Atonement is useless if the underlying disposition remains unaltered. What benefit is there in lamenting over sin while continuing to sin? Cease, O man, from your wrongful actions and yield fruits worthy of repentance. Then your contrite and humble spirit will not be scorned by God (Psalm 50:19), and your repentance will be meaningful when it is sincere.
Let us reflect on Esau's tears and investigate how he ought to have repented. Esau weeps bitterly, not just shedding tears but crying out with a loud wail. Who would remain unmoved by such profound sorrow? Who could doubt that he would receive pardon from God? Who would question the forgiveness of his transgressions? Who would not believe that a compassionate God would value such immense tears? Yet they were deemed unwelcome, rejected, and distasteful: “Esau I will hate,” declares God in prophecy (Malachi 1:2). Why is this so? Consider carefully: Esau weeps. What prompts his tears? Is it sorrow for his sins? No! He weeps over his loss—the loss of his father's blessing and birthright. He had sinned gravely before the Lord by treating the sacred birthright—itself an esteemed and holy gift—as worthless, selling it for a mere bowl of stew. This was a significant transgression, as he disregarded the Lord's priestly service and disdained God Himself, rejecting the holiness of his calling. He also took wicked and idolatrous women as wives, causing grief to his parents, and this too counted as sin against him: the Apostle refers to him as a profane person (Hebrews 12:16), bringing upon himself great anger from God. For his transgressions, he became unworthy of his father's blessing and birthright.
Did Esau truly repent for such grave sins and weep? The Scriptures do not record that he regretted his wrongdoings and sought God with true contrition and tears. When he felt estranged from that to which he had no claim, he mourned—not for his sins, nor for God’s wrath, nor for his unworthiness, but for the blessings he lost. The Apostle notes that he sought repentance "with tears," indicating he sought it, but what was he repenting of? He did not confess his wrongdoing related to selling his birthright. Instead, he blamed Jacob, exclaiming, "My birthright has been taken!" (Gen. 27:36). Rather than acknowledging, "I have sinned by selling my birthright," he asserts, "My birthright has been taken," implying Jacob had wrongfully seized it from him. Esau ought to have recognized his sin and repented, bringing his guilt before God; he should have wept not only for his loss but primarily for having offended the Lord his God. However, since he did not repent as required, his remorse was in vain, and his tears went unheeded. We are reminded here to understand what we should mourn over in our repentance: not solely the significant losses incurred due to our transgressions, but above all, that we have grieved our Creator and hurt His goodness.