Cyrill of Alexandria
We must ultimately grasp the misunderstanding held by some of the Jews regarding God’s nature, perceiving Him as vengeful and unyielding. It is not the Scriptures that they can justly criticize for lacking completeness; rather, their limited understanding leads them to believe that God punishes children for their parents' sins, extending divine wrath to the third and fourth generations, thereby unfairly chastising innocents for the offenses of others. On the contrary, a discerning individual among them would realize that the Source of truth and the foundation of our morality cannot commit injustice. Human authorities administer penalties defined by law only to the wrongdoers, seldom affecting their descendants, unless those descendants actively participate in the wrongdoing.
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Therefore, how could He, who has set forth the laws of righteousness, allow Himself to be honored through actions that are outright condemned?
Moreover, we must consider that God established numerous laws through Moses, prescribing varied consequences for wicked living. Yet, nowhere in these laws does He indicate that the children would be punished alongside the transgressors. His decrees apply solely to those guilty of wrongdoing against the law. Thus, to maintain the Jewish perspective on this matter is irreverent; the wise must always contemplate the essence of Divine Nature and uphold that which is fitting for the Sovereign over all things. With just cause, we must perceive the Lord, the Creator of all humanity, as embodying inherent mercy and desiring reverence for His immense compassion. He proclaims, “The Lord is longsuffering and abundant in goodness, forgiving iniquity and transgression,” and it is clear He does not wish to be seen as so vengeful as to extend His anger even to the fourth generation. How could He be longsuffering and merciful, or how could He forgive sins and transgressions if He were to impose penalties not only on the offender but also on the innocent? It seems improbable and irrational to assert that God could be both compassionate and harbor such drawn-out and unreasonable wrath.
Additionally, those with a Jewish viewpoint might mistakenly conclude that God lacks the discernment of appropriate timing. If He promises patience and postpones His wrath, why then state, “visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation”? Such a statement risks discouraging those who receive His forgiveness, leading them to despair if He is perceived as merciless, holding His rightful anger indefinitely. What would Moses, the priest and teacher, seem to be if he, when Israel sinned and faced the potential punishment, came before God pleading for mercy while suggesting that God is usually inclined to repay the sins of fathers upon their children? This approach would more likely provoke indignation than demonstrate a plea for mercy; it seems to advocate for retribution rather than patience. Yet, I believe Moses intended to invoke God's memory of His own declarations about His characteristic kindness, emphasizing that He is indeed “slow to anger and abundant in mercy.”
To understand these divine words rightly, we must recognize, “The Lord is longsuffering and abundant in goodness, forgiving iniquity and transgression” (Ex. 34:6-7). The next phrase, however, should be interpreted as an inquiry, leading us to consider, “Will He not cleanse the guilty by visiting their sins upon their descendants?” (v. 7). This invites the realization that the longsuffering God who forgives sins must also have the capability to cleanse the guilty—otherwise, how could He embody patience and fully remit sin if He does not purify the wrongdoers? It should be made unmistakably clear that God’s declaration of holding the sins of the fathers upon the children for three or four generations does not imply punishing the son for the father's transgressions. Rather, He highlights that, for instance, a lawless individual filled with vice should be chastised without delay. However, due to His longsuffering, he may not receive immediate justice. If that individual has a son equally corrupt or even more so, the longsuffering of God extends to him as well. Should this pattern continue through successive generations, God's wrath may eventually manifest after allowing ample time for repentance, perhaps even extending to the fourth generation, which profoundly demonstrates divine mercy.
The reality that God does not punish a son for his father’s sins, nor a father for his son’s transgressions, is clearly articulated in the words of Ezekiel to the Israelites who lamented, “The fathers have eaten sour grapes, and the children's teeth are set on edge.” “Then the word of the Lord came to me: What is this proverb you have in the land of Israel, saying, ‘The fathers have eaten sour grapes, and the children's teeth are set on edge’? As I live, says the Lord God, you shall no longer use this proverb in Israel. Behold, all souls are Mine; the soul of the father as well as the soul of the son is Mine. The soul who sins shall die” (Ezekiel 18:1-4, 20-24).