir sought peace, he did not deny him this kindness but instead celebrated him with a banquet. Following the treacherous death of Avenir, David mourned deeply for him and paid his respects by participating in the funeral procession.

What is the significance of the phrase, ‘Abner died the death of Nabal’ (2 Sam. 3:33)? Nabal, characterized as a harsh, unjust, and thankless individual, faced the rightful judgment of God. In contrast, Abner was known for his honesty in counsel and bravery in combat. Therefore, David remarked: ‘Thy hands are not bound, thy feet are not in fetters; thou hast not come as Nabal, before the sons of unrighteousness thou hast fallen’ (2 Sam. 3:34). This means that you were not defeated in battle or captured as a prisoner; instead, treacherous allegiance has dealt you a grievous blow. The king's sorrow was profound, and his mourning endeared him further to the people.