John Chrysostom
“In knowledge,” he says, “and in all discernment, that you may approve what is excellent,” that is, what is profitable. I say this not for myself, but for you, says the Apostle, because there is danger lest someone, loving heretics, be infected by them. He hints at all this when he speaks in this way.
Notice how he orders his words. I do not say this for myself, but “that you may be pure,” that is, lest under the guise of love you receive false teaching. How, then, does he say elsewhere, “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all men” (Rom 12:18)?
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The expression “live peaceably” does not mean: love in such a way that friendship harms you. For it is said, “If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you” (Mt 5:29). Rather, he says, “that you may be pure,” that is, before God, “and blameless,” that is, before men.
Friendship often harms many. Even if it does you no harm at all, another may be scandalized. “In the day of Christ” means that you may then appear pure, having scandalized no one.