Cyrill of Alexandria
Concerning widows and widowers, he provides specific guidelines and wisely asserts that their commitments should be honored without exception. He consistently reproaches those who are uncommitted and outside the covenant of marriage for failing to uphold their promises. However, he justly allows for exceptions for those who find themselves in a powerless state, subjected to the authority of others. In these instances, the authorities, namely the father and husband, who have sanctioned the vows of those under their care, bear the burden of impiety if they refuse to honor what they have pledged. Should they withhold their consent, he offers the assurance of forgiveness, for that which is dedicated to God ought to stem from genuine free will rather than coercion (Num. 30:10-17).