John Chrysostom
‘Adam had relations with his wife Eve.’ Observe the timing of this event. It occurred after their act of disobedience and subsequent banishment from Paradise – then marriage came into existence. Prior to their disobedience, the first humans lived with the purity of angels, and there was no notion of cohabitation. How could there be when they were devoid of physical needs? Initially, their existence was one of virginity; however, with the negligence of the first beings, the emergence of disobedience introduced sin into the world, leading them to lose their worthiness of such a profound gift, thus prompting the establishment of marital law.
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Reflect, dear friends, on the immense value of virginity, its sublime nature, and the significance it holds, surpassing human nature and necessitating divine assistance. For those who choose the path of virginity, existing in the flesh, lead lives akin to those of incorporeal beings; consider the words of Christ directed at the Sadducees. When they presented a query about the resurrection, seeking to ascertain Jesus’ perspective, they narrated, ‘Teacher! We had seven brothers: the first married, but died without leaving children, and left his wife to his brother; similarly the second died, and having no offspring, left his wife to his brother; the third, the fourth, the fifth, the sixth, and the seventh followed this pattern. Therefore, in the resurrection, whose wife will she be? For all seven had her’ (Matt. 22:24-28; Mk. 12:19-23; Lk. 20:28-33). How did Christ respond? He told them, ‘You are mistaken, not knowing the Scriptures nor the power of God; for in the resurrection, they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like the angels of God in heaven.’ Do you see how those who have chosen virginity out of love for Christ, while still living in the body, emulate the life of angels? Thus, as noble as this endeavor is, so too are the rewards, honors, and blessings promised to those who pursue virginity alongside other virtues. ‘Adam knew Eve his wife; and she conceived and gave birth to Cain.’ Through disobedience, sin entered the world, and the decree of mortality was placed upon humanity. Yet the all-powerful God, in His wisdom, ordained the continuation of humankind through marriage. ‘And she said, I have acquired a man from the Lord.’ Notice how the punishment led Eve to greater wisdom: she attributes her child's birth not to mere nature but to God, thus demonstrating her gratitude. Observe how chastisement inspired a call to reform. ‘I have acquired,’ declares Eve, ‘a man from the Lord’; it was not nature that granted me a child; it was the divine grace that bestowed him.