John Chrysostom
Nothing distances us and causes separation from others quite like the assumption of self-sufficiency, which is why the Lord has designed us to be interdependent. Even if you are wise, you still rely on others; if you believe you are entirely self-reliant, you have become foolish and weaker than anyone. Those who think this way cut themselves off from all support, and should they falter in any aspect, they will refrain from seeking guidance or reconciliation, provoking God's displeasure with their pride and committing numerous transgressions. It often occurs, and frequently, that the learned do not recognize what is required, while those of lesser wisdom may bring it to light. This was evident in the instances of Moses and his father-in-law, Saul and his servant, and Isaac and Rebekah. Therefore, do not perceive it as a degradation to require assistance from others. Rather, it enhances your standing, fortifies you, and ensures your security.