I love you so much that I cannot live without you, and I desire nothing for you except good. Yet instead of saying, “I love you with strong love,” he uses a circumlocution of love.
“For I said before that you are in our hearts, to die together and to live together.” He had not expressed his love for them in these exact words. Yet he had expressed it in other words no less strong.
He said: “Our heart is enlarged. You are not restricted in us” (2 Cor 6:11-12). To say to someone, “With you I can both die and live,” is the same as saying: “I have embraced you with broad love and will never part from you.”
Saint Chrysostom says: “Truly such love is very great. Even though despised by them, he is ready both to die and to live together with them. The Apostle does not simply say, ‘You are in our hearts.’
“He says it in such a way that, according to his words, we are ready to live and die with you. One may love and still flee dangers that threaten because of the beloved. But we do not love in this way.
“‘If some calamity should befall you,’ he says, ‘I am ready to endure everything for your sake. For me neither death nor life has importance in itself. To be where you are is preferable to me.
“‘With you, even death is better than life, and life better than death. Many suffer with their friends when they are in distress. Yet when their friends prosper, they do not rejoice with them, but even envy them.
“‘We, however, are not like this,’ says the Apostle. ‘If you fall into calamity, we shall not fear to share your misfortune. If you prosper, we shall not envy you.’”