Our first mother, Eve, did not establish a safeguard: when the serpent tempted her, the uniqueness of this encounter should have prompted caution. Through the ear, lured by curiosity, the poison of words infiltrated her heart and corrupted her soul with sin before the act of eating the forbidden fruit contaminated her body. Similarly, Adam failed to shield his ear from the sinful words of his wife, and through his careless listening, he allowed death to infect all humanity. In contrast, the Blessed Virgin Mary, destined to fulfill the sacred role of healing humanity from the deadly infection of sin, rectifies the original transgression of her predecessors as she embarks on this mission. When she hears the angel’s welcoming voice, which she had partially recognized during her upbringing in the Temple of Jerusalem, she simultaneously “watches… how she hears...” She does not hastily accept the exalted address but rather pauses for thoughtful contemplation. “She was troubled at his saying, and considered what manner of salutation this should be” (Luke 1:29).
What is this message that induces confusion in a pure and tranquil soul? It is the angel's proclamation, “Rejoice, highly favored one, the Lord is with you; blessed are you among women” (Luke 1:28). Yet, what could possibly cause this disquiet? Typically, confusion arises from words that are sorrowful, harsh, demeaning, offensive, or menacing. The words of the angel, however, contain none of these elements; they express joy, reverence for the Blessed Virgin, her esteemed position, and divine favor. Engage with this matter from a spiritual perspective. A word that brings sadness, harshness, or offense can provoke our impatience and pride. These traits were absent in the Blessed Virgin, so even stern words would not disturb her. Instead, deep humility resides within her, rendering any words that elevate her unacceptable. Humility resists the spotlight of praise; it recoils from it, fearing potential harm. Therefore, in response to flattery, it silently questions: Are you truly an angel of light? This encapsulates the essence of the confusion that arose in the heart of the Blessed Virgin at the greeting of the heavenly messenger.
However, this pure bafflement is not a natural condition. A soul that experiences it instinctively seeks an escape. How did the Blessed Virgin navigate this? Through quiet contemplation. “Pay close attention to the silence of the Blessed Virgin in the presence of the preaching angel: you will discover that this silence possesses a wisdom equal to that of the spoken word. Had Mary rushed to respond to the angel’s praise without denying it, she would have affirmed and accepted the honor, which could have compromised her humility. Conversely, if she had reacted with denial, it might have insulted the heavenly messenger. By remaining silent, she skillfully sidestepped both pitfalls and used the moment for reflection, pondering: ‘What might this greeting signify?’ What is the significance of such an extraordinary salutation? How do we respond to a greeting that feels both daunting and unsettling to accept or reject? If a word emanates from God, will He not reveal a sign to dispel confusion and trepidation? Indeed, a sign appeared: in response to the profound silence of the Blessed Virgin, almost as to an intelligible word, the angel replied, “Do not be afraid, Mary” (Luke 1:30). Through this, she realized that God had disclosed her inner state to the angel and issued a word of comfort, enabling her to calmly and faithfully receive the angel’s further tidings. Thus, she was prepared to embrace the joyous message of the Incarnation of the Son of God, the Saviour of the world, and from her immeasurable depth of humility, she was able to sustain immeasurably high faith.
Do you recognize, Christian soul, at least in part, the essence of the Blessed Virgin's soul, her inner serenity, and her vigilant self-preservation? Learn from her wisdom, emulate her watchfulness in discourse. “Pay attention... to how you hear.” Do not be disheartened by the grandeur of her path, for your own may differ. Should you be complacent and uninterested in following the Blessed Virgin even from a distance on the upward journey, you risk sliding into the downward path of Eve, leading to ruin. It is all too easy for a crafty “serpent, the most cunning of all the creatures” (Gen. 3:1), lacking true wisdom—far removed from even the wisdom of mankind and even further from heavenly understanding—to appear as a resident of paradise while secretly belonging to the realm of darkness. Such a one may shower you with alluring and flattering words while secretly infecting you with slander and blasphemy against God, offering you enticing fruit that ultimately leads to sin and death.
The Blessed Virgin’s example illustrates that even angelic messages should be received with discernment. If such vigilance was necessary for her, it is even more crucial for us, as the Apostle cautions: “And no marvel, for Satan himself is transformed into an angel of light” (2 Corinthians 11:14). Therefore, the careless may mistake gleaming brass for genuine gold—deceptive words for ultimate truth. If you encounter an extraordinary message in your external or internal hearing that seems heavenly, do not hastily accept it; reflect in silence and determine whether it aligns with the authentic word of God and the teachings of Christ. Guard yourself with humility and prayer, alongside the guidance of those with spiritual wisdom. Truth will not resent your caution; untruths and deceptions will have a harder time ensnaring you.
If even an angel must “take heed… how he hears,” what can be said of human conversations? There are countless false and wicked thoughts among people, numerous passions and vices—all capable of infecting others, visibly or imperceptibly, through speech. Many dangers exist, both evident and concealed, requiring great prudence and carefulness.
When you hear words that extol you, proceed with caution. Praise often masks flattery; it can lead you to become self-congratulatory if you fall under its spell, stripping you of humility and prompting negligence in furthering your own development and deeds. Upon hearing praise, consider what you must become, recall your shortcomings, and strive toward praiseworthy thoughts, intentions, and actions, rather than being enticed by the fleeting sound of accolades.
If you encounter words that offend or humiliate you, be on guard against succumbing to “wrath,” which “works not the righteousness of God” (James 1:20). Remind yourself, “This is an opportunity to cultivate patience and humility,” responding to insults with either silence or, when necessary, with a gentle and truthful reply.
Should you hear words that condemn or criticize your neighbor, exercise caution so you do not partake in the sin spoken. Do not focus your heart on words that can do more harm to the speaker than to the one being criticized.
When faced with words that evoke sadness from present or impending calamities, be wary lest your grief overtake your reason and will. “Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord delivers him out of them all” (Psalm 34:19). Alleviate your sorrow through prayer, calming yourself by surrendering to God’s will and nurturing faith in His mercy.
What if you encounter words or notions of ungodliness, unthankfulness, or unbelief through reading? Quickly close your ears and shut your eyes to the evils that may tempt you. Do not engage your curiosity or seek entertainment in them. Avoid touching the filth; do not play with fire. Do not wish to discover the taste of poison.
Is it not vital, asks someone, to exercise caution when listening to spiritual and moral teachings? Indeed, caution is essential so that one is not, as the Apostle James describes, “a forgetful hearer” who glances in the mirror, departs, and forgets his appearance. For it is not the one who hears who is blessed, but “the doer of the work, the same shall be blessed in his deed” (James 1:22-25). Amen.