John Chrysostom
Then the Apostle brings forward the final and strongest argument: even now, he says, God commands this through me.
“If anyone thinks himself to be a prophet or spiritual, let him understand that the things I write to you are the commandments of the Lord. But if anyone does not understand, let him not understand” (1 Cor 14:37-38).
Why did he add this? To show that he does not compel and does not wish to contend. Such is the speech of those who do not strive to fulfill their own wishes, but have in view the benefit of others.
Therefore he also says elsewhere, “But if anyone seems to be contentious, we have no such custom, nor do the churches of God” (1 Cor 11:16).
Read more (104 words)
Yet he does not act this way everywhere, but only where the faults were not very great. Even in such cases, he rather puts them to shame.
When he speaks of other transgressions, he does not express himself so. How then? “Do not be deceived: neither fornicators, nor the effeminate, shall inherit the Kingdom of God” (1 Cor 6:9).
And again, “Behold, I, Paul, say to you: if you become circumcised, Christ will profit you nothing” (Gal 5:2).
But here, since his discourse concerned silence, he does not rebuke his hearers very sharply, and by this very thing he draws them more to himself.