John Chrysostom
See, however, how she is still moving below. Even after hearing, "I am the resurrection and the life," she still did not say, "Raise him." What did she say? "I believe that Thou art the Christ, the Son of God, who comes into the world."
What then does Christ say to her? "Everyone who believes in Me, though he die, yet shall he live." Here He means this bodily death. "And everyone who lives and believes in Me shall never die." Here He points to that spiritual death.
Since "I am the resurrection," do not be troubled. Though he has already died, believe. This is not death.
Thus, for the moment, He comforted her in what had happened and awakened hope in her. He did this by saying, "He shall rise," and by declaring, "I am the resurrection."
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He also showed that even if, after rising, Lazarus were to die again, he would suffer no harm. Therefore this death should not be feared. His words mean that neither he has died, nor will you die.
"Do you believe this?" Martha answers, "I believe that Thou art the Christ, the Son of God, who comes into the world."
It seems to me that the woman did not understand His words. She recognized that there was something great in them, but she did not comprehend the whole. Therefore, when asked one thing, she answers another.
Yet at least she gained this benefit: she put aside her grief. Such is the power of Christ's words.
For this reason Martha first went out to meet Christ, and Mary followed her. Love for the Teacher did not allow them to feel the present sorrow strongly. Thus, by the help of grace, the minds of these women also practiced true philosophy.
But at present, together with other vices, this sickness also prevails among women. They put themselves on display in weeping and lamentation, baring their shoulders, tearing their hair, and making cuts on their cheeks.
Some do this from grief. Others do it from the desire to show themselves and be distinguished. Still others bare their shoulders, even before the eyes of men, out of wantonness.
What are you doing, woman? Tell me, how can you, being a member of Christ, shamelessly expose yourself in the marketplace, especially when men are present there?
You tear your hair, rend your garments, wail aloud, and make a spectacle around yourself. You appear in the form of frenzied women, and do not consider that you offend God. How great is your madness!
Will not the pagans laugh at this? Will they not think that everything among us is fable? Yes, they will say, there is no resurrection, and the teaching of Christians is mockery, deceit, and invention.
Their women wail as though after this present life there were nothing more. They do not heed the words written in their books. By this they themselves show that all of it is fiction.
If they believed that the dead man had not died, but had passed over to a better life, they would not mourn him as though he no longer existed. They would not torment themselves so, nor utter words full of unbelief.
"I shall never see you again! You will never be with me again!" Everything among them is a fable. If they do not believe in the highest of blessings, then much less do they believe anything else held sacred among them.
The pagans themselves are not so faint-hearted. Many among them have practiced philosophy. For example, a pagan woman, hearing that her son had fallen in battle, immediately asked, "And what is the state of the city?"
One of the philosophers had been crowned with a wreath. When he heard that one of his sons had fallen for the fatherland, he removed the wreath and asked, "Which of the two?" As soon as he learned which had fallen, he at once put the wreath on again.
Many even gave their sons and daughters as sacrifices, out of reverence for demons. The Lacedaemonian women even urged their children either to bring back their shield from war, or to be brought back dead upon it.
Therefore I am ashamed that pagans practice such philosophy, while we behave indecently. Those who know nothing of the resurrection act as befits those who know. Those who know act as those who do not know.
Many often do for human shame what they do not do for God. Thus wealthy women do not tear their hair or bare their shoulders.
Yet even this deserves the severest condemnation. This is not because they do not expose themselves, but because they act thus not from piety, but to avoid appearing shameless.
So shame restrains grief, but the fear of God does not restrain it? How is this not worthy of the severest condemnation?
At least the poor should do through fear of God what wealthy women do because of their wealth. But now everything is the opposite. The wealthy practice philosophy from vainglory, while the poor act unbecomingly from faint-heartedness.
What is worse than such absurdity? Everything is done for men. Everything is done from earthly motives. Speeches are also delivered, full of madness and much laughter.
The Lord says, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted," Mt 5:4, meaning those who mourn over sins. Yet no one mourns with this mourning, and no one cares for the soul that is perishing.
This, by contrast, we have not been commanded to do, and yet we do it. What then, you say, is it possible for a person not to weep? I do not forbid this. I forbid only tormenting oneself and weeping without measure.
I am not a beast, nor am I inhuman. I know that nature is revealed in this, and that it seeks companionship and daily communion. It is impossible not to grieve.
Christ Himself showed this, for He wept over Lazarus. Do the same. Weep, but quietly, becomingly, and with fear of God.
If you weep in this way, it will be a sign not that you disbelieve the resurrection, but that separation is painful for you.
We also weep for those who set out on a journey and are separated from us. Yet we do not weep as those who despair. So you too may weep, as though seeing off one who is departing to a foreign land.
I say this not to establish a law for you, but by way of condescension.
If the one who died was a sinner and greatly offended God, then one should weep. Or rather, one should not merely weep, for this brings him no benefit. One should also do what can bring him some relief: almsgiving and offerings.
Yet even in this case one should rejoice, because the opportunity to sin has been taken from him. If he was righteous, then one should rejoice still more, because he is in safety and has already been delivered from the uncertainty of the future.
If he was young, rejoice that he was quickly freed from the evils surrounding us. If he was old, rejoice that he departed after having enjoyed to satiety what is considered desirable.
But you forget to think of this, and compel the maidservants to wail, as though thereby honoring the departed. Yet this is the greatest dishonor.
Honor for the dead consists not in weeping and lamentation, but in sacred hymns, psalmody, and a good life. Such a man, when he departs from here, will depart with angels, even if no one is present by his remains.
But a corrupt man, even if the whole city escorts him, will gain no fruit from it. Do you wish to honor the dead? Honor him in another way, by alms, acts of mercy, and liturgies.
What benefit is there in many lamentations? I have heard of another grievous evil as well. They say that many women even attract lovers to themselves through their mourning, gaining a reputation for loving their husbands by the excess of their cries.
What a diabolical invention! What a satanic contrivance! How long shall we be earth and ashes? How long shall we be blood and flesh?
Let us look toward heaven. Let us think of spiritual things. What opportunity will we have to rebuke the pagans, or to comfort them, when we ourselves behave in this way?
How shall we converse with them about the resurrection? How shall we speak of any other philosophy? How shall we ourselves live without fear?
Do you not know that death comes from sorrow? By darkening the eye of the soul, sorrow not only prevents it from seeing what it ought, but also causes great harm.
Indeed, when we give ourselves over to excessive grief for the dead, we both offend God and bring no benefit either to ourselves or to the departed. When we act otherwise, we please God and acquire a good opinion among men.
If we ourselves do not lose heart, then God quickly destroys even the remainder of our sorrow. But if we grieve greatly, He leaves us under the power of sorrow. If we give thanks, we will not grieve.
But how is it possible, you say, not to grieve when one has lost a son, a daughter, or a wife? I do not say not to grieve. I say not to grieve without measure.
If we consider that God has taken them, and that our husband and son were mortal, we will soon receive comfort. To grieve here means to demand something beyond nature.
If you were born a human being and mortal, why do you grieve over what has happened according to nature? You do not grieve because you sustain your life by food. You do not seek to live without food.
Act the same way toward death. Do not seek immortality before its time, when you were born mortal. This has been determined once for all.
Therefore do not grieve or be crushed, but bear calmly what has been laid down as law for all. Grieve rather over sins. This is good sorrow. This is the greatest philosophy.
Let us then grieve continually over this, so that there we may be counted worthy of joy, by the grace and love for mankind of our Lord Jesus Christ, to whom be glory unto ages of ages. Amen.