The Church Fathers on this verse

John 16:21Meaning & Commentary from the Church Fathers

A woman, when she is in labour, hath sorrow, because her hour is come; but when she hath brought forth the child, she remembereth no more the anguish, for joy that a man is born into the world.

Douay-Rheims

η γυνη οταν τικτη λυπην εχει οτι ηλθεν η ωρα αυτης οταν δε γεννηση το παιδιον ουκετι μνημονευει της θλιψεως δια την χαραν οτι εγεννηθη ανθρωπος εις τον κοσμον

Greek (Byzantine text)

The Church Fathers on this verse

14 Church Fathers comment on this verse

John Chrysostom

4th centuryChurch Father

Then, to show that joy comes after sorrow, that sorrow gives birth to joy, and that sorrow is brief while joy is endless, He turns to an example from ordinary life and says, “A woman, when she gives birth, has sorrow.”

Here He uses a parable often employed by the prophets (Isa 26:17), who compare sorrow with the severe pains of childbirth.

His words mean this: birth pangs, as it were, will seize you, but birth pangs become the cause of joy.

At the same time, He confirms the truth of the Resurrection and shows that departure from here is like coming forth from the mother’s womb into the light.

He speaks as though saying: do not be astonished that through such sorrow I lead you to what is profitable. A mother too, through sorrow, attains the state of becoming a mother.

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Here He also hints at something mystical: that He destroyed the pangs of death and brought it about that a new man was born.

He did not merely say that sorrow passes away, but that not even the memory of it remains. So great is the joy that follows it.

So it will be with the saints. Yet a woman rejoices not because a man has come into the world, but because a child has been born to her.

If she rejoiced for the former reason, nothing would prevent women who have not given birth from rejoicing over others who do.

Why, then, did He speak in this way? He gave this example only to show that sorrow is temporary and joy abiding, that death is a passage to life, and that great benefit comes from sorrow.

He did not say, “a child has been born,” but “a man.” By this, it seems to me, He hints at His own Resurrection.

He also hints that He was to be born not for this painful death, but for the Kingdom. Therefore He did not say, “a child has been born to her,” but, “a man has been born into the world.”

Theophylact of Bulgaria

11th centuryChurch Father

Then He gives the familiar example of a woman and childbirth. The prophets also used this comparison, signifying the highest degree of sorrow by the severity of birth pangs.

He speaks as though saying: sorrows will overtake you like birth pangs, but the pang becomes the cause of birth.

At the same time, He confirms the teaching of the Resurrection and shows that to die is like coming forth from the mother’s womb into the light.

Do not be astonished, then, that you must attain joy through such sorrow. For a mother too, through sorrow and pain, attains the state of becoming a mother.

Here He hints at something mystical: that He destroyed pangs and death, and brought it about that a new Man was born, no longer corruptible and no longer subject to death. This Man is the Lord Himself.

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See, He did not say that the woman no longer remembers the sorrow because a child has been born “to her,” but because a man has been born “into the world.”

He did not say this without purpose. He spoke so in order to hint, enigmatically and veiledly, that He Himself is the Man born not for Hades, which had travailed with Him, but for the world.

For from the Resurrection there was born for us a new and incorruptible Man, Jesus Christ our God.

Therefore the example of the woman in childbirth does not require adaptation in every detail to the events concerning Christ.

Its purpose is only to show that sorrow is temporary, that these pangs bring great benefit, and that the Resurrection gives birth to life and to a new being.

Everything else in the comparison has no application, and rightly so. For this is a parable. If a parable were preserved in all its parts, it would no longer be a parable, but the very thing it depicts.

Cyrill of Alexandria

5th centuryChurch Father

Again He strives to find consolation for them and uses various expressions, helping them in every way to remove the sharpness of sorrow.

See how He hastens, through a vivid example, to persuade them that they must endure and not greatly fear afflictions or sorrows, if these must surely and inevitably end in joy.

Behold, He says, the fruit of a woman’s intense pains is an infant, and through sufferings joy comes to mothers because of their children.

But if from the beginning they had refused the pains of birth, and had been wholly unwilling to conceive, avoiding marriage as the cause of this, they would never have become mothers.

Through fear they would have avoided so desirable and much-desired a thing.

In the same way, your sorrow will not remain without reward. You will rejoice when you see born to the world the wondrous Child, incorruptible and immortal.

He is clearly speaking of Himself.

Augustine of Hippo

5th centuryChurch Father

Now the Church, in birth pangs, strives to bring forth the fruit of her labors. Then she will bring it forth in contemplation. Now she gives birth in groaning; then she will give birth in joy. Now she gives birth by prayer; then she will give birth by praise.

And this child is male, because all the works of the Church are performed for the sake of this fruit of contemplation. For He alone is free from every bond. He is in Himself, and is bound by nothing. Every service is for Him. Everything good is destined for Him, because it is done for His sake. He Himself exists not for anything else, but in Himself.

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There is the end which is enough for us. It will be eternal, because no end will be enough for us except Him Who has no end. This thought inspired Philip when he said: Show us the Father, and it is enough for us (Jn 14:8). And the Son shows Himself, saying that He is in the Father and the Father in Him. Such joy no one will take from you.

Then He adds and says: A woman, when she is giving birth, has sorrow, because her hour has come. But when she has given birth to the child, she no longer remembers the anguish, for joy that a man has been born into the world. So you now have sorrow. But I will see you again, and your heart will rejoice, and your joy no one will take from you (Jn 16:21-22).

This comparison does not seem difficult to understand, because the likeness is evident. The very context makes clear why it is introduced. The pangs of childbirth are compared with sorrow, and the birth with joy, which is greater when a boy, not a girl, is born.

As for the words, and your joy no one will take from you, since their joy is Christ Himself, they imply what the Apostle said: Christ, having risen from the dead, dies no more; death no longer has dominion over Him (Rom 6:9).

Until this point in the chapter of the Gospel about which we are speaking today, everything has been sufficiently easy to understand. What follows requires more serious attention. What does He mean when He says: And in that day you will ask Me nothing (Jn 16:23)?

This verb, to ask, rogare, means both to request, petere, and to question, interrogare. The Greek Gospel from which this translation was made contains a word that can be understood in either way, so that the ambiguity cannot be avoided here.

Yet even if it could be avoided, the question would remain unresolved. For we read that the Lord Christ, after He had risen, was both questioned and petitioned. Before He ascended into heaven, the disciples asked Him when He would manifest Himself and when the kingdom of Israel would come (cf. Acts 1:6).

When He was already in heaven, Saint Stephen asked Him to receive his spirit (cf. Acts 7:59). Who would dare to think or say that Christ, dwelling in heaven, should not be petitioned, or that He was not questioned while He dwelt on earth?

Or that one should not petition the Immortal One, but had to question Him while He was mortal, that is, while He remained in a mortal state? Certainly not, beloved. Let us ask Him to untie the knot of this question Himself, granting light to our hearts, so that we may discern what He said.

I think that His words, But I will see you again, and your heart will rejoice, and your joy no one will take from you, should not be referred to the time when He rose and showed them His flesh for examination and handling (cf. Lk 24:39).

Rather, they refer to what He said: He who loves Me will be loved by My Father, and I will love him and will manifest Myself to him (Jn 14:21). He had, of course, already risen, already shown Himself to them in the flesh, and already sat at the right hand of the Father.

Yet the same Evangelist John, to whom this Gospel belongs, said in his Epistle: Beloved, now we are children of God; and it has not yet been revealed what we shall be. We know that when He is revealed, we shall be like Him, because we shall see Him as He is (1 Jn 3:2).

This vision belongs not to this life, but to the life to come. It is not passing, but eternal. And this is eternal life, as He Who is Himself Life said: that they may know You, the only true God, and Jesus Christ Whom You have sent (Jn 17:3).

Of this vision and knowledge the Apostle says: Now we see as through a dim mirror, in an enigma, but then face to face. Now I know in part, but then I shall know, even as I am known (1 Cor 13:12).

The Church now gives birth, awaiting the fruit of all her labor. Then she will bring it forth, seeing it face to face. Now she gives birth in groans; then she will give birth in joy. Now she gives birth by offering prayers; then she will give birth by rendering praise.

This fruit is male, because all our actions are directed toward this fruit of contemplation. In the vision of God by man, blessed Augustine distinguishes contemplation accessible in this life, such as prayerful meditation, from the blessed vision face to face, which belongs to the age to come, except in rare cases by a special gift of God.

For this fruit alone is free, liber, because it is self-sufficient and bound by nothing. Blessed Augustine often speaks of Christ's exceptional freedom in the sense that He alone freely chooses His lot: when to be born, when to accept death, and so forth.

This fruit is desired for its own sake, not for the sake of something else. We act for its sake. Every righteous act belongs to it, because it is done for its sake. It is desired and possessed not for something else, but for itself.

Here precisely is the end that will satisfy us. For it is eternal, since no end will satisfy us except the one that has no end. It stirred Philip when he said: Show us the Father, and it is enough for us (Jn 14:8).

And the Son promised to show Himself, saying: Do you not believe that I am in the Father and the Father in Me? (Jn 14:10). Thus, concerning what is enough for us, we have heard with complete certainty: Your joy no one will take from you (Jn 16:22).

Ambrose of Milan

4th centuryChurch Father

By this He showed that joy is accessible to the perfect, while anxiety accompanies the weak because of fear before the changes of life.

Euthymios Zigabenos

11th centuryChurch Father

“When a woman gives birth, she has sorrow because her hour has come,” that is, the time of painful labor. “But when she has delivered the child, she no longer remembers the anguish, for joy that a man has been born into the world.”

For a woman giving birth, brief sorrow caused by the pains of birth brings lasting joy over the child born. So also for you, as Jesus Christ says to the disciples, temporary sorrow over My death will bring lasting joy over My Resurrection.

Macarius the Egyptian

4th centuryChurch Father

Formerly human nature, having turned away from God, became dead and barren. The human soul likewise became childless and unfruitful.

Now this soul has received into itself the heavenly seed, so that it may be able to bear the fruits of the Spirit.

At first Adam was alone, and then the woman was created from him. If Adam had not been joined to his wife, he would not have produced fruit.

So too the soul, if it is not joined and does not enter into communion with Christ, cannot bear the fruits of the Spirit.

For the Divine Seed, the Word of God, which fell into the Theotokos Mary, also falls into all believing souls.

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In like manner they give birth from the spiritual Fountain of salvation, as Scripture says: “Because of Your fear, O Lord, we conceived, and travailed, and gave birth to the spirit of salvation” (Isa 26:18).

Thus the soul bears fruit to God. “A woman, when she gives birth, has sorrow… but when she has given birth, she rejoices, because she has brought a man into the world.”

So the soul, receiving the heavenly seed into itself, endures sorrow until it gives birth, being subjected to manifold temptations.

When it gives birth, that is, when it becomes perfect, it rejoices with constant and ineffable joy, because a heavenly and new man has been born into the world above.

Beda Venerabilis

7th centuryChurch Father

Just as a woman rejoices when a man is born into the world, so the Church is filled with exultation when the multitude of believers is born to the life to come.

She suffers much and groans now at their birth, like one in the pains of childbirth.

It should not be strange to anyone that one departing from this life is said to be born.

Just as it is commonly said that a man is born when he comes forth from his mother’s womb and appears in the light, so release from the bonds of the flesh and ascent to the light of eternity may quite rightly be called birth.

From this arose the Church’s custom of calling the day of the blessed martyrs’ and confessors’ departure from the world their birthday.

Their festal commemorations are therefore connected not with burial, but with birth.

Alexander Gorsky

19th centuryChurch Father

The disciples’ perplexity, as they tried to grasp the meaning of His words from their sensory point of view, gave occasion for this to be revealed more fully.

He compared their present sorrow to the pangs of a woman that precede birth. After this passing sorrow, a new spiritual birth would be revealed in them.

Now they are encompassed by sorrow, but He will see them again, and they will be filled with joy, and their joy will be abiding.

Then they will no longer need His sensory presence in order to ask Him to explain anything obscure to them, as they now need to question Him.

For then the Father Himself will give them whatever they ask in the name of Jesus Christ. That is, He will give it not personally through someone else, but inwardly through divine revelation.

Bogolepow D.P.

19th centuryChurch Father

Before this activity of the Holy Spirit, the Comforter, is revealed, the disciples must endure a separation painful to the heart from their beloved Teacher.

This separation, however, will not last long. Christ will soon come to them again.

The disciples wondered in perplexity what the Lord’s words meant concerning His soon departure from them and His coming to them.

He answered that the state of the disciples’ soul during their separation from Jesus Christ would be as difficult as the state of a woman in childbirth.

For the world, however, this time would be a time of joy.

Yet, like a woman who has given birth, the disciples will be filled with unceasing joy when, enlightened by the Holy Spirit, they behold Jesus Christ with a pure and faithful spiritual eye, because He goes to the Father.

Gladkow B.I.

19th centuryChurch Father

Just as a woman, enduring sorrow and pains in childbirth, immediately forgets them once she has given birth and rejoices at the child’s birth, so you also are now sorrowful because I am departing from you.

But when I see you again, you will rejoice, you will forget your sorrow, and no one will take your joy from you.

Michail (Lusin)

19th centuryChurch Father

To show the force of these feelings of sorrow and joy, the Lord compares them with the feelings of a woman giving birth. This image is often used in this sense in the Old Testament books (Is 21:3; 26:17; 37:3; 66:7; Hos 13:13, and others).

The point of comparison between the Apostles’ feelings and those of a woman giving birth is only the intensity of the feelings and their swift change. All the other features serve only as adornment of the discourse, cf. Theophylact.

“When she gives birth” means when the time to give birth comes, when labor begins.

“You now have sorrow” refers to this farewell discourse (Jn 16:6), and to the sufferings and death of the Lord until His Resurrection.

Philaret (Gumilevski)

19th centuryChurch Father

The times and seasons appointed by the Ruler of the world for the correction of men are often compared in Holy Scripture with the time of a woman’s travail (Isa 21:3; 26:17; 66:7-8; Hos 13:13; Jer 4:31; 6:24; 22:23; 4 Kgs 19:13).

In this way the Savior also depicts the disciples during His death on the Cross.

“And you therefore now have sorrow,” He says in explanation of the image set forth. “Do not be astonished,” He says, “that by this sorrow I lead you to what is profitable, since a mother also becomes a mother through sorrow.” Chrysostom, In S. John, Hom. 79.

The Pascha of Christ’s sufferings was a time of heavy sorrows for the disciples (Mk 16:10). Yet these sorrows were purifying sorrows.

One may say that these days of grief changed the Apostles in many ways for the better.

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The Savior’s voice also touched them: “Do not weep for Me, but weep for yourselves” (Lk 23:28).

The triumph of the world and of wickedness showed them what the joys of the world mean. It showed what its hopes mean and what its dreams of the earthly greatness of the Messiah mean.

The time of sorrows gave them freedom to look more deeply into their own hearts.

It led them more than once to question themselves, whether it was not for their sins, or for their not always worthy conduct toward the great Messenger of God, that He had been taken from them.

On the other hand, their love for the beloved Teacher suffered together with Him.

The torments by which the evildoers tortured Him stirred up still greater love for the wondrous Righteous One whom they were losing.

Wlastow G.K.

19th centuryChurch Father

Chrysostom says, “Here the Lord hints at something mystical, namely, that He destroyed the pangs of death and brought it about that a new man was born.”

The Lord’s comparison refers first to the mystical act of redemption, second to the state of the Apostles’ souls, and third to the development, suffering, and joy of the Christian Church in general.

As Man, the Lord said in the garden of Gethsemane, “My soul is very sorrowful, even unto death” (Mt 26:38 and parallels). This sorrow, His sufferings, and His death created the new man.

The Lord also compares the sorrow of the Apostles’ soul to the sorrow of a mother bringing a man into the world.

This child is the new man, purified in the furnace of sufferings, ready to receive, and actually receiving, the Spirit of God.

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This man born in sufferings, the bearer of the mysteries of God, is that new man whom the Lord appointed to conquer the world.

He was to plant the Cross, the emblem of sufferings, love, and self-renunciation, in places defiled by the exultations of the flesh, by cruelties, and by egoism.

The whole struggle of the Christian and of Christ’s Church against the pagan world was likened to the same mother, grieving in the pains of birth and forgetting her sufferings in the joy of a new man’s appearance.

“Sorrow is temporary; joy is abiding,” says Chrysostom on the same passage.

There is also a significant passage in the Prophet Hosea, where he speaks in the Lord’s name about the sons of Ephraim.

“The pangs of childbirth shall come upon him, Ephraim… From the power of Hades I will ransom them; from death I will deliver them. O death, where is your sting? O Hades, where is your victory?” (Hos 13:13; 1 Cor 15:55).

The name Ephraim, in the dual number, is interpreted as “doubly fruitful.” Therefore, in the Prophet, the words about Ephraim do not refer only to Ephraim’s descendants or to the tribes composing the kingdom of Israel.

Ephraim represents the symbolic name of all who are called to bear fruit in the Lord’s vineyard.

These are all who formed the community of Christ. In the pains of birth this community found the joy of creating the new man, created according to the image and likeness of God incarnate.

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Passages read together with this verse.

The original text

Greek text, 29 words with lemma, transliteration and Strong’s number. Tap to expand.

  1. ἡ
    hē
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  2. γυνὴ
    gynē
    a woman
    G1135 · γυνή
  3. ὅταν
    hotan
    when
    G3752 · ὅταν
  4. τίκτῃ
    tiktē
    I bear
    G5088 · τίκτω
  5. λύπην
    lypēn
    pain
    G3077 · λύπη
  6. ἔχει
    echei
    I have
    G2192 · ἔχω
  7. ὅτι
    hoti
    that
    G3754 · ὅτι
  8. ἦλθεν
    ēlthen
    I come
    G2064 · ἔρχομαι
  9. ἡ
    hē
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  10. ὥρα
    hōra
    an hour
    G5610 · ὥρα
  11. αὐτῆς
    autēs
    he
    G846 · αὐτός
  12. ὅταν
    hotan
    when
    G3752 · ὅταν
  13. δὲ
    de
    but
    G1161 · δέ
  14. γεννήσῃ
    gennēsē
    I beget
    G1080 · γεννάω
  15. τὸ
    to
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  16. παιδίον
    paidion
    a little child
    G3813 · παιδίον
  17. οὐκέτι
    ouketi
    no longer
    G3765 · οὐκέτι
  18. μνημονεύει
    mnēmoneuei
    I remember
    G3421 · μνημονεύω
  19. τῆς
    tēs
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  20. θλίψεως
    thlipseōs
    persecution
    G2347 · θλῖψις
  21. διὰ
    dia
    through
    G1223 · διά
  22. τὴν
    tēn
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  23. χαρὰν
    charan
    joy
    G5479 · χαρά
  24. ὅτι
    hoti
    that
    G3754 · ὅτι
  25. ἐγεννήθη
    egennēthē
    I beget
    G1080 · γεννάω
  26. ἄνθρωπος
    anthrōpos
    a man
    G444 · ἄνθρωπος
  27. εἰς
    eis
    into
    G1519 · εἰς
  28. τὸν
    ton
    the
    G3588 · ὁ
  29. κόσμον
    kosmon
    the world
    G2889 · κόσμος