John Chrysostom
What does it signify to 'go out to meet'? The king, apprehensive and troubled, could not hold his peace at home; as is typical for those under siege, he was driven to frequently leave the confines of his abode, inspecting the fortifications, approaching the gates, issuing commands, and assessing the enemy's situation. Thus, God instructs, 'go out to meet.' The phrase 'you and your son Shear-yasuv' conveys deeper meaning; the name 'Shear-yasuv' in Hebrew translates to ‘remnant shall return’ or ‘conversion and action.’ Therefore, when Jesse sent David to his brothers, he instructed, ‘And Jasub thou shalt take them,’ indicating that he should convey news of their conversion and activities.
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It appears to me that the prophet is directed to gather these people so that at the conclusion, the king might not act ungratefully as though he had received no message from the prophet. The essence of the statement is this: go out to engage with you and those who support you, the remainder of the people. Do not be surprised that God refers to the people as His son; the prophet continues, “Behold I and the children whom the Lord hath given me.” Indeed, the saints acted as fathers, exhibiting love and care for the people that surpassed that of earthly fathers. 'The remnant' are called so because many had been taken away by their adversaries. The phrase ‘to the road to the field of whitewashing’ introduces a significant challenge; how could those who were besieged and too afraid to venture outside find themselves beyond the city's gates, as this pathway lies outside the walls? The resolution to this confusion lies in the fact that ancient fortifications included a second wall; this city was enclosed by two barriers, as can easily be understood from the writings of other prophets.
You have listened to the prophet and have received the command today, ‘go out you and your son Shear-yasuv.’ It is also important to consider this detail, ‘Come out you and your son.’ Therefore, the prophet had a son. If he had a son, then logically he had a wife as well, signifying that marriage is not sinful, whereas adultery is. When we ask many people, ‘Why do you not live virtuously, why do you not follow a righteous path?’ they respond: how can I, if I do not part with my wife or my children? Why is marriage seen as an impediment? A wife should be viewed as a companion, not a burden. Did not the prophet have a wife? Yet this bond did not obstruct the Holy Spirit; he lived with his wife and fulfilled his prophetic duty. Did not Moses have a wife? He performed miraculous deeds, communicated directly with God, and interceded for the Israelites. Did not Abraham take a wife? He became the forefather of nations and the Church; he had a son, Isaac, whose existence prompted many good deeds. Did he not offer a son, born of marriage? He was both a father and a devoted servant of God. He exemplified a man whose natural affections were transcended by divine endeavors, a father who bore the marks of godliness. Can you not perceive how he loved his son while simultaneously loving God? Did marriage obstruct his devotion? And consider the mother of the Maccabees—was she not also a wife? Did she not rally her seven sons to face martyrdom? Did she not witness their sacrifices? Standing firm like a mountain, endured her own martyrdom along with each of them; as the mother of martyrs, she experienced suffering seven times over. As they faced torment, she too felt their strife. Yet, she remained unmoved, a formidable spirit in the face of anguish. Though she encountered the tumult of the storm, her faith kept her unshaken. How did she nurture them? How did she present them to God as seven precious offerings? And indeed, the worth of a soul exceeds even the finest gold. A tyrant may have risen against her, but he was bested by her fortitude; he wielded weapons while she triumphed through her steadfast spirit. He ignited the furnace, but she radiated with moral courage; he assembled an army, yet her aspirations soared toward the divine. She confronted earthly suffering while contemplating eternal glory. Hence, Paul's encouragement remains relevant: ‘not on the things which are seen, but on the things which are unseen.’ Did marriage present a hindrance for her? And Peter, the rock of the Church, a devoted follower of Christ, who spoke boldly before eloquent orators and silenced philosophers, despite being uneducated—did he not also have a wife? Indeed he did, as attested by the Gospel, where it states that Jesus visited Peter’s mother-in-law. Where there is a mother-in-law, there must be a wife; where there is a wife, there is marriage. Philip, too, had four daughters—where there are four daughters, wife and marriage must accompany them. And what of Christ? Though born of a virgin, He honored marriage by attending a wedding, miraculously transforming water into wine, thereby affirming both His purity and the sanctity of marriage. This assures us that we ought not to disdain marriage but rather reject adultery. I promise you salvation amidst risks, if you embrace the institution of marriage wisely. A good wife is a valuable ally. If she is not virtuous, strive to lead her towards righteousness. Others have faced the trials of both prudent and unwise spouses, giving you no justifiable excuse for failure. Consider Job's wife; she was misguided but did not physically harm him. She urged him toward blasphemy. But did her wickedness dismantle this stronghold? Did she shatter his resolve? Did she conquer his spirit? No. She may have provoked him, but instead, she strengthened his fortress. She stirred waves, yet the vessel remained steady. The fruit may have been taken, yet the tree remained steadfast; its roots were undisturbed. I emphasize this so that no one might use a wife's shortcomings as an excuse. Reflect on her nature; is she indeed so wretched? Do not overlook the good that may also flow from marriage. Recognize that the essence of one’s character, be it virtuous or flawed, derives not from mere nature but from the disposition of the heart. Do not offer excuses for your shortcomings.