Augustine of Hippo
Let us therefore cherish God, dear brethren, with purity and integrity. A heart that is truly pure cannot seek God solely for the sake of reward. How can this be so? Will we not indeed receive a reward for our devotion to God? Certainly, rewards are promised, but our focus must remain on God Himself. He will be our ultimate reward, for we shall behold Him in His true glory. (1 Jn. 3:2) Take note that a reward awaits you.... I say to you, brethren: in human relationships, consider the nature of a chaste heart in its approach to God. A man who loves his wife does not do so merely for what she brings; likewise, a woman who solely loves her husband for material reasons is lacking in true love.
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Even the wealthy husband, and those who might find themselves in poverty, both have responsibilities in their relationships. Numerous men who have been cast aside by faithful wives have been found to be even more deeply cherished! The trials endured by husbands often illuminate the depth of true marital bonds; we cannot assume that wives place any other attachment above their husbands, as they remain devoted, even in hardship. Thus, if a husband is loved freely and with integrity, and if a wife is loved in the same manner, how much more should we love God, the true and righteous Spouse of our souls, who grants us the fruits of eternal life and prevents our barrenness? Therefore, let us love Him as our sole focus; everything we have spoken and sung is realized within us, for our voices also resonate: On the day I call upon You, behold, I have learned that You are my God. To call upon God is to do so with true freedom. What was said of certain individuals? They were not genuinely calling upon the Lord. They appeared to seek Him, asking for inheritances, wealth, longer lives, and other fleeting matters; and what does Scripture reveal about them? They did not sincerely call upon the Lord. Thus, what is the outcome? They feared where there was no reason for fear. What constitutes this absence of fear? It stems from concerns about losing money, possessions, or even the years of life they had anticipated: they trembled with anxiety where no genuine threat existed... In God I will praise the word; in the Lord I shall praise the discourse (Psalm 55:10): In God I trust; I will not fear what man can do to me (Psalm 55:11). This sentiment echoes what has been stated previously.