John Chrysostom
Those who invited Him to the wedding certainly did not have a proper understanding of Him. They invited Him not even as a great man, but simply as an ordinary man and acquaintance. The evangelist hints at this when he says, “The mother of Jesus was there. Jesus also was invited to the wedding, with His disciples.” That is, Jesus was invited just as she and the disciples were.
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But I ask you, collect your thoughts and attend to what is being said. Some excuse themselves by marriage. Others appeal to children, others to military service, others to trade, others to a craft, others to slavery, others to wealth, others to poverty, and others to similar things. Therefore I wish to show you that neither wealth nor poverty is an obstacle. Neither military service, nor trade, nor marriage, nor children, nor slavery, nor craft, nor anything of this sort is an obstacle. “Jesus was invited to the wedding.” Did He go, or did He not go? Clearly He went. If He went, then how can marriage be evil? And do you have no excuse? I say not only that He went, but that He also brought gifts, for He changed the water into wine. Therefore do not offer marriage as your excuse. Your Lord came to a wedding and glorified marriage, while you dishonor marriage and say that marriage is an obstacle. It is no obstacle to piety.
Do you wish to know that having a wife and children is in no way harmful? Did Moses not have a wife and children? Was Elijah not a virgin? Did not Moses bring manna down from heaven? Did not Elijah bring fire down from heaven? Did not Moses cause quails to come? Did not Elijah shut heaven by his word? Did not God speak with Moses? Did God not also speak with Elijah? Did not Moses divide the sea and bring the people through? Did not Elijah ascend in a fiery chariot? Virginity did not harm the one in the least. Wife and children did not hinder the other in the least. You have seen Elijah riding through the air. You have seen Moses journeying through the sea. Look also at Peter, the pillar of the Church, for he too had a wife. It is not written that Peter had a wife. From where, then, is it clear that he had one? I will tell you. “When Jesus came,” Scripture says, “to Peter’s mother-in-law, she was sick; and He touched her, and the fever left her, and she served them” (Mt 8:14-15). Do you see that Peter also had a wife? Where there is a mother-in-law, there clearly is also a wife.
So you see that Peter also had a wife. Do not slander marriage. I say this so that no one may put forward as a pretext either wife, or children, or military service, or trade, or craft, or slavery, or wealth, or poverty. These are excuses. These are pretexts. These are the schemes of the devil. You put forward military service as a pretext and say, “I am a soldier and cannot be devout.” Was not the centurion a soldier? Yet he says to Jesus, “I am not worthy that You should enter under my roof; only speak the word, and my servant will be healed” (Mt 8:8). And Jesus marveled and said, “Truly I say to you, not even in Israel have I found such faith” (Mt 8:10). Did military service hinder him at all?
But what are you? A craftsman? Paul was also one, he who had been a persecutor of the churches, and afterward became a preacher and apostle. But what are you? A rich man? Abraham was also rich, and he had wife and children. “Abraham believed God,” Scripture says, “and it was reckoned to him as righteousness” (Rom 4:3), and he was called the friend of God. Did wealth, or wife, or children hinder him at all? You have no excuse. See, he has three pretexts on which you rely for your excuse: wife, children, and wealth.
But what are you? A slave? Onesimus also was a slave. Paul, writing to Philemon, said of Onesimus, “Formerly he was useless, but now he is useful to you and to me” (Phlm 1:11). But what are you? A king? David also was a king. Nathan the prophet came in to him and rebuked him for the sin he had committed. Did the king act tyrannically toward him? Did he say anything against the prophet? Did he not acknowledge servitude even upon the royal throne, saying, “I have sinned against the Lord”? And the prophet, seeing his repentance, said to him, “The Lord has taken away your sin” (2 Kgs 12:13). Repentance was swift, and forgiveness swifter. The king did not pause and say, “I am king, clothed in purple and wearing a diadem. I have bow and arrows, shields and helmets, and soldiers for defenders. Shall I fear this poor man, and not kill him, but endure him?” He said nothing of the kind. Though he was king, he knew that he had sinned, and therefore he repented. He knew that he had committed a grievous sin. Did royal dignity hinder him at all?
But what are you? A youth? Daniel also was a youth, yet he stopped the mouths of lions, tore the dragon to pieces, overthrew Bel, condemned the elders, and saved Susanna. The imperfection of youth in no way hindered such great virtue. But what are you? A lover of your brother? Joseph was also this. What great philosophy and chastity he displayed toward the Egyptian woman. He tore his garment, but did not tear his faith. He overcame her shamelessness, but did not fulfill her passionate desire. But what are you? A widow? The woman of Sidon was also a widow, who received the prophet Elijah and nourished him with bread and water, so that hunger did not wear down the one who brought famine. But what are you? A harlot? Rahab also was one. She hid the spies, and after the sons of Israel took possession of the land of promise, she herself was saved, together with her house and her kin.
But what are you? A poor man? Lazarus also was poor. What great philosophy and patience he showed in poverty. Although he was in such need, he did not fall miserably. But what are you? A lover of women? Samson also was. Though he was betrayed by a woman, God granted him vengeance, and he was avenged with the help of foreigners. But what are you? A lover of children? Jacob also was. Do you see how many were saved? Do you have faith? You have everything. Do you lack faith, though you are a king? Royal dignity profits you nothing. Yet I have not forgotten my promise.