Significant effort and struggles are required for those who are habitually drunkard to overcome their dependence; for those trapped in adultery, to break free from unfaithfulness; for those who love money, to escape from avarice; for those engaged in theft and fraud, to be liberated from such practices; for those who gossip and speak ill of others, to refrain from such behavior; for those who are accustomed to swearing by God, to avoid blasphemy; for those prone to lying, to speak the truth; and for those caught up in the allure of worldly pride and vanity, to detach themselves from it. Many attempt to rid themselves of their passions and express remorse for their condition, but often they revert to them, as passion, akin to a magnet, continuously attracts them back. Thus, dear Christian, prepare yourself against your flesh in your youth; equip yourself to combat the desires and temptations that wage war against your soul and seek its destruction. Remove these passions and desires from your heart while they are still new and have not yet grown, so they do not eventually lead to the demise of your soul. They are your primary adversaries—your closest foes—always present within you. They encircle your soul, oppressing it, robbing it of its dignity, and diminishing its cherished freedom. They divert your focus from God and His divine love, hindering you from fulfilling His will, serving Him, and offering pure, pleasing prayers. They distract you from meditating on higher matters, from heeding the word of God and bearing its fruit, as well as from cultivating heavenly, holy thoughts that nurture and uplift you, and striving for eternal bliss. Your soul is encapsulated by these foes, imprisoned in darkness like a dungeon, stripped of freedom and dignity: ‘Bring my soul out of prison, to confess to Thy name. The righteous wait for me, till the day when Thou rewardest me’ (Psalm 141:8). ‘Remember, O Lord, what was done to us: look, and see our reproach’ (Lamentations 5:1).
Subdue these rebellious and lawless impulses that arise from your passions. Conquer your enemies while they are still small—if allowed to grow, they may destroy you. Let them perish so that your soul can thrive. Be a warrior, not one who lies down in defeat. Stand boldly against these foes; don’t become subjugated to them, but strive to be their master, not their servant. Resist them, lest they overpower you and take you captive, yielding you as their prisoner. Woe to the soul dominated by such oppressions! Serve the Lord, not these base desires—thus, you will be a servant of God, rather than of sin. It is impossible to serve both God and fleshly passions, to please God and satisfy the cravings of the flesh, or to pursue God's will and indulge in sinful desires, as they are opposed to one another. What God desires, the flesh resists; conversely, what God abhors, the flesh craves. Renounce your carnal nature, ‘and crucify it with its passions and desires, that you may be a servant of God and a man of God. Those who belong to Christ have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires’ (Galatians 5:24). ‘My soul shall live and praise Thee, and Thy judgments shall help me. I have gone astray like a lost sheep; seek Thy servant, for I do not forget Thy commandments’ (Psalm 118:175-176). ‘O God, cry out for my help, O Lord, rescue me. Let those who seek my soul be ashamed and put to shame!’ (Psalm 69:2-3).