John Chrysostom
What then? Does woman not inherit salvation? On the contrary, he says, she does inherit it. What salvation? Salvation through children.
He was not speaking of Eve alone when he said, "if they continue in faith and love and holiness with chastity." In what faith? In what love? In what holiness with chastity?
He was saying, as it were: Women, do not be crushed because your sex fell under condemnation. God has given you another means of salvation, namely, the raising of children. Thus you can obtain salvation not only through yourselves, but through others.
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See how many questions arise over one and the same subject. "The woman," he says, "being deceived, fell into transgression." What woman? Eve. Then will she be saved through childbearing? No. The Apostle does not say this, but that the whole female sex will be saved.
Was she not guilty? Certainly she was. Yet although Eve was guilty, the whole female sex will be saved through childbearing.
Why not through their own virtue? Does childbearing deprive the other virtues of their force? Besides, what has this to do with virgins? What has it to do with the barren? What has it to do with widows, who lost their husbands before they began to bear children?
Have they perished? Is there not the least hope left for them? Yet virgins are praised above all. What, then, does he mean?
Some say that, just as from the creation the whole female sex was placed in subjection because of what happened to the first woman, so it is here. Eve was created second and was in subjection. Therefore, they say, the whole female sex must be in subjection.
So too here, because Eve committed transgression, the whole female sex became transgressive. But this has no foundation. There everything was done according to the will of God. Here it was the consequence of the woman's sin.
Therefore his words have this meaning. Just as all men die on account of one man, because one man sinned, so the whole female sex became transgressive because the woman committed transgression. Yet let her not grieve. God gave her no small consolation, namely, childbearing.
But this, you say, is a matter of nature. So was the other also due to the influence of nature. Yet she was given not only what depends on nature, but also what pertains to the raising of children.
"If they continue in faith and love and holiness with chastity," that is, if after giving birth they preserve themselves in love and purity. Their reward will be no small one, but very great, because they have raised combatants for Christ.
By holiness he means a righteous life, and by chastity, seemliness. "The saying is faithful" (1 Tim 3:1) refers to this, not to "if a man desires the episcopate."
Since doubt had arisen on this point, he says, "The saying is faithful." Fathers and mothers can reap the fruits of their children's virtue when they have brought them up well.
But what if she herself is dishonorable and full of innumerable vices? Will the raising of children bring her any benefit? Is it not more likely that she will bring them up like herself? He speaks of the virtuous woman, not of every woman. Such a woman will receive great reward and recompense.
Hear this, fathers and mothers: the raising of children will not remain without reward for you. He says the same thing later: "well reported for good works, if she has brought up children" (1 Tim 5:10). Among other things, he sets this forth.
It is truly no small matter to dedicate to God children given by God. If parents lay firm supports and foundations beneath the building, they will receive a great reward. Conversely, for negligence they will undergo punishment.
So Eli perished through his children, because he ought to have corrected them. He did indeed correct them, but not as he should have done. He did not wish to grieve them, and he destroyed both them and himself.
Hear this, fathers. Bring up your children in the discipline and instruction of the Lord with great care. Youth is untamed and needs many instructors, teachers, guides, overseers, and tutors. Only with such efforts can it be restrained.
What an unbridled horse is, and what an untamed beast is, youth is also. Therefore, if at the beginning, from the earliest age, we set proper limits for it, later we shall not need great efforts. Habit will then become law for them.
Let us not allow them to do what is pleasant and at the same time harmful. Let us not indulge them because they are children. Above all, let us preserve them in chastity, for here youth can suffer the greatest harm.
We must especially care for this, and to this we must be especially attentive. Let us take wives for them sooner, so that they may be joined to their brides with a pure and uncorrupted body. Such love is especially ardent.
He who was chaste before marriage will remain so all the more after marriage. By contrast, he who learned fornication before marriage will do the same after marriage. "To a fornicator," it is said, "all bread is sweet" (Sir 23:23).
For this reason crowns are placed on their heads, as a sign of victory. They enter the bridal chamber unconquered, because they were not overcome by desire. But if a man, carried away by pleasure, has given himself to harlots, why does he then wear a crown on his head, since he has been conquered?
Let us impress this upon them. Let us correct them with this, frighten them, threaten them, now doing one thing, now another. A weighty deposit has been entrusted to us: our children. Let us care for them and use every means, lest the evil one steal them from us.
Yet now everything among us is the opposite. We use every effort to make a field good and to entrust it to a reliable man. We seek out the most skilled donkey driver, mule driver, overseer, and steward.
But we give no attention to what is dearest to us, namely, entrusting a son to a man able to preserve him in chastity. Yet this treasure is more precious than all the others, and the others come for its sake.
We care about possessions for them, but not about them themselves. Do you see what madness this is? First form your son's soul, and he will receive possessions afterward.
If his soul is not good, he will not receive the least benefit from money. Conversely, if it has been properly formed, poverty will not harm him at all. Do you wish to leave him rich? Teach him to be good.
In this way he can increase his estate. Even if he does not increase it, he will be no worse off than those who are well-to-do. But if he is wicked, then even if you leave him countless treasures, you have not left a guardian of them.
Rather, you have made him more wretched than those who have fallen into the deepest poverty. For children who have not received a proper upbringing, poverty is better than wealth.
Poverty, even against their will, keeps them within the bounds of virtue. Wealth, even if someone wished otherwise, does not allow a chaste life, but drags him away, overthrows him, and brings him into countless crimes.
You mothers, above all, watch over your daughters. This care is not difficult for you. See that they remain at home. Before all else, teach them to be pious, modest, to despise money, and not to be overly concerned with adornment.
Give them in marriage in this condition. If we form them in this way, you will save not only them, but also the husband who takes her. Not only the husband, but the children. Not only the children, but the grandchildren.
If the root is good, the branches also will grow better, and for all this you will receive a reward. Therefore let us all act as befits those who care for the good not of one soul, but of many through one.
When a daughter enters marriage, she should leave her father's house like an athlete leaving the place of contest. That is, she should know precisely the whole art by which she can, like leaven, raise the whole mixture to her own beauty.
Sons likewise should be so modest that they are recognized above all by their good conduct and chastity. Thus they may obtain great praise both from men and from God.
Let them learn to restrain the belly, to avoid unnecessary expenses, to be prudent, tenderly loving, and to obey authority. In this way they can bring a great reward to their parents.
Then everything will be to the glory of God and to our salvation, in Christ Jesus our Lord, with Whom to the Father, together with the Holy Spirit, be glory, dominion, and honor, now and ever, and unto the ages of ages. Amen.