John Chrysostom
That is, we did not receive the Spirit in order to be crushed, but in order to have boldness. God gives many even a spirit of fear, for example in war, as we read in the books of Kings.
“Let fear and dread fall upon them” (Ex 15:16), Scripture says. That is, God placed fear in them. But to you He has given the Spirit of power and love toward Him.
Therefore this too comes from grace. Yet it is not simply from grace, but if we first fulfill what depends on us. For the same One who moves us to cry, “Abba, Father” (Rom 8:15), also inspires in us love for Him and for our neighbors, so that we may love one another.
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Love comes from power and fearlessness. Usually nothing destroys love so much as fear and suspicion of betrayal. “For God has not given us,” he says, “a spirit of fear, but of power and love and chastity.”
By chastity he means either soundness of mind and soul, or that we should live chastely. He seeks to bring us to our senses and turn us away from incontinence, even if some misfortune should occur.
Therefore let us not grieve when we are subjected to misfortunes. This is chastity. “Do not be troubled,” the Wise One says, “in the time of visitation” (Sir 2:2).
Many have many domestic sorrows. Sorrows are common to us all, only their causes differ. One suffers grief from a wife, another from a son, another from a servant. One suffers from a friend, another from an enemy, one from a neighbor, another from losses.
There are many different causes of sorrow. In general, it is impossible to find a man free from griefs and sorrows. Everyone experiences sorrows, more or less.
Therefore let us not grow despondent or think that we alone suffer grief. There is no man who passes through this changeable life without grief. If not today, then tomorrow. If not tomorrow, then later griefs come.
As it is impossible for one sailing to be without anxieties, I mean one sailing on the great sea, so it is impossible for one living this life to be without sorrows, even if he is rich.
Precisely because he is rich, he has many occasions for distress. Consider even the king himself. He too depends on many things and does not do everything according to his own desire.
Often he does what pleases others against his own will. In general, he more often than anyone acts otherwise than he wishes. Why? Because there are many who want to obtain something that belongs to him.
Consider what great sorrow he feels when he wants to do something and cannot, whether from fear, suspicion, enemies, or friends. Often, even when he decides to fulfill one of his desires, all the pleasure of the deed is lost because many resist him and are displeased.
What then? Do you think those who spend life without labors are free from sorrows? No. As it is impossible for a man not to experience death, so it is impossible to live without sorrows.
How many vexations they must endure which cannot be expressed in words, but which only they themselves can experience. How often have those living amid wealth and luxury asked for death!
To live luxuriously by no means means to live without griefs. On the contrary, luxury itself gives birth to countless griefs, illnesses, and displeasures. Even if these are absent, the luxurious man often grieves without any reason.
Indeed, when the soul is in such a state, it can grieve even without cause. Physicians say that no small sorrows also arise from weakness of the stomach. Does this not happen to us also, when we grieve and do not know the cause of our sadness?
In general, it is impossible to find a man without sorrow. If the cause of sorrow in others is not so serious as ours, each of them nevertheless thinks the same way. Each feels his own grief more keenly than another’s.
Those whose body aches in some part think their suffering worse than their neighbor’s. If someone’s eye hurts, he supposes there is no pain like his. If someone’s stomach hurts, he counts his pain worse than every other pain.
Whatever each suffers, he considers that the most tormenting suffering. So it is with sorrows of the soul. Each calls the grief that has overtaken him the heaviest, because he judges it from his own experience.
For example, the childless man thinks there is nothing worse than childlessness. But the man who has many children in poverty complains of nothing so much as having a large family.
The man with one son thinks nothing is worse than having only one. Because of this, he says, the son is lazy, grieves his father, and accepts no admonition, while still remaining always the beloved son.
The man who has a beautiful wife says there is nothing worse than having a beautiful wife, because in that case there is much suspicion and many plots. The man who has an unattractive wife says nothing is worse than having an unattractive wife, because this is very unpleasant.
The private man says there is nothing more worthless and lower than such a life. The soldier asserts that nothing is harder and more dangerous than military rank, and that it is better to eat bread and water alone than to endure such hardships.
The one in authority says there is nothing heavier than satisfying the needs of others. The subordinate asserts that nothing is more humiliating than being subject to the authority of others.
The married man says there is nothing worse than having a wife and the cares joined to her. The unmarried man asserts that nothing is worse than being unmarried, since one has neither home nor rest.
The merchant calls the farmer blessed because of his quiet. The farmer calls the merchant blessed because of his wealth. In general, the human race is satisfied with nothing, always complaining and grieving.
When condemning all people, they say that man is nothing, and that the whole human race is a burden-bearing and miserable creature. How many glorify old age! How many count youth a blessedness!
Thus there are many griefs also from the ages of life. When we see that we are condemned for youth, we say, “Why are we not elders?” But when the head is covered with gray hair, we say, “Where is our youth?”
In general, we have countless occasions for sorrows. There is only one path that delivers from this incongruity, the path of virtue. It, of course, is not free from sorrows, but its sorrows are not vain. They bring good and profit.
One man has sinned and, being crushed with sorrow, washes away his sins. Another shows compassion to a fallen brother, and in this too finds no small reward. For compassion toward people in misfortune gives us great boldness before God.
Hear how wisely Holy Scripture speaks of Job. Hear what Paul says: “Weep with those who weep,” and again, “Associate with the lowly” (Rom 12:15-16).
Sharing in the griefs of others greatly lightens sorrows. As helping one who carries a burden alone lightens his load, so it is in everything else.
Yet now, when one of our neighbors dies, many surround him and many comfort those close to him. Often we even lift up a fallen donkey. But when the souls of our brothers fall, we pay no attention and think less of them than of a donkey.
When we see someone shamelessly enter a tavern, we do not restrain him. Whether he gets drunk or commits some other disorder, we not only fail to hinder him, but even take part in it ourselves.
Therefore Paul said, “They not only do them, but also approve those who practice them” (Rom 1:32). Many form societies for revelry and drunkenness.
Man, form societies in order to destroy the passion for drunkenness. Such societies are beneficial for prisoners and for those in sorrows. Paul prescribed something similar to the Corinthians when he said, “that there be no collections when I come” (1 Cor 16:2).
For drunkenness, feasting, and revelry we now do everything. We have a common bed, a common table, common wine, and common expenses. But no one thinks of arranging a common almsgiving.
In the times of the apostles there were such societies. Then they brought all their possessions to one place. I do not require everything, but some part.
“On the first day of the week,” Paul says, “let each of you lay something aside and store up, as he may prosper” (1 Cor 16:2). It is as though he brings a tribute for seven days, gathers it together, and thus gives alms, greater or smaller.
“And no one,” Scripture says, “shall appear before the Lord empty-handed” (Deut 16:16). If this was commanded to the Jews, how much more to us?
For this reason the poor stand at the doors, so that no one may enter empty-handed, but may enter with alms. You enter in order to receive mercy. Therefore first show mercy yourself.
Whoever comes later must give more, because once we have made a beginning, the next must lay down more. Make God your debtor, and then ask Him. Lend to Him, and then demand, so that you may receive with increase.
God wills this and does not reject it. If you ask Him with alms, He is well pleased with you. If you ask Him with alms, you lend to Him and will receive increase.
Thus I impress upon you that one can be heard not by raising hands. Stretch out your hands not to heaven, but to the hands of the poor. If you stretch out your hands to the hands of the poor, you will reach the very height of heaven.
For there sits the One who receives alms. But if you raise your hands without fruit, you will gain no benefit. Tell me, if a king in purple came to you and began to ask you, would you not gladly give him all your possessions?
But now it is not an earthly king, but the heavenly King, who asks you through the mouths of the poor. You stand without paying attention to Him, and you postpone your gift. What punishment do you deserve for this?
Truly, one can be heard not by raising hands and not by many words, but by deeds. Hear what the prophet says: “When you stretch out your hands, I will hide My eyes from you. Though you make many prayers, I will not hear” (Is 1:15).
He who lacks mercy ought to be silent and not lift up his eyes to heaven. Yet he even dares to multiply words. Meanwhile, what does the prophet say?
“Rescue the oppressed, defend the orphan, plead for the widow,” and “learn to do good” (Is 1:17; Ps 9:39). Thus we can be heard even if we do not raise our hands, say nothing, and ask for nothing.
Let us therefore strive for this, so that we may be counted worthy of the good things promised to us.
“For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and love and chastity” (2 Tim 1:7). Here he calls the gracious gift “spirit,” as also when he says, “You were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit” (Eph 1:13).