John Chrysostom
However, his brothers did not respond in the same manner. Upon hearing the news, it is written, “And Shem and Japheth took a garment, and putting it on their shoulders, they went behind and covered their father's nakedness; their faces were turned backward, and they did not see their father's nakedness.” Do you observe the decorum exhibited by these sons? While one has exposed the shame, they hold back their gaze, intentionally turning their faces away as they approach to cover their father’s vulnerability. Notice how, marked by great humility, they remain gentle. They do not rebuke or distress their brother; upon hearing the tale, their sole concern is swiftly rectifying the wrong and honoring their father.
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It is stated, “Their faces were turned backward, and they did not see their father's nakedness.” The respect these sons held for their father was profound: as Scripture indicates, they not only covered their father's shame but also refrained from beholding it. Let us examine these two examples and draw lessons: we should strive to emulate the latter (Shem and Japheth) while avoiding the actions of the former (Ham). If indeed the one who has exposed shameful nakedness invokes a curse upon himself, being deprived of what his brothers possess and condemned to serve them, though the burden falls upon his descendants, consider the fate of those who discover their brothers' transgressions and, rather than concealing them, escalate their exposure, thus multiplying sin.
When you bring to light your brother's sin, you risk driving him deeper into shame and apathy, distancing him from the path of righteousness. Furthermore, those who hear your revelation become hardened and more inclined to remain in evil, and you provide a reason for others to blaspheme God. The punishment that awaits those who prompt this sin is well-known. Therefore, let us shun the shamelessness of Ham and instead embrace the purity demonstrated by these modest sons by covering the sins of our brothers—not to encourage negligence, but to spur them on toward a swift liberation from the grip of sin and a return to righteousness. For an individual who is vigilant finds that concealing their wrongs allows for correction; conversely, when a person loses their sense of shame, realizing that their misdeeds are known to everyone, they become reluctant to amend their ways. It is as if they are caught in a deep mire, swept away by turbulent waves, unable to resurface, eventually succumbing to despair and hopelessness. Thus, let us refrain from disclosing our neighbors' sins; instead, when we learn of them from others, let us resist the temptation to uncover their shame. Like the virtuous sons mentioned earlier, let us cover their faults and strive to uplift the fallen through encouragement and counsel, reminding them of God’s great compassion, boundless goodness, and immense mercy. In this way, we may receive greater blessings than those (sons of Noah) from the God of all, “who wills that all men should be saved, and come to the knowledge of the truth” (1 Tim. 2:4), and who does not desire “the death of the wicked … but that he should turn from his ways and live” (Ezek. 18:23). “And they saw not,” it is said, “the nakedness of their father.” Witness how, in ancient times, guided only by natural law, they acted in accordance with what would later be codified in the written law for the edification of humanity. The law instructs, “Honour thy father and thy mother, that thy days may be long in the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee” (Ex. 20:12), and also, “Whosoever shall speak evil of his father or mother shall be put to death” (Ex. 21:17); and they had already lived this out in action. Do you not see that even before the law, nature itself serves as a capable teacher of virtue?