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Thus, the individual who sought consent to accompany Him, while wishing to first bid farewell to his family, was not granted permission to return home for that purpose, nor was he allowed to simply say farewell.
And another said: I will follow thee, Lord; but let me first take my leave of them that are at my house.
ειπεν δε και ετερος ακολουθησω σοι κυριε πρωτον δε επιτρεψον μοι αποταξασθαι τοις εις τον οικον μου
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Thus, the individual who sought consent to accompany Him, while wishing to first bid farewell to his family, was not granted permission to return home for that purpose, nor was he allowed to simply say farewell.
We commend zeal in virtuous endeavors as something deserving of great esteem. However, those who achieve this mindset must be resolute in their aspirations and steadfast in their objectives. They should embody an unwavering and uncompromising spirit; only then can they launch themselves forward, much like athletes at the starting line, reaching their destination, celebrating victory, and adorning themselves with the crown of triumph.
The Savior of all encourages us towards this sincere determination, emphasizing its significance when He states: ‘Which of you, wishing to build a tower, does not first sit down and calculate whether he has enough to finish it; lest, says He, having laid the foundation, and not knowing how to finish it, passers-by should say, “This man began to build and did not know how to finish.”’ Such a person becomes a figure of scorn; every noble and righteous commencement ought to be followed by a commendable conclusion. The law of Moses conveys this principle, instructing that those who construct a house must also place a roof upon it. For anyone lacking perfection in goodness remains culpable. Just as a house without a roof brought shame in its time, the Gospel passage we examined illustrates a similar point: ‘For one came near, saying, I will follow thee, O Lord; but first let me go to bid farewell to them that are in my house.’ While the vow he makes is admirable and praiseworthy, his desire to say farewell reveals that he is, in a sense, conflicted, indicating that he has not yet embarked on his journey with unwavering resolve. He is restrained as though by a bridle, eager to rush forward yet held back by worldly attachments and a lingering wish to remain partially engaged with worldly concerns. Ultimately, no one hinders his progress towards his goal if he genuinely wishes to pursue it according to his own inclinations. However, his intention to seek counsel from those unlikely to share his commitment clearly demonstrates that he is weak, indecisive, and not yet fully prepared to act in alignment with his aspiration to follow Christ.
The one who begins to cultivate the land but turns their gaze backwards compromises their ability to focus on the task at hand due to negligence. In this way, the Savior aptly referred to discipleship as akin to plowing, stating: ‘No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God.’ To follow Christ, it is essential to set aside all distractions immediately and pursue Him consistently, so as not to be hindered by an attachment to the past. For what is more valuable or worthy than God?
Our Lord, the most loving Jesus, understood that unless a person relinquishes all concerns, their thoughts cannot rise to the cross. He instructed to forsake all that the mind is familiar with, as it is essential to descend from the cross of worldly attachments. For when an individual approached Him, expressing, ‘I will follow You, Lord,’ but requested to first go and manage what is "in my house" (Luke 9:61), our dear Jesus recognized that sight of these matters would pull his heart back toward them, causing various distractions to keep him there. Thus, He cautioned him, saying, ‘No one having put his hand to the plow, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God’ (Luke 9:62).
Following the parable of the wedding banquet for the king’s son, in which the king prepared a feast and sent out his servants to summon those invited, they could not attend due to their attachments to worldly affairs. Jesus lamented, stating, ‘If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father, and mother, and wife, and children, and brothers, and sisters, and even his own life, he cannot be My disciple’ (Luke 14:26).
The individuals chosen for this new fellowship were not to be impeded or limited in any manner in carrying out the mission given to them. When one man requested to bury his father and another wished to bid farewell to his family, the Lord did not permit it.
In this passage, Matthew provides an account while Luke presents the same two instances along with an additional one, which he describes in a distinct context; according to Luke, this occurred during Christ's final journey from Galilee to Judea (9:57-62). It is plausible that each Evangelist, while recounting an actual event from that time, includes another similar occurrence that took place at a different moment. The scribe was denied permission to follow Christ, revealing the underlying reason for this rejection: the scribe held worldly aspirations and Messianic expectations, believing that Jesus would soon manifest Himself as the triumphant Messiah-King.
He expected to secure a position of prominence in Christ's kingdom, demonstrating a selfish desire to align himself with Jesus early on.
Conversely, another individual, who was not a scribe but a disciple in a broader sense, received a call from the Lord (as noted by Luke) but requested to first go and bury his father. To this, Christ replied: “Let the dead bury their own dead.” Each person received a response reflecting their mindset. It is clear that this disciple resembled the third individual mentioned by Luke; he was still gazing back while holding on to his plow, unable to completely detach his spirit from worldly concerns for the sake of Christ. Allowing him to return home to bury his father would have exposed him to influences contrary to Christ, risking his total loss. In contrast, if he chose to demonstrate significant self-denial for Jesus’ sake from the outset, he would solidify his position as a devoted follower.
Another follower approached Jesus without waiting for an invitation and said, "I will follow You, Lord, but first allow me to bid farewell to my family." However, Christ did not grant him the permission he sought. The first disciple had a more justifiable reason for his brief absence—the passing of his father—while the second disciple lacked the resolve to sever all ties with his former life immediately. Although he yearned to follow the Lord, he recognized his attachment to the temporal joys of this world, leading to a conflict between two opposing desires.
Ultimately, the aspiration to walk with Jesus began to prevail, and filled with joy at this internal triumph, he eagerly declared, "I will follow You, Lord, but..." Yet again, the struggle resurfaced; life’s allure tugged at him as he hesitantly and meekly added, "But first let me say goodbye to my family."
A comparable reply was offered to the third individual seeking discipleship. This person requested a postponement, not to accompany Christ immediately on His path, but to bid farewell to his loved ones first. The response he received has become a timeless proverb: ‘No one who puts his hand to the plough and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God.’ As Blessed Augustine eloquently noted, one must redirect their focus away from the diminishing West. It was with this profound understanding that the revered saints and ascetics of the Church found encouragement and strength, having severed all familial and worldly ties in devotion to Christ.
Another individual remarked, as noted exclusively in Luke. Luke. - The phrase “farewell to his household” illustrates a longing that signifies an overattachment to worldly ties, which hinders an individual from fully committing to the path of Christ. This renders such a person unsuitable for the kingdom of God, as revealed in the Savior's response. “This individual discloses a fondness for the temporal world and lacks the spirit of an apostle: for when the Apostles received the call of the Savior, they responded instantly, forsaking everything, even bidding farewell to their families. Often, while one is taking leave of their loved ones, some among them may impede the pursuit of a life aligned with God. Therefore, it is wise to act upon the intent to do good promptly and without hesitation.”
As they walked, an individual approached Jesus and sought permission to follow Him. The Lord responded similarly to a previous encounter, indicating He had nowhere to rest (Matt. 8:19-20). Another was invited by the Lord with the words, “Follow me,” but hesitated, expressing uncertainty and reluctance, saying, “Lord, let me first go and bury my father.” The Lord replied, “Let the dead bury their own dead; but you go and preach the kingdom of God.” Then, a third person volunteered to follow, saying, “I will follow You, Lord!
But first allow me to say farewell to those at home.” The Lord responded, “No one, having put his hand to the plow, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.” To illustrate His point more clearly, the Lord drew from everyday life familiar to His listeners: a farmer plowing a field does not look backward or to the side; instead, he focuses steadily ahead to ensure a straight furrow, leading to the success of his efforts. Likewise, a disciple of Christ should not glance back at worldly possessions that might distract him from the path of salvation he has chosen, nor rekindle the attachments he surrendered for a greater love for God (Mt. 10:37).
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