John Chrysostom
So He comes to the tomb and again restrains His sorrow. But why does the Evangelist carefully and more than once note that He wept and that He restrained His sorrow?
It is so that you may know that He was truly clothed in our nature. Since this Evangelist clearly says greater things about Him than the others, here he relates His human actions in a far humbler manner.
Concerning His death he said nothing like what the others said, namely, that He was sorrowful and in agony. He said the opposite, that He even cast the soldiers down.
Therefore what he omitted there he supplied here, speaking of His weeping. Christ Himself, speaking of His death, says, “I have authority to lay down” My life (Jn 10:18). He says nothing lowly.
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For this reason, when the Evangelists narrate His sufferings, they attribute many human things to Him. By this they show that His Incarnation is true.
Thus Matthew confirms this when he speaks of His agony before death, His trouble, and His sweat. John does so by relating His weeping.
Indeed, if He were not of our nature, He would not have been seized by sorrow, and not once only, but twice.
What then does Jesus do? He does not defend Himself before the Jews against their accusations. And why refute with words those who were about to be refuted by the deed itself?
Meanwhile, such a refutation was less burdensome and could put them more to shame. In the presence of the Jews He opens the tomb, so as to make heralds of the miracle those who persecuted Him.