John Chrysostom
Why are you afraid, he says? Why do you fear death, which has been abolished? It is no longer terrible. It has been trampled down, despised, made worthless, and brought to nothing.
What then do the words mean: "who through fear of death were subject to lifelong bondage"? What does the Apostle express by them? He means that the man who fears death is a slave and does everything so as not to die. Or he means that all men were slaves of death, and, since it had not yet been conquered, remained under its dominion.
Or, if not this, then that men lived in continual fear. Always expecting that they would die, and fearing death, they could feel no pleasure, because this fear was always within them. The Apostle hints at this by the words, "throughout all their life."
Here he shows that those who grieve, are persecuted, hunted down, deprived of homeland, possessions, and every other good, pass their life more pleasantly and freely than those who always live in luxury, suffer nothing of this kind, and prosper. For the latter spend their whole life under this fear and are its slaves. The former are free from it and laugh at the very things the latter fear.
It is as if someone were fattening with abundant food a prisoner condemned to death and constantly awaiting it. Such was death's treatment of men in ancient times. But now it is as if someone, after driving away fear, urged men to contend with joy. He sets before them a contest and promises to lead them, not to death, but to the Kingdom.
Tell me, then, among which would you wish to be numbered? Among those who are fattened in prison, daily awaiting their sentence? Or among those who voluntarily contend and toil much, that they may be clothed with the diadem of the Kingdom?
Do you see how the Apostle lifts up their soul and raises them on high? Moreover, he teaches that not only has death been abolished, but through death He has struck the one who is always rising up and waging implacable war against us, that is, the devil. For whoever does not fear death is outside the devil's power.
If "skin for skin, and all that a man has he will give for his life" (Job 2:4), then he who is ready to sacrifice even life, whose slave can he be? He fears no one, trembles before no one, is above all and freer than all. For whoever despises his own life will much more despise the rest.
When the devil finds such a soul, he cannot accomplish any of his designs against it. Tell me, what can he do to it? Will he threaten it with loss of possessions, dishonor, and exile from homeland? All these are slight to one who does not value even his own life, like blessed Paul (Acts 20:24).
Do you see that whoever casts off the grievous dominion of death also crushes the devil's power? He who knows how to philosophize without measure about the resurrection, will he fear death? Will he dread anything else?
Therefore do not grieve and do not say, "Why do we suffer this and that?" For in this way the most glorious victory is achieved. It would not have been glorious if Christ had not destroyed death by death. And the marvelous thing is that He conquered it by the very thing through which it was strong, manifesting everywhere both His power and His wisdom.
Let us not betray the gift given to us. "You did not receive," says the Apostle, "a spirit of bondage" (Rom 8:15), "but of power and love and self-control" (2 Tim 1:7). Let us stand manfully, laughing at death.
But I must sigh heavily when I think to what height Christ has raised us, and to what depth we bring ourselves down. When I picture the cries heard in the marketplace, the lamentations made over those departed from life, the groans, and the other disorders, believe me, I am ashamed before pagans, Jews, and heretics. They see this and all of them utterly laugh at us for it.
Whatever I may say afterward about the resurrection, my words will be vain reasoning. Why? Because pagans do not attend to what I say, but to what is done by you. They will immediately say, "Can any of them ever despise death, if he cannot even see another man dead?"
Paul speaks beautifully, beautifully and worthily of heaven and of God's love for mankind. What does he say? "And deliver those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong bondage." But you do not allow this to be believed, since you refute his words by your deeds, although God has used many means to destroy your evil custom.
Tell me, what do the burning lamps mean? Do we not escort the dead as athletes? What do the hymns mean? Do we not glorify God and thank Him because He has at last crowned the departed, freed him from labors, delivered him from fear, and received him to Himself? Are the hymns not for this? Are the songs not for this?
All these belong to those who rejoice. "Is anyone cheerful? Let him sing psalms," says the Apostle (Jas 5:13). But the pagan does not look at this. "Do not show me," he says, "one who philosophizes when he is not under grief. That is neither important nor wonderful. Show me one who philosophizes in the very midst of grief. Then I too will believe the resurrection."
It is not surprising when worldly women act so, though even this is grievous, for philosophy is required of them also. "I do not want you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning those who have fallen asleep, that you may not grieve as others who have no hope" (1 Thess 4:13). He wrote this not to monks or to those who had dedicated themselves to perpetual virginity, but to worldly women joined in marriage and to worldly men.
Yet this is not so grievous. But when someone, a woman or a man, who claims to have been crucified to the world, tears his hair, while she weeps inconsolably, what could be more indecent than this? Believe my words: if things were done as they ought, such people should be kept for a long time away from the thresholds of the churches.
If anyone is truly worthy of tears, it is those who still fear and tremble at death, and who do not believe the resurrection. But you will say, "I do not disbelieve the resurrection. I follow custom." Tell me, then, why do you not do this when you set out on a journey and undertake a long voyage?
"Then too," you say, "I weep and lament, following custom." There you truly follow custom. Here you despair of the return. Remember what you sing at that time, at the burial: "Return, O my soul, to your rest, for the Lord has dealt bountifully with you" (Ps 114:6). And again: "I will fear no evil, for You are with me" (Ps 22:4). And again: "You are my refuge; You preserve me from trouble" (Ps 31:7).
Consider the meaning of these hymns. But you do not attend to them and are driven mad by grief. Be attentive and sensible at least at the burial of others, so that you may find medicine for your own.
"Return, O my soul, to your rest, for the Lord has dealt bountifully with you," you say, and yet you yourself weep? Is this not pretense? Is it not hypocrisy? If you truly believe what you say, you weep in vain. If you pretend, act hypocritically, and regard this as a fable, why do you sing? Why do you endure those who are present? Why do you not drive away the singers?
"But," you say, "that belongs to madmen." The other belongs to them still more. I speak of this now in passing, but later I will examine the matter more carefully, for I greatly fear that in this way some grievous disease may creep into the Church.
We shall correct this lamentation afterward. For now I speak and proclaim to rich and poor, to women and men. May God grant that all of you depart this life without sorrow. May aged fathers be buried by sons, according to the appointed law, and mothers by daughters, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, in venerable old age. May premature death never befall you.
May God grant you this. I myself pray for it, and I exhort the presbyters and all of you to pray to God for one another and to raise to Him a common prayer for this. But if, may it not be and may it never happen, if a grievous death overtakes any of you, I call it grievous not by its essence, for death is no longer grievous and differs in no way from sleep, but according to our feeling.
If such a thing happens, and someone hires these wailing women, then believe my words. I speak only as I must speak, and let whoever wishes be angry. I will exclude such a person from the Church for a long time, as an idolater. If Paul calls the covetous man an idolater (Col 3:5), much more may one call this man so, who performs over a believer what belongs to idolaters.
Tell me, why do you call the presbyters and the singers? Is it not to receive consolation? Is it not to honor the departed? Why then do you insult him? Why do you dishonor him? Why do you behave disorderly, as though at a spectacle?
We come to philosophize about the resurrection. By the honor paid to him, we teach everyone, even those not yet struck by death, to bear manfully when something similar happens to them. But you bring in those who, as far as they can, destroy our actions. What could be worse than such mockery and ridicule? What could be more grievous than such incongruity?
Be ashamed and come to your senses. If you will not, we shall not tolerate such destructive customs existing in the Church. "Those who sin," says the Apostle, "rebuke before all" (1 Tim 5:20). Therefore through you we command those wretched and contemptible women never to come to the burial of believers. Otherwise we shall force them to lament their own misfortunes, and teach them to grieve more over their own calamities than over those of others.
So a loving father who has an unruly son not only forbids him to associate with corrupt people, but also threatens them. In the same way I command you, and through you them, that neither you invite them nor they come to the burial.
May God grant that our words alone bring some benefit, and that the threat alone have force. But if, may it not be, our words are disregarded, then at last we shall be compelled to put the threat into effect: to punish you according to the laws of the Church, and them as they ought to be treated.
If even after this some insolent person does not come to his senses, let him hear Christ, who even now says: "If your brother sins against you, go and reprove him between you and him alone. If he hears you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not hear, take with you one or two more, that every word may be confirmed by the mouth of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to hear them, tell it to the Church. And if he refuses even to hear the Church, let him be to you as a pagan and a tax collector" (Mt 18:15-17).
If the Lord commands us thus to turn away from a brother who has sinned against me when he does not listen to reproofs, judge for yourselves how I must act toward one who sins against himself and against God. You often condemn us, saying that we do not deal with you gently.
And whoever despises the prohibitions we impose, let Christ again teach him, who says: "Whatever you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven; and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven" (Mt 18:18). Though we are insignificant, worthless, and worthy of contempt, as indeed we are, we do not exact satisfaction for ourselves or gratify our anger, but care for your salvation.
Be ashamed, then, I exhort you, and come to your senses. If everyone patiently endures the rebukes of a friend who attacks him even beyond measure, knowing his purpose and that he does this from good will and not pride, much more should one endure the rebukes of a teacher. And this teacher speaks not by his own authority, nor as a ruler, but as a caretaker.
We say this not to display our authority. How could one think so, when we desire that they should not even experience it? We speak from pity and compassion for you. Forgive, then, and let none of you despise the prohibitions of the Church. For it is not man who binds by them, but Christ, who has granted us such authority and made men possessors of such honor.