John Chrysostom
After witnessing such humility from Abraham, Lot, as his nephew, ought to have shown respect to the patriarch by granting him, rather than claiming for himself, the privilege of choosing freely. It is a common tendency among us, as human beings, that when we perceive adversaries attempting to engage us in contention over something, striving to assert their dominance, we resist the temptation to accept degradation, refusing to concede. However, when we observe them relenting, offering us heartfelt expressions that provide us full freedom, we often feel a semblance of shame in light of their profound humility, leading us to cease our disputes and surrender authority to them, even if, in our eyes, they seem lesser. This is the response Lot should have exhibited towards his uncle; yet, as a young man driven by the desire for more, he quickly seeks out what appeared to be the most advantageous position, making his own selection instead.