However, as one enters advanced age, a phase more suitable for nurturing rather than creating children, it becomes inappropriate for a woman to display signs of intimacy, even if lawful, while undertaking the burdens of childbearing at an unsuitable age. The frailty of old age can impede men from marrying, and the dread of being perceived as careless is justified. Young individuals, too, often harbor the wish for children and believe that their longing can justify the passions of youth. Yet, how much more disgraceful it is for the elderly to engage in actions that the young hesitate to acknowledge! Even among the young, those who maintain sobriety of heart through reverence for God frequently turn away from youthful deeds when embracing parenthood.
Is it surprising that animals, without words, reveal their instincts toward procreation rather than mere pleasure? Once they sense that their womb has been fertilized and the seed has taken root, they abandon the delights of intimacy, stepping into the role of nurturing parents. However, humans do not show the same restraint; they put both their unborn children and God to the test, defiling the sanctity of creation. "Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you" (Jeremiah 1:5), declares the Lord. Suppress your boldness and consider the hands of your Creator crafting humanity in the womb. He labors while you debase the sacred mystery through unbridled desires. Either emulate the animals or hold God in reverence! The earth itself often rests from its fruitfulness, and when impatient individuals sow their seeds excessively, the land punishes such recklessness by turning fertility into barrenness. Thus, even the elements and creatures reflect nature's own sense of shame in ceasing from the labor of childbirth.
It is understandable that Saint Elizabeth felt a sense of shame regarding the grace granted to her, despite her recognition that there was no fault in it. Though she had conceived with her husband—an understanding inherent to human conception—she was still self-conscious about the age at which she was to bear a child. She rejoiced in being liberated from the societal stigma, which underscores the shame associated with women who do not receive the fruits of marriage, if marriage is their ultimate goal. Although she found comfort in the removal of this reproach, it came along with the shame of her advanced age. It can be inferred that her husband and she no longer shared the marital bed; otherwise, if she were unashamed of late intimacy, she would not be embarrassed about bearing a child. Yet, she felt the weight of motherhood, still unaware of the sacred mystery she carried.
The one who concealed herself in the secret of her mother’s dignity holds the same shame for her lineage. The woman who once felt ashamed of giving birth to a son began to take pride in her impending role as the mother of a prophet. The once doubt-filled is now emboldened; upon hearing the greeting, she proclaimed, “When the sound of your greeting came to my ears, the baby in my womb leaped for joy” (Luke 1:44). With a loud voice, she celebrated the presence of the Lord, fortified by her understanding of the sacred purpose behind her conception. There was no reason for shame when the prophet's birth affirmed that her conception was a divine blessing rather than a mere impulse.