Jerome of Stridon
You are reminded of the Blessilla community, filled with love and support, and the thought of losing it causes you deep distress. While I am prepared to extend forgiveness for your mother’s tears, I urge you to keep your grief in check. Although I cannot fault you when considering the bond of parenthood, in the context of being a Christian and a nun, the concept of motherhood must take a backseat. Your sorrow is still raw, and any attempt to tend to it may seem to amplify rather than alleviate the suffering. Yet, why not apply reason to temper the sadness that will eventually lessen over time? Naomi, who fled famine into Moab, endured the loss of both her husband and her sons. In her time of need, Ruth, though a foreigner, remained by her side (See Ruth 1:14).
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Observe the profound significance of bringing comfort to a bereaved woman: as a reward for her loyalty, Ruth would become an ancestor of Christ (See Ruth 1:5). Reflect on the immense trials that Job faced, and consider—though you are sensitive—the gaze directed towards heaven amidst the ruins of his home, the painful sores, the immense losses, and the cunning words of his wife. Through all of this, his perseverance remained steadfast.