Genesis 27:44Meaning & Commentary from the Church Fathers

It is understandable that both the passage of time and its cessation will yield a more favorable outcome: passions will be subdued, jealousy will be eradicated. As it is said, “To ... my brother, ... and dwell with him for a little time”; a brief period, he indicates, a few days to be with him until his wrath diminishes. At present, his anger overwhelms him: fueled by his emotions, he has no regard for his father, and thoughts of brotherly affection are far from his mind, focused solely on satisfying his fury.

Rebekah encouraged Jacob to leave his home to escape his brother and seek refuge with Laban, who was an idolater. Isaac, Jacob's father, advised him against marrying a Canaanite and instead urged him to pursue one of Laban's daughters. In a similar manner, the Church, which Rebekah can represent, wisely advises the new believers, who face peril and persecution, to distance themselves from those filled with wrath and violence. Christ, the Bridegroom, endorses this guidance, instructing her to avoid spiritual ties with those consumed by wicked anger and intent on murder, while favoring those coming from Laban's household, indicating the Gentiles.

With a spirit of humility, Jacob submitted to his enraged brother, choosing to heed Rebekah's counsel, which emphasized the virtue of patience. Rather than provoke his brother's wrath, he decided to seek refuge in a distant land, returning only once his brother's heart had softened. It was through this wise decision that he received tremendous favor from God. Through numerous sacrifices and offerings, Jacob earned his brother's goodwill, who, in the end, chose to remember only the gifts presented to him, overlooking the blessing that had been deceitfully taken away.